I know it s a bit impossible, so what should I do? 20

After getting married, you can visit the door as a family member to enjoy it! Why do you have to keep it for yourself! There are some things that you don't have to have to feel worth.

You can't ask for this thing, your family can't afford it.

What you owe to your parents, you pay it yourself, and you pay it with your heart.

There are many ways to be filial, you belong to the purpose, I think it has violated the principle of filial piety, if your girlfriend's family knows it will think that you are greedy for vanity, there is some kind of purpose to be with his daughter, like not necessarily to take it for yourself, the real baby can be seen from a distance and can not be blasphemed, you understand this truth.

How to say it, I think, since her father is so precious that Yuan Qinghua, it is difficult to accompany it as a dowry, in fact, think about it from another angle, since the two of you are married, then you are in-laws, right? Since it's a family, it's actually a family, right? Since your dad and her dad both like that Yuan Qinghua so much, then you can discuss with your partner, can your dad go to her dad's house to study Yuan Qinghua together in his free time, or enjoy and discuss it together?

In this way, your father can often see it, and her father will not give up the baby, isn't it better? If you open your mouth and tell your partner that you want Yuan Qinghua to be a dowry, if your father-in-law disagrees, doesn't it hurt the peace? Besides, if you think about it, your father-in-law is so precious, can you bear to take away love?

Understand that you want to repay your parents, but you can't let others give up your baby because of your kindness, what do you think?

A word of advice: it's best not to speak.

History has foolishness. Now it is foolish and filial.

If you open your mouth, you risk ruining your relationship.

She'll think you're taking advantage of her.

Although you are not, this behavior is something anyone would guess about.

That's right, people have to have backbone! Being a filial son is not about asking others to achieve your goal of being a filial son! Since it's someone else's thing, how can it be given to you for nothing?!

Something worth 10 million and you want someone to give it to you casually? Do you want to be a filial son or do you want that value? If that's the case, I think filial piety is just an excuse for you!

It's best to try to hint at her first, if it doesn't feel possible, it's impossible to have to, otherwise it will affect the relationship, or you can try to say in front of your father-in-law that your father likes it very much but hasn't seen it, and if your father-in-law is willing to let it, it's fine, if you don't, it proves that no matter what you do, you can't get it, then you can take your father to her house when you have time to look at it.

If you like it, why keep it at home? Wouldn't it be more sad if it was accidentally damaged? As long as the person is good, healthy and long-lived, go to your father-in-law's house to see it, or get a high imitation.

The son-in-law of a rich man is not good, heh.

First of all, what can you give to someone? RV happiness? It's not a level of things, you're too extravagant, and it's not a shame to stay with your parents to appreciate it. After all, the two families are in-laws, and before asking others, think about whether they have an equivalent exchange that makes people care.

Returning your parents is in accordance with your love for your parents, filial piety is the most important thing, you spend more time with them, give them more care than material can warm their hearts......

If you are really a filial son, you know that you owe too much to your parents, so you want to rely on your own efforts to make your parents happy. Yuan Qinghua is far from your father, I don't think it can be much happier for him than your own successful career and happy family. Since you know that Yuan Qinghua is also the favorite of your fiancée's father, you shouldn't have the idea of winning people's love, which will make you and your wife not get along, but take your father to your in-laws' house to watch Yuan Qinghua, I don't think it should be a difficult thing for a strong man.

You're embarrassed to ask such a question???

Why covet her family's wealth? Why do you want to do it when you know it's too much? Your parents should repay you for buying a house and a car, raising you so big, but why should you repay them in this way?

After marriage, the two of them should be filial to their parents, this is what they should really do, which is much more precious than what Yuan Qinghua is. Besides, won't the inheritance of both parties be left to you in the future? What are you anxious about?!

There are many ways to rely on yourself and be filial to your parents, if you want to speak, say it tactfully, and don't force it if you don't want to speak.

We are poor and have backbone.

I think unless he (she) is married, otherwise you have a chance, if it's really impossible, just give up, this is the wisest thing to do, don't leave your thoughts in your heart, then you will be more painful, and even collapse, one of my previous practices was to play with my friends more, play cards with them, play games, play ball to forget, after about half a year, has been diluted, and diluted into even if you meet is just the kind of ordinary friends, hehe. So you have to replace the thoughts of that relationship, such as finding another lover, if this person is very good and cares about you, then you can probably forget about it in a month. Hehe, these are my experiences, I hope you can forget about everything unpleasant and be happy every day!

Silent blessings, this is your best way to express it.

Since you feel that you don't want to do this, you can rest assured that you are responsible for each other.

Keep this four years in your heart.

Go with the flow and don't force it.

Feelings are like this, let's be happy.

1.Does he love you? If love, to what extent?

2.Do you love him exactly? Do you love him or do you give up on him? It's impossible with him, how can it be impossible?

I think it's man-made!

I thought it was impossible at the beginning, but it was really impossible, wasn't it?

Divert your attention, after all, it's decided, why let yourself be too hurt, forget about it early, I hope you can meet the right other half as soon as possible.

I'm in this situation now, I have to give up, it's very painful and very uncomfortable.

If you say that it is impossible, give up, the twisted melon is not sweet. In fact, if you ask like this, it means that you still have a mind in your heart, forget it, and it will disappear.

Friends....Bless him if you love him, and give him happiness in the end.

It is certain to be sad in my heart, and it is not that I will not be sad if I am persuaded by others. It's still up to you. The main thing now is to control yourself from contacting him.

Otherwise it will be even more sad. Don't let your sadness overflow, no matter how sad you are, try to live with a smile, think about something else, buy new clothes, get a new hairstyle, dress yourself up more energetically and beautifully, and you will feel confident. If you want to talk to a friend, you must not look for someone who is in a sweet state of love, she will not understand your pain.

Find someone who has been hurt and can understand you. I was also out of love half a year ago, and I was sad for a while, but then I met my current boyfriend and am happy now. Everything is in the past.

It's going to be fine.

Does he not want you or do you not want him?

Do you want people or money? I don't understand! This is like two loving couples? One ran away with someone else, and the other was thinking about how to get his money back, I think it's better to leave, you are already distracted.

The relationship is no longer there, why do you need money. Money is something outside the body and can be earned.

It's better not to say for sure, don't live with her, after all, you must have feelings, she followed you despite the opposition, which means that she was not like this at the beginning, reflect on yourself, whether you have done something good enough. Don't be angry for a while, if you really can't get by, the money is considered the joint property after marriage.

Sincerely persuade her, tell her the stakes of the matter, and then mobilize relatives and friends to persuade together, remember to be very good friends and relatives. Otherwise, she would feel ashamed. Take your time, the little ones are innocent. Giving children a complete home is the minimum for parents.

The best thing is to solve the problem peacefully with her, since he doesn't want to spend the New Year with you, then you can have a good talk with him, everyone can solve the problem calmly, and it is best to get together and disperse.

I think it's better to talk to her first. If you want a divorce, find a lawyer early, the lawyer is more professional.

Leave, do you dare to ask for such a person?