Certain emotional things put me in a dilemma. Three

There is always a lot of helplessness in life, there is only love or no love in love, no one is right or wrong, everything follows your feelings, and your heart will tell you the right answer.

In fact, life is like this, I feel good when I come over, so people say that life is not easy, young people don't understand, you must experience it to understand, this is a process, hold on. Naturally, you have to go through it.

Girlfriend, have you sorted out your feelings clearly? Do you feel pity, sympathy, or love for the latter her?

Don't you have any feelings for the one in front of her? Say it's divided. I don't understand.

In fact, in emotional matters, you must first understand yourself in order to understand others.

I hope you don't let down this girl in the back.

Love is not the whole of life.

It's funny if you don't explode in silence, you perish in silence!!

Many times it is so helpless, and understanding a person is the most important thing.

If he does come to your city, then there will be an extra element of reality between you. Online dating is just a medium, a way to get acquainted. As long as both parties are sincere, it does not prevent you from coming together.

I'm not the same, my wife and I are online dating, and our parents know about it. Aside from being a little worried at the beginning, it wasn't much after that. Because she quit her job in Beijing for love, she followed me to Zhejiang.

Online dating is just the beginning, you can't always be online dating, it is recommended that you come to see you before he comes to Wuhan to invest. You must not go over, it is not very safe for girls to go over. As a person who has come before, I tell you, don't care too much about the eyes and opinions of the people around you, and of course, you must also have your own reason.

Finally, I wish you the best of luck with the people you love.

The other party is also a human, and the other side of the screen is not a monster.

The foreign perception of online dating is a "real" exchange.

China has always felt that online dating is easy to "go wrong".

There are also successful examples.

It's just that you don't know.

People still need to be understood by yourself.

A man must eat a peck of salt with his friend before he knows him.

You can try to give him a chance.

But don't give too much at first.

Boys are inherently hot first and then cold, and girls are cold first and then hot.

I hope you are happy.

If you want to continue, bring the relationship to life.

The Internet is just one way you get to know each other.

Not all emotional exchanges.

A way of knowing, why care so much.

The key is that you get to know the person.

It's just a trade-off.

If you do, you have a very good chance of success.

If you retreat, you can't let go of it without affecting the acceptance of others.

My suggestion, retreat. No matter how much you talk online, living together is not so smooth. And the success rate of online dating tends to be close to zero.

It's an old fire if your family objects against it, after all, it's your closest person and there's no need for that unless there's a good reason for it. As for him being sad, it will be fine after a while, and he can't expect any difficulties to pass this kind of difficulty.

It's superfluous to think about it now, let's think about it after we meet! Haven't you heard of "Seeing the Light Die"? There are also people who will feel good when they see you, and there are also people who feel this way. If you feel good after seeing it, it's never too late to think about it!

I hate online dating.

Unrealistic. After you meet.

You'll understand.

I don't know if it's true or not, but it's mostly fake. After a long time, you will know that you will see people's hearts for a long time.

Online dating is inherently impractical.

You can go and see it yourself, but be careful. Good luck.

I don't know, online dating, I still don't believe it.

When I encounter a dilemma in life, I think it is better to take a step back, and I may seek more suitable opportunities for the next time I move forward, and the accumulated experience is the driving force for the next time.

Ask these questions, in fact, you still have an answer in your heart.

It's still too impulsive, for a man who doesn't know very well, I divorced first, it's too impulsive.

If he really loves you and intends to marry you, he should not cheat on you in the beginning, in fact you are a victim.

Or are you too careless and believe his words, you have been together for so long, you should be able to tell whether he has been married in the details.

It's over, regret doesn't matter, it depends on his attitude, if it's like he said, his family situation is like this, then wait for his promise, see if he divorces and then marries you.

If it is delayed again and again, then you should be decisive and separate, and hurry up and continue to find a suitable person. He doesn't care, you can't afford to wait.

There is also the problem of his child, if it is awarded to him, you should be mentally prepared, accept the child, and communicate all the future problems about the child before getting married, otherwise the child will be one of the sources of conflict between you in the future.

Do you really believe him?

If he is sincere, he will only tell you that he has a wife and children if you ask him?

Divorce for this kind of person, it has already been stupid once. Believing in him again is tantamount to being stupid a second time.

This kind of lie about a bad relationship between husband and wife, what kind of nonsense about promising marriage, how many stupid women have been deceived by succession.

If he really loves you and wants to marry you, he would have divorced his wife a long time ago, and he wouldn't hide it from you from the beginning, and after you knew that he was married and had children, he just blindly promised to divorce and marry you, how long has it been that he still hasn't taken any action, just verbally, he said that he has a bad relationship with his wife, why should he go back to his own house and leave you alone in the hotel? Do you think he will really divorce and marry you? Of course, I'm just an outsider, and I don't particularly empathize with some situations, if you get along with each other, you can be sure that he really loves you, and you can't wait until the day he promises to divorce, if he breaks his promise to you again and again, then there is no need to continue, the long pain is better than the short pain.

I can't give an answer to this kind of question.

Let's do it first, does the landlord want to be a stepmother?

Again, does the landlord think the other party will divorce.

Then, does the landlord have confidence in such a life in the future?

Then, the landlord can wait a few years.

In the end, the landlord hopes to make a decision now or wait a few years to ask for the answer, which is actually in our own hearts.

