Why did you resolutely choose to drift north?

Although the pace of life in a big city like Beijing is breathless, and the prices and rents are extremely high, I can tolerate all of this, and I stay in Beijing as an inconspicuous small clerk. My bosses are all bigwigs, I can always learn things with them, and the company has a lot of resources, which can be regarded as broadening my human world, which is conducive to my development, and will always be far ahead of small cities. <>

Since falling in love with him in Beipiao, in order not to have a long-distance relationship, I resolutely chose the life of Beipiao.

After my boyfriend and I fell in love, he worked hard alone in Beijing, although the pace here is fast-paced and stressful, but the development space is also obvious to all, so many young people have chosen here, which is also one of the reasons why I drift north, and the main thing is that I want to be with my boyfriend every day, and we work together to make progress together.

Although it is not easy to drift north, being able to get along with him day and night also makes me feel extremely happy and happy. <>

Other urban developments can realize their dreams and life values.

I remember when I first came to Beijing, I was really homeless when I was wandering, I was really scared at that time, and then I was introduced to a company by a friend to work, and at that time I found the right sense of direction, put all my energy into work, and worked hard to do my own business.

It can be said that in the days of Beipiao, I have tasted all the ups and downs, and I have also grown up. <>

Because I want to change the current predicament, to pursue a life that I want, and at the same time I am very young, have capital, can afford to lose, and is not afraid of any danger. In the end, I resolutely chose Beipiao, and in the process of Beipiao, I also met a large number of people, and now my life is also very good.

Because after graduation, I worked directly in the third and fourth tier cities in my hometown, and lived with a salary of 3,000 yuan a month, I felt that I could not continue like this, and I could see the bottom of my life at a glance, so I resolutely chose Beipiao, even if Beipiao was very hard, but his opportunities and difficulties were equal. And then there's the fact that I'm young and I have plenty of time to go through setbacks.

After graduating from university, in order to have better development opportunities, I resolutely chose Beipiao, because although Beijing is under great pressure, but he has many opportunities, so I feel that I can't develop in that kind of small rural area at all, and I may not be able to go out for a lifetime, I must work hard in Beijing.

Because I want to discover more value in myself, I want to know a different version of myself, and on the other hand, the reason is that I want to try to live an adventurous life, and I don't want to live a life where I can see the end at a glance. I wanted to contact more excellent people and see the wider world, so I resolutely chose Beipiao.

Because I was able to realize my dream there, I saw a lot of people going to that place, because there were many opportunities to let my talents be displayed to a certain extent, and I was able to meet very good people, and the life of struggle was particularly meaningful.

In my opinion, there are a lot of opportunities in Beijing, and I myself am also a person who is not willing to be bland, so I resolutely chose to drift north and work hard for myself in Beijing, because there are many opportunities in Beijing, as long as I want to go up, Beijing can give me opportunities, but the premise is that I must be very capable.

When I found that I couldn't continue like this, I decided to go to Beijing, I thought that life in Beijing might be a little hard, and even the pace of life would be too fast for me to keep up. But I feel like that's what I want to live like I am, and I feel like it can bring out my potential and make me stressed. I also firmly believe that through my efforts, I can live well in Beijing.

Because of my dreams, I had a dream in my heart that I wanted to see a bigger world, and I wanted to hold my own upward desire in those opportunities, so I chose to go to the big city to pursue my dream, where I could become the person I wanted to be.

Beijing is a desirable city, and every young person wants to experience it here, but as they get older, more and more people from the north have left here, many because their children go to school. It's more because I've drifted enough, and I always feel like a kite with a broken string, floating in the sky over Beijing but can't find a corner to put it. Maybe it's because I've struggled in Beijing for so many years, and I haven't broken out of a territory of my own, and I'm tired.

With a tired heart, he dragged his family back to the city where he grew up, everything was so familiar and yet unfamiliar. Relatives and friends in my hometown have their own careers and are busy every day. Suddenly I felt like I didn't belong in the city because there was nothing I could do.

It's very lost every day. With some savings, I wanted to do something, but after so many years of work experience in Beijing, it seems that it is useless in my hometown. All kinds of encounters are against the wall, and it turns out that it is really not an easy task to do business.

There are old people and young people, and it is impossible not to be in a hurry. People encounter this kind of bottleneck in middle age. How to break through? Confused as I am, or I don't know what to do.

Men go back to Beijing to work, and women take their children to school in their hometowns, take care of the family, and take care of the elderly. I think many families now adopt this kind of lifestyle of living separately and dividing their labor, so that they can earn money to support their families and take care of their children's schooling.

Men and women are looking for a job in their hometown, although they earn less, but once they talk about the family living together, the elderly and children can take care of it, and the sense of happiness is higher than the previous one. However, some people who return to their hometowns from Beijing may not be able to find a job. Because of my age, my work experience and thinking are different, it is difficult to cooperate.

Use the savings earned in Beijing to do business, no need to work, no need to dislike the low salary in your hometown, and no need to be angry with the boss, but you may succeed or fail.

I have the courage to say "the world is big, I want to go out and see it", but I don't have the determination to overcome reality. Now the complaining people seem to be incompetent. I didn't break out of my own world in Beijing, and I didn't know where to go in my hometown. Giving up the North Drift made me even more confused.

There are many interesting things in life, and life still needs to be struggled and worked hard. How can we get rid of the confusion?

In the family of Beipiao, the pursuit of unity and friendship has a bright future, and the encouragement of hard work is also a kind of free and easy.

It's been 10 years, and I plan to hold on for another 5 years, social security or something, and then I go home and open a small shop.

