What is it like to have no feelings for everything around you?

In a state of despair, I would feel that the world was boring, and I was not interested in the flowers around me, so gradually I was full of despair in life.

It's like seeing through the world. I think all the joys, sorrows, and emotional ups and downs in our lives are actually a manifestation of not seeing through everything. Seeing through should be an attitude, in the face of all changes, twists and turns, detours, accidents can be calmly handled, this calmness is not to say that it doesn't matter, but the ultimate understanding of all reincarnation things, to understand that this is the development process of everything, not to be measured by a gain and loss mentality.

It is expressed in the state of mind, which is a philosophical view of all things. In fact, I am an ordinary person myself, and the above views are just the words of one family. If seeing through everything is so simple, and you only need to put your own psychology in place, then people who continue to practice on this road, and even spend their whole lives, don't it show that seeing through is also a dynamic process of change? ‍‍

Thoughts are clear, like being in the abyss. That's the experience you want to know. Be able to understand the operation rules behind things and see the ins and outs behind things.

In this way, you have a thread that travels through time, and you can see through the past and foresee the future. But this is also divided into high and low ranks, the high ranks can make accurate judgments, while the low ranks only have a vague understanding and can't grasp some details. For example, time, scale, place, people, techniques.

I don't like to communicate with people, because people who have deeper insights than me won't tell me the truth, and most of the time they just fool me into selling his life! People with less insight than me are talking, I don't need to listen to it!! Really for your good to eat to say quality opinions, obviously this is very rare, most people are trying to figure out you, how happy you are he said.

When you are too lazy to socialize because you think that people are taking advantage of each other; When you're too lazy to fall in love because you think it's just a lie made up for marriage; When you are too lazy to sympathize because you think that all misfortunes have already happened, and you can't do anything about it; When you have ignored all moral principles in your heart and become an extremely "selfish" and "ruthless" person in the eyes of others, we can say that you have seen through everything, but what is the fun of this? ‍‍

I was extremely negative inside, but people who didn't know me well thought I was lively, cheerful, optimistic, strong, and competitive. In the self-introduction of the interview, I said that when I was lively and cheerful and optimistic, I was actually embarrassed in my heart, the real me was negative, pessimistic, distrustful of human nature, and did not have much motivation to do things, relying on self-esteem and a sense of responsibility to do things, and the rest went with the flow. I don't dare to say that I can see it through, I can only say that being a man is not interesting, since I am a man, I will stick to it to the end. ‍‍

I am a 27-year-old girl, I really dare not say that I have seen through everything, but I vaguely feel that I can gradually feel the beauty, ugliness, helplessness, jealousy and so on of human nature in the process of growing up. If you think about the root cause of everything from the perspective of human nature, you can vaguely feel that you are slowly understanding everything.

When I feel this way, it is probably when I am in deep sleep, I feel very good, not only do I have no feeling for everything around me, but I also enter a stage of selflessness, I just need to enjoy it, not only not everyone has a good quality of sleep.

If this is the case, you may feel that you have no desires, as if you have no pursuits, and you may feel flat.

It's probably the feeling that the heart is like ashes, and everything is at peace with the situation.

It may be that the visual loss caused by playing games and watching the computer for a long time, and at the same time lack of concentration, it is recommended to rest more, eat more fruits to supplement vitamin C, quit the computer, and go out more activities to breathe fresh air.

You are brain deprived of oxygen! Insufficient blood supply to the brain! Stop playing on the computer, adjust your schedule, and go to bed on time. Do outdoor sports appropriately.

Stop playing games, put a few potted plants in your bedroom, and go out on a trip to a natural scenic spot to feel the charm of nature!

Based on what you say alone, you can't tell if you're depressed.

Now is an age when you need to find your own direction. However, when the external environment is changing rapidly, the human environment is a bit 'corresponding' lagging behind. When there seems to be psychedelic lights and traffic everywhere, we feel lost and overwhelmed by being in a complex and different **.