If a relationship is built on deception in the first place, then it already has problems in itself. The main thing is that if you both have families, it is even more false. If you are honest with the other person at the beginning, and the other person is still like you in the form of deceiving you.

I suggest that you have a long pain rather than a short pain, although the pain of a broken arm will be very painful, but it is better than the poisoning getting deeper and deeper like this, and finally it will come when there is no cure. Avoid.

Look at this as an outsider.

No one knows it better than you.

Don't care what others think.

Don't let yourself regret it.

What a laugh and no joke! You don't divide now, and it's too late to cry when the time comes. Find a better marriage now.

If he also has a family, let it go, he should keep breaking it, and he will be in turmoil.

After a long time, they know each other thoroughly, and he knows everything about you.

But one thing is for sure, he doesn't want to be with you anymore, and when he says he's afraid of dragging you down, he's probably thinking about being dragged down by you.

is not a very responsible man, since he said so clearly that he is going to break up, it is better not to dwell on it anymore, it is not good for you.

I think he's a man with a lot of responsibility, and the first floor is right, and his current situation makes him feel inferior. He must have seriously thought about the future of both of you and didn't want you to suffer with him. So you can't blame him.

As for whether to redeem it. Depending on how much you love him, if you want to suffer with him, tell him out loud.

One possibility is that he may be the kind of person who hides everything in his heart and thinks about you very much, he thinks that you have already decided, that he can't give you happiness, and he wants you to be happy. That's why it's like this, I don't want my mother-in-law to embarrass you, my one is such a person, and I don't believe there is such a thing.

Of course, he may also be the kind of person who is very blind and does not know the position of marriage, and he does not have a clear attitude, everything depends on your decision, in other words, take it step by step.

Because I don't know him, and I don't know your story, I can only analyze it objectively, he may be one of the above or somewhere in between, it depends on your understanding of him, your intuition of the relationship between you.

Remind you to trust your instincts, women's instincts are accurate.

If you still love each other, try to find out the cause of the problem and continue to be together, I hope you can have a good result with him, so many years of relationship is not easy, bless you.

I'd rather believe that there are ghosts in the world than believe in his broken mouth at one time, you can investigate the reason for his breakup, it's definitely not that if you think it through, you feel immature, it's as simple as that, there must be other reasons, those are just excuses.

Maybe he sees too much good in other women, and he spends too much time with you and ignores you.

Maybe one day he will regret that he gave up on you in the first place.

If you still love him, get married when the relationship is still good. Hehe.

It could have been, because he has no confidence in himself, it's not that he has found another woman, if you go to him, then you may have a good life, and if you don't go, you may miss a piece of happiness.

I may not be very experienced, but I was in the same situation as you, I just went to college, and my girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years, and we separated after the college entrance examination. I don't want to, but she is willing, because feelings are a matter of gain and loss, I also thought about marrying her as a wife, but he changed and rejected my heart, I think in fact, you may not love him so much that you can't forget, in fact, you have been together for a long time, he is your family, a part of your body! Instead of simply loving someone, even if there is a better person in your life than him, he can't be replaced!

So if you can't forget it, why not keep it up! Isn't it a pity that the 6-year relationship is over after speaking! Marriage is not about giving each other anything, but about understanding and supporting each other!

Is marriage all about material things? No! Loving someone, even if it's a beggar, but it's enough to have feelings for each other!

I think he cares about you too! Maybe I'm too young to have any opinions, bless you!

I think it's because the man changed his mind to find a reason.,You said that you separated before.,It's because you like other girls.,Maybe there are women this time.。

Let's get married, it's not good to be in love for a long time.

If you are in a dilemma, then retreat. Giving up is also a beauty. Peace of mind is the most important thing. Don't give up, you want to give up.

If you take a step back and calm the waves, you should retreat: if you will have regrets in the future, you should grasp it.

Then try to quit. Analyze your situation through the eyes of a bystander.

Alas, since you don't advance or retreat, then stand in the middle and don't think so much.

If you can retreat, it is not called a dilemma. My advice is to maintain the status quo, but start making some preparations in advance, and strive to the day when we have to let go, leaving fewer regrets, less losses and mental damage.

Pluck up the courage and step over, and there is a sunny day ahead. Think more about who I am, who I'm busy with, what are my short-term goals, and what do I do next? It's going to be much better.

You can win by entering, and you can win by retreating. Give up what should be given, and decide what should be decided.

Calm down and think clearly before making a decision.

Retreat, when the break is constantly reversed.

Feelings are useless, what you want to get married is money, and if you don't have money, you can say goodbye.

Emotional matters depend on how you judge and choose, and it is often clear to the authorities and bystanders.

It's not that you like her, he doesn't like you.

Indecisive, dragging mud and water, contradictory, stepping on two boats, breaking the thread, since ancient times, amorous and empty hatred, this hatred is not gone,,, only today there is wine and today drunk. Hehe.

If it is an unenterprising love, then let it become a friendship, friendship is not a friend or foe, if it is a friendship that cannot be continued, then let it become a memory, make a decision, don't let the colored memories turn gray.

There is no right or wrong in the relationship, the relationship is yours, and only you know whether she is worth following and waiting, and I believe that it can be solved with your wisdom.

Sometimes giving up is a relief for yourself and the other party, since you feel so tired, why not follow your heart and make a decision, the answer is only known in your own heart, you have to face it bravely.

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart!~2