What if you really don t love? What if you don t love it?

If you really don't love it, break up, the relationship is like this, since it has been wrong, it must end early, it will only make it more painful when you are separated, and you may continue to look for the love that really belongs to you when you leave him!

If you really think about him, end it as soon as possible! Wait until one day long later, when you find that you really can't go on, you are saying that breaking up will be the most cruel harm to him.

Friends upstairs don't say that, I'm the same as the landlord, you don't have real personal experience, you don't understand, I'm in this situation now, I'm the same with my current girlfriend, at first I thought I was in love for a long time, but now there is still no feeling, we are together, it is my responsibility, I don't love her, but her first time gave me, I can't live up to her, I don't love her, I also have to heartache her for a lifetime, take care of her for a lifetime, otherwise you are too unconscionable, do you think what I said is reasonable?

There is a sentence that is really good, barely happy! You don't like the person in front of you, your heart is in another person, not to mention that you live hard, you are also very irresponsible to your boyfriend, are you worthy of him, you are so unfair, you will also feel hard, I see it is also hard!

I think if you really can't fall in love with him, it's best to break up!

That will neither hurt yourself nor make him hurt more, because over time, the less you can like him, and the more he likes you, the more it hurts.

Think about it yourself, don't girls have to find their true love?

It's unfair to your boyfriend, isn't it?

Neither of you will be happy together like this!

Why did you choose to be with him in the first place? Can he give you what the man can't give?

It's not worth giving up the person you love for the sake of such a little thing!

If you can still get that person back, go ahead, because that's the end of your happiness!

I'm in the same situation as you now, but I just can't say it, and of course I know that breaking up is the best, so I'm trying to make him hate me now, so that he will give up on me first,,, I don't know what the outcome will be.

Parted! To be responsible for you is also to be responsible for him.

Of course it's divided.

You're so unkind.

Happy with your own happiness!

I think that falling in love knowing that you are going to break up is an irresponsible behavior, a manifestation of irresponsibility to yourself and to the other party. Love needs to be managed and paid, if you know that you want to break up but still fall in love, it will only make both parties fall into pain and helplessness. Therefore, I suggest that before falling in love, you should seriously think about your relationship state and ability, and don't fall in love easily, let alone fall in love even though you know you want to break up.

I don't think you've ever stopped liking you and him/her, it's just that you've accepted the fact that love doesn't work. Is that right.

Mr. Fan Deng told a short story about a famous American management master, Stephen Covey.

A student asked Stephen Covey, "Teacher, I don't love my wife anymore, what should I do?" ”

Covey: "Then you should love her!" ”

Student: "You may not have heard clearly, but I mean I don't love her anymore." ”

Covey: "Then you should love her!" ”

Student: "I said I don't love her anymore, why do you keep making me love her, it's weird!" ”

Covey: "Love is a verb. You should love her now. ”

We can understand that love is a verb, not a state, and that when we feel that there is no love in our hearts and we don't want to separate, it's time to take loving action.

The act of love, the most direct one, is praise. If you are biased against someone, you will not have time to love that person. Therefore, learn to let go of prejudice and praise each other, so that you have the opportunity to discover the possibility of love.

A lot of people like to be seen and recognized for their strengths and efforts. I once saw a netizen leave a message: "The other half is boastful, my husband is, he likes to work very much, and he only needs to praise every day."

For example: Wow, mopping the floor, so clean! My husband smiled and worked harder.

From the interpretation of the material attributes of the five elements, Ding Huo and Ren Shui are a pair of best friends, and they are also the two people who like to be praised the most, just like a star is surrounded by thousands of applause, Ding Huo and Ren Shui are a natural perfect match, mutual appreciation for each other, mutual fulfillment, the five elements are called Ding Renhe.

If your significant other is talking, always emphasize that you must look at him with your eyes when listening; With a good performance, I always like to get your recognition and praise immediately, and you can judge that he is Ding Renhe's person.

For Ding Renhe's people, praise must be timely.

Ding Renhe's people will say what they do: "Wife, look, I did a big cleaning of the kitchen to see how it works?" "At this time, you must not be stingy with your words:

Wow, look at the bright reflection of this tile, this stove is spotless. It feels like you've moved to a new house, husband, you're too serious and too diligent. "Full praise for good place.

At this time, the most taboo is to point out that the cleaning is not in place, which will dampen their enthusiasm. Ding Renhe's people are praised, and in addition to being proud, they will find that there are more areas to improve, in their eyes, there is no best, only better.

If you find that your wife is wearing a new dress and dangling in front of you, you must let go of what you are doing: "Wife, you are so beautiful in this dress, it fits your temperament very well." "You will find that your wife is getting better at dressing up and looking better.

If you ignore it every time, it's easy for the other person to lose interest in dressing up. So to blame your daughter-in-law for being a "yellow-faced woman", it is better to reflect on whether you lack attention and appreciation.

Love begins with praise and recognition.

To be clear, you're still in a relationship, so there's still room for reversal. But if you have already received a marriage certificate, a friendly reminder that divorce is to divide property, think twice.

You have to ask yourself, is it really not in love or because you have been together for a long time, but you don't pay so much attention to it, you have to think clearly, because there is no lack of thoughtlessness, and you still can't let go after a breakup, but often there is no regret medicine in the world.

If you have decided that you are not in love, then you also need to think about what you have given in the relationship, and if you have given too much in the early stage, then you should weigh whether it is worth giving up what you have already paid.