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First of all, the mother-in-law should have a correct attitude, do not have a son, daughter, daughter-in-law in any matter, fair, just and open, if you repeatedly favor the son and daughter, the daughter-in-law will naturally have dissatisfaction, to understand that she was not born to you, of course, she is sensitive to the problem, if the mother-in-law can take into account the feelings of the daughter-in-law, home, natural harmony. When the mother is down, persuade the old man to be more tolerant and understanding for the sake of the son, and when the daughter-in-law is resentful, comfort and comfort her, and persuade her to let more for the sake of the husband. There is also a sister-in-law or eldest sister, for the happy life of your parents in their later years, don't worry about the affairs of your mother's family, because it is difficult for the younger brother to be in the middle, get along sincerely with the younger brother-in-law, and the daughter-in-law also does more housework, and the in-laws are old.
When the conflict occurs, find your own reasons, and use warm behavior to touch the other party's dissatisfaction, home is a plain companionship, and happiness comes from personal inner understanding and tolerance.
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In addition to buying her some delicious food or buying her some favorite clothes on Mother's Day or other festivals, etc., in addition to honoring her materially, we should also impart some new knowledge to her spiritually. Only in this way can we better handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and mother-in-law can take care of you as her own daughter.
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First of all, mutual respect and understanding, "Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you.""It is a golden word for dealing with interpersonal relationships, and it is also completely suitable for dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can put themselves in each other's shoes and understand each other in getting along, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not only not have major conflicts, but also develop a parent-child relationship.
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Avoid quarrels, differences between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, when there is a conflict, both parties must keep a cool head, when one party reacts emotionally, the other party must remain calm and silent, or look for opportunities to get away and avoid. Wait for the tense to subside before exchanging views and dealing with the problem. Let's remember, if your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not compatible, don't tell your relatives, friends and neighbors, because the more and more words are spread, they will be unrecognizable, which will only exacerbate the contradictions, and it will not help them, so you should take them as a warning.
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As a daughter-in-law, she has a high level of education, fast reaction ability, and has a lot of contact with new things, but don't show too much strength in front of her mother-in-law. It is necessary to reason with the facts for the mother-in-law, so that the facts speak louder than words.
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Combine material filial piety with emotional communication to care for each other and understand each other. Finally, play the intermediary role of the son, who can help the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to communicate psychologically. When there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the son can play a guiding role, and through the son's maneuvering, the psychological barriers of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be eliminated, so that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be reconciled as before!
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If the mother-in-law can help, most daughters-in-law will be grateful. If you don't help, you can also give your daughter-in-law more understanding and tolerance. Don't treat your mother-in-law well and respect your mother-in-law because of your daughter-in-law's kindness, so that the old man can do all kinds of things at his daughter-in-law.
In the end, the daughter-in-law was completely chilled, and she no longer smiled at the old man; Soft Voice; Be very worried about.
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If it is a matter of principle of right and wrong, if the mother-in-law can't change her thinking and understanding for a while, don't be too willful, learn from your daughter-in-law and ask for advice. Don't be condescending, the atmospheric pressure is strong, and you will admit that you are dead.
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The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is because my mother-in-law doesn't like me, so I just dodge it, I will never take the initiative to communicate, and my mother-in-law will not invite me to come, isn't it?
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First of all, it is a matter of principle, such as one side has reactionary remarks; judgments that do not conform to ethical standards; Distorting the truth and so on, there must be no concessions.
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Empathy, if both parties can do it, I don't think there is any contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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I try not to speak, I just don't express my opinion when she says anything, and then I try to minimize contact, and I don't meet without much of a big deal.
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I will mediate in the middle, first let the daughter-in-law obey the mother's request, on the surface only promise, and then close the door, coax the daughter-in-law well, redouble the love for the daughter-in-law, and alleviate her grievances!
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1. Communicate with each other with your mother-in-law, be filial and tolerant.
Second, when there is a conflict, it is necessary to avoid quarrels.
Third, men are the bridge between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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When faced with the conflict between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I will definitely not lose my temper, I will reflect on my behavior, whether there is something wrong, and then sincerely apologize to the other party.
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In fact, many families are facing the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to deal with. If the mother-in-law is really excessive, you can ask the husband to talk to the mother-in-law. You can sit down with your mother-in-law and talk about your thoughts.
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