What is the experience of being very immature in your boyfriend?

Very tired, every time I talk to him, he always says some childish things and does some childish actions, living together I always feel like I have raised a son, very helpless.

First, there is no empathy. As long as there is a problem between the two sides, more often than not, they are in a kind of "what the hell am I doing wrong" face loop. If you reason with him, he will either blow up or have a wronged face, which can make you angry to death.

Mind you, this isn't pretending, it's really that way. Second, due to the low level of cognition, I basically spend every day in reasoning, and I feel that I am not talking about a boyfriend, but raising a son. The point is!

I'm not here to you!

Without knowing how to listen, you are always absent-minded when you speak, barely responding, and then quickly change the subject. When I'm angry with him, I never know why I'm angry, and if I can't come back after a few coaxes, he will get angry, and I feel like I have to coax him back again.

Sweet is sometimes feeling like a mother. The boyfriend is immature, and he has to tolerate her everywhere in many aspects, take care of her, control his emotions, and it is difficult to communicate rationally on some issues of principle.

The evaluation of oneself is incorrect, the positioning is incorrect, and the beautiful name is "I am only like this to you, not to others", for example, "I am very stable with others, but I will often have great emotional ups and downs with you".

I've been with him for almost seven years. We've grown up and grown over the years. It is said that girls mature earlier than boys, so I will take into account many things and he does not.

I was almost growing up with him, teaching him how to fall in love, teaching him all sorts of things. But now that he has graduated from college, he is already a young man in his twenties, and he is still immature, and he will not let me do anything. No matter what happens, find trouble and quarrel.

Actually, to be honest, because of him, I don't think about whether we can get married now. I was scared that if I had to do this for the rest of my life, I would be crazy.

My boyfriend is three years older than me, and he usually has a good sense of humor and is lively like a child, but when something needs to be solved, I am like a child. For example, when I quarreled, I habitually had a cold war (influenced by my parents), but he was different, he always deliberately avoided the cold war, and would always do everything possible to coax me to apologize happily and admit my mistakes, maybe he loved me more than I loved him

I feel very tired, as if I have brought a child, which is not worry-free, and sometimes makes you cry and laugh.

I have a phobia of choice, and every time I hesitate for a long time when it comes to choosing, he always laughs at me, but when I get to the self-selection window of the cafeteria, when I need to make a quick decision about what to eat, he always comes behind me.

I explained to him why I couldn't go to the appointment, and he insisted that I accompany him and delay my affairs.

We may think that when we are young, a boy is not so sensible, and in many ways is reckless, and he doesn't know how to deal with it, and as he gets older, he won't be like this.

Thinking that he will definitely become a man with age and become what he wants.

In fact, age will increase, that is something that everyone needs to face, but not everyone will become more stable because they are older, their cognition will improve, and they will also know how to cherish a relationship more.

Growth is a compulsory course, but maturity is an elective course, there are always some people, he never feels that he has anything wrong, he can't see his own problems at all, but he will always be like that.

Yes, many people, even if they are thirty or forty years old, are still just like children, with no responsibility at all, no sense of responsibility, and no growth at all.

Some boys, with him, will really not feel the present, nor can they feel the future at all.

The state of the whole person will only be very helpless and hopeless.

This situation has never been rare, and when many women understand this fact, they will naturally only be able to avoid it, and they are not willing to let themselves fall into such a situation at all.

The price is very high, and it will be very hard for yourself.

If you say that with a more mature man, a woman will be loved, spoiled, and feel very happy, the other party is not only her boyfriend, but also like an elder who takes care of herself, and an immature boy will be like having one more child.

Not only does he have no way to give his own goodness and make women feel more relaxed, but he also needs women to take care of them in an all-round way.

Not only in life, but also in many things, women are always needed to come forward, once there are any problems with each other, what twists and turns are encountered, it will be very emotional and irrational.

With such a person, at first it will feel fresh, the woman will have good patience and be more maternal, but after a long time, she will feel very tired and not easy at all.

Even if one day, he can really transform, it will take a lot of time and a woman to bear a lot.

Not all women can be so uncomplaining and can really bear all that.

When it comes to falling in love, more and more people actually begin to have an idea, hoping to be happy, relaxed, and responsive, instead of always feeling very painful, always giving by themselves, and always being so uncomfortable.

When a relationship is very heavy, she simply doesn't want it than to be stuck in it all the time, and feels that it is better to be alone.