I didn't dare to take the first step for a long time.

Our feet give us the ability to 'step towards' something. Placed in confusion, and hesitated in place. When I see others giving full play to their abilities, I am always shackled by a certain kind of thinking, and there is often a gap in my heart because of this.

We will always habitually use what our eyes receive to develop a certain kind of thinking. Because of this, we always subconsciously think that we are in some kind of center—the center of life—the center of happiness, the center of unhappiness, and so on. I have always used my limited self-perception to determine my behavior; But he has never used rational judgment and experience to decide.

The object is needed for the generation of interest. And if you don't do anything, you don't face anything. The object doesn't exist, so what's the change?

An excuse, a reason. It always makes a person look directly at himself, and avoiding will never solve the problem. Since God will not give you anything, you can only let yourself face life.

Put what you want into action and participate with your heart. Life is just a blank, and what you put into life will give you what life will give you back. Slack life, life can only surround itself with a gloomy landscape.

When my mentality changes, the color of my life also changes.

The most important thing is that you have to do something. It's not that I don't have interest, it's just that I never use my actions to satisfy myself. When you are satisfied, you have the energy to look forward to it, and sometimes that's how interest comes from.

I don't feel for everyone, it may be that I like someone, I haven't met someone I love, and I don't want to fall in love yet, so I have to live alone and ignore others. It's not a big deal, maybe all of you in this environment are not suitable for you, or you don't think the people around you are good.

I feel a little sad when I don't have feelings for everyone, have I become numb? But why did it end up like this? Maybe my love is gone, and I will never fall in love with someone again, and I will feel very painful and haggard when I think about it.

Depressed, it's good after a while, I feel like I'll wake up, even if I don't have someone I love, but I can love myself, work hard to learn, I think my greatest pleasure is to read books, read more books, and spend time in a limited life to try to make yourself excellent.

In fact, I am a person who doesn't care, no matter what the environment is, the most important thing is my own heart. As long as you think about happiness in your heart, everything will become happy, and if I feel that everything is unfair, of course I will not be happy. I'm a very optimistic person, even if I don't feel for everyone, but I still like to fantasize about things, and I think that although these fantasies make me stupid, they also bring me a lot of happiness and make me spend a lot of time.

I feel that in fact, it can also be cultivated slowly, and I have many examples of this, I am not afraid of waiting, I am afraid of waiting, and there is no result. Many times there is a feeling, but there is a separation. It's better not to feel at all, so that the breakup can be a little free.

Not feeling for everyone is a feeling of being solipsistic and fearless.

In fact, walking on the campus and taking a closer look at the people walking by, you will still find that there are many handsome guys and beauties on campus, but because the meeting time is too short and the chance of meeting again is too small, there is no interest in them.

Another reason is that students who are short-sighted and don't like to wear glasses walk on the road to see who is handsome and everyone is beautiful. The world is blurred, and there is no desire for the handsome guys and beauties passing by.

Most of the time I feel good to be single. Seeing the couples around me didn't feel envious at all. A state of desirelessness.

It may also be that you are busy with your own business and don't pay attention to this aspect of it. There is not that much need for emotion.

It's a bad experience to not feel for everyone, and people who feel this way have to reflect on themselves.

It's just living in your own world, and you don't know much about anyone else! As long as you're good!

I think it's just that you haven't met the one in your life yet. If you want to meet him, socialize with others, and then maybe you can meet him.

Maybe you have some shortcomings in dealing with interpersonal relationships, and I suggest you a few:

1 Try not to be too hypocritical and stingy, try to be easy-going. Usually think more about others (to do naturally, not very hypocritically).

2 When a friend is in trouble or wronged, comfort him in time, if he wants to hear it. When your classmates are in trouble, you should also take the initiative to help, so that others feel that you are a very enthusiastic person and care about others.