A friend of mine, who has been working in Beijing for more than ten years, has worked very hard as a husband and wife, and in order to save money, he shares a house with someone else, and the building is capitalized. Later, his wife went back to her hometown to partner in early childhood education, about 10,000 yuan a month, and she lived a very happy life. Now my friend went to Shenzhen, took a private job to earn money, and bought a house with a down payment.

My wife didn't want to go to Shenzhen, and felt that she didn't even have any relatives around her when she went to Shenzhen, and her two children needed to be taken care of, so she could only be a housewife and had no income, and now she is a little depressed. said that Beipiao has been a little injured for more than ten years, but the husband and wife cannot live separately for a long time, and they will have to pass next year.

After graduating last year, it's been almost a year, and I actually have 6 months of work experience, doing design, from 4,000 per month, to 10,000 per month, and I have changed two companies. I feel like I'm all lucky, but I'm also grateful for the luck that Beijing has brought me. ‍‍

When you are young, if you harvest money as expected, you must have gained experience, if you don't have that, at least you have gained vision, and when it comes to starting a family, stay or not, weigh the pros and cons and then decide, this is what I think, come on! Thank you Beijing for everything! ‍‍

After coming to Beijing in 99 years and starting to drift north, although I experienced too many ups and downs during the period, I never had the idea of giving up, I insisted on studying while working, and constantly improving my ability. Engaged in real estate development and marketing, from an ordinary employee to the company's marketing general, the house has also changed from two bedrooms to three bedrooms, after graduating from graduate school, I also successfully moved the hukou to Beijing, the children and wife's hukou also moved to Beijing according to the policy, the children also entered the Beijing No. 8 Middle School to study, the results are relatively ideal. I am now co-founding a company, and my business is gradually on the right track, so I am full of hope for the future.

Therefore, I have no regrets about the choice to come to Beijing to do drifting, and I hope that more Beipiao people will insist on persisting and persevering, as long as you have a dream and make efforts, Beijing will not let you down! ‍‍

I just came to Beijing, I have a really sad life, I don't have much money, these two months are really tormenting, I can't eat or sleep well, I have a lot of work pressure, I work for a long time, the landlord urges me every day, plus I am older, I am really confused and anxious, now I have adapted, I feel that I am more willing to choose to persist than give up. ‍‍

After staying in Beijing for 3 years, I finally returned to my hometown, and Beijing gave people the feeling that the pace of life was too fast, and if you didn't pay attention to it, you would be eliminated. But I have never regretted it, a person's life is very short, only after experience, tried, walked different roads, seen different scenery, experienced more people, customs, can I feel my own shortcomings, my own shortcomings. I still often think of my former colleagues and friends, during that time, I was happy and depressed, I learned a lot of things, enriched my life experience, and made my current self more and more mature and stable. ‍‍

I have been adrift in Beijing for more than 3 years, I have gained money, connections, knowledge, and many friends, but I have lost the reunion with my family, the warmth of my family, and the separation of relatives and friends, but for the sake of life and career, I feel that I still have to gain more, only work harder, I hope to make my career bigger, and get together with my relatives as soon as possible, I will continue to insist on Beijing. ‍‍

I am a member of the basic North Drift, engaged in the book publishing industry with low entry level and high income requirements. I wanted to stay for three years and go back after learning the taste of life in the metropolis, but now I've been staying for seven years. From the initial nervous try, it became a nervous persistence, because I found that there was no going back.

At that time, I decided to fight the waves, drifting to the sea step by step, and the waves rolled me into this section, so I planned to do this section. I didn't think about regretting and giving up, and if I gave up, I might regret it even more. ‍‍

After graduating, I worked in Beijing for four years before deciding to return to a second-tier city. When I first arrived in Beijing, I was full of longing for my future life and hoped that I could make a career. Although he entered the industry he liked after several ups and downs, and gradually gained an in-depth understanding of the industry he was full of expectations, he still failed to stick to his inner anxiety and apprehension, obeyed his family's instructions, and left Beijing.

Although the salary is less now, and the circle has changed dramatically, I am fortunate to have found something I like to do, and although I occasionally have a little regret, I don't regret it. It's important to make your own choices and live hard. ‍‍

In my thirties, I have passed the age of pursuing my dreams, and I stayed in Beijing only because of my high income, and when I returned to my hometown, my income was less than a quarter of that in Beijing, and I was really helpless.

I chose Beipiao because I chose my dream, and I thought that I could create my own value in the city where I achieved my dream. This city is the city I've wanted to go to since high school, and I love all the people and things in this city.

I know that many people have experienced different things in Beijing, but we still haven't chosen to leave this city, I still choose my own dreams, I think the north drifters here have their own dreams, and they want to fulfill their dreams in this fantastic Beijing city.

We often say that Beijing is a good city for you to grow up, but not for us to settle down there. Because the competition there is hard for those of us who stick to our dreams, because there is still a despair of all our laughter and laughter in this city, but the only thing that will not be done is to give up.

In fact, the reason why I chose Beipiao was very simple, mainly from the impulse of young people and the spirit of not being afraid of the sky and the ground when I first left school. For the general reason, I chose to go to Beipiao.

The reason why I originally wanted to go to Beipiao was that I wanted to see the city of Beijing, the city that attracted countless young people, Tiananmen Square, the Great Wall, and the most prosperous city in the capital.

I want to go to Beijing to live and feel the fast pace of Beijing, and try to see if I can survive in Beijing. What is the bottom line of what I can afford.

This is for some of my own reasons, but of course there are objective reasons as well. I majored in programming, and only in developed cities can I have a high salary.

At that time, I didn't know how I could be so fearless, so I grabbed my belongings and carried my computer on my back and stepped on the train to Beijing.

When I got on this train, I was both excited and dazed, I was excited that I could finally go to my ideal city, I was at a loss where I would go after I arrived in Beijing, there was no family or friend, in the huge city of Beijing, ** is my safe place.