3 Usually, if your classmates ask you to borrow money, you can forget about one yuan or two yuan. If you have a lot, you can make excuses if you don't want to borrow.

4. In daily life, you must have your own opinions, have certain skills, be independent, and do not always rely on others. Otherwise, it will be very annoying and even look down on. Strive to develop competencies in all areas. This can make others feel safe with you.

5 Don't show off yourself too much, plain is the truth. You must know that real people do not leak the phase, and if you make a shot when you should shoot, you can be a blockbuster. People won't turn against you because you're too arrogant. (Updated).

6 Don't be too pretentious, and don't be too cold. As a girl, you must be steady in your work, and don't be arrogant and lose everything. It's very off-putting. When making decisions, it's best to get it right the first time and not be indecisive.

7. Add color to the language, such as humorous and funny. But it's important to remember that when you're joking, you're joking (in moderation), but when you're on business, you have to be serious. This will make others feel safe staying with you.

In the future, I will naturally get closer to you.

Maybe it will be okay in the future, I wish you all the better in the future.

Is it that you have a particularly strong self-esteem, and the look of others and the tone of your voice will affect your mood.

As a volunteer, you have a sense of existence when you say it.

Are you an introvert who doesn't like to communicate?

But less self-confidence. It is advisable to read more books.

That makes you feel presence.

Then create a presence for yourself.

10 years ago today, my parents and nieces came to Chengdu to see us, and we planned to go to Dujiangyan to play, because my father was tired, and he had a day of rest at home. At that time, I was writing something on the computer, and suddenly the door of the room was loud, and then Fang Zhiqi shook his trembling son, picked up a small bag with a key wallet and mobile phone and rushed to the living room, and shouted to his parents and nieces who were watching TV, go downstairs. Mom and I rushed out of the house as soon as possible, and Mom was about to press the elevator, but I decisively stopped it, it would be fatal.

Pulling my mother down the stairs, I didn't forget to shout to my father to remember to close the door. The stairwell shook more and more, the mud kept falling, the stairs in front of me were S-shaped, and I could go down smoothly by holding on to the sway, and in those three or five minutes, I thought of death, and I must go to the ground before the house collapsed, otherwise I would not be reconciled, and there were still many things to do at the age of 36. When I got to the ground, I found that my mother and I were the first to come out, anxiously waiting for my father to appear, time seemed to stand still, and a few minutes seemed to be half-defeated for a century.

Dad hugged his four-year-old chubby little niece, and when he appeared out of breath, he said a joke, and the woman ran the fastest. Wearing slippers, I ran quickly to the kindergarten, hoping that my daughter was safe. On the kindergarten playground, the children sat on the playground in pajamas, seemingly not waking up from their naps, and I told the principal that the aftershocks continued, and the responsibility of the school was too great, so let the parents take the children away.

The moment I grabbed the hand of five-year-old Xiao Ke, I was relieved and faced it together.

I'm a second-class person, right?,The lucky number is also a tease 2.,The long number is also 4.。 I haven't been to my grandmother's house for a long time. I stayed at my grandmother's house for so long, but it didn't matter, and then things were quite terrible, and I still feel a little scared when I think about it, it's the kind of old yard, which is usually more humid, and grandma likes to grow vegetables, and grows a lot of vegetables in the big lead in the yard at home, so there are a lot of mosquitoes, especially the kind of grass mosquitoes, big ones, and they also bite me, because I found that my grandmother has no traces of being bitten at all, but I roll my fingers, and the legs and feet are bitten all over the body. I also pulled the mosquito net and lit the mosquito coil, and I also touched the anti-inflammatory flower water, but this is simply hell on earth.

I've never been bitten so badly, and I really don't want to have this experience. I don't dare to wear sandals, shorts and skirts, and I have to endure the eyes of others every time. It's the first time I've experienced scar removal, otherwise there would be such a thing as a scar!

But fortunately, it was cured with a blackening scrub and a scar removal gel.