Are there any enthusiastic people in the psychological aspect? Ask for help

What kind of work do my friends do?

You may be suffering from social phobia, and the symptoms of social phobia are like this, so it is recommended that you try the systematic desensitization method.

No one will sympathize with you for your weakness or praise you for glory that is not your own. So, you are a desperate bird that may go astray, read a book by yourself, find a girlfriend who can talk about, everyone has low self-esteem, you talk about your advantages every day, I don't believe that you are useless, sports, in this world, there are too many people who tend to be inflammatory, too many people who are exaggerated and restless, you can face yourself quietly, so why not make good use of it? If you were to be very skilled in dealing with people now, it was possible, but would you be satisfied?

Will you not crash? Everyone has this kind of inferiority, and when you are lost, the key is to adjust. Live with another way of life, you will get unexpected results, think about you in the hotel, I will suggest you go to Haidilao, the incentive mechanism is good, and there is a book, anyway, I think that the service inside is very good, and it is not a good thing that there are not many people around you, it depends on what you think, even if you are the only one left in the world, so what.

Could it be that in this kind of cheeky society, you are shy and ashamed, and have low self-esteem? Man, be yourself.

Usually I ignore this kind of person, but once I gave money. That time I was queuing up at the ticket vending machine to buy a ticket, a "little old man in the countryside" dressed up came over and said that he wanted to buy a ticket from Changchun to a certain place (a small place in Jilin Province, I forgot the name of the place), a hard seat, a standing ticket, about ten yuan, he only had a few dollars on him, and asked me if I could buy it for him (he didn't ask for money, but asked me to help him buy it), of course I didn't consider subconsciously refusing, there are too many people in the train station. He asked a few more people, but none of them helped him.

He just stood by and waited. After a while he called me again and said to me, "Girl, be careful with your phone." Pointing to my pocket, I saw that the phone leaked out of the pocket a third, it is really dangerous, and then decisively asked him how much money he lacked, he seems to be short of eleven or twelve yuan, I took out the change, there are eighteen, all to him, he said thank you, and then counted the money, said that there is no need for so much, to give me back a little, I said you keep to get off the car and take a taxi home, he is a good thank you.

Everyone around me is looking this way, I don't know what they are thinking, I guess they are all thinking about how I look so good.

When I finished buying my ticket and walked outside, I saw him at the window, maybe he was queuing, maybe he was asking someone for money. I do not know. I haven't told anyone about this, and I always feel that if I finish telling others, and others say that I met **, it will be really disappointing.

But I've been happy for a few days.,I feel like I'm really helpful, smart, cute, witty, and beautiful girl (Ahh),And I feel like I've actually met a good person.,Anyway, in my three views.,Don't grind after the money attempt.,And then remind me to pay attention to the person who doesn't drop the phone must be a good person.。

In the current domestic social environment, it still takes courage to ask strangers for help, and I often hesitate for a long time and can't open my mouth. It is estimated that most people have this experience and understand this embarrassment. Therefore, when it has nothing to do with safety (a matter of principle cannot be overcome), and no or only a small amount of money is involved (in most cases), helping as much as she can can be regarded as an affirmation of her courage and making her feel the goodwill of the land.

May I be gentle with this world. When you meet someone who needs help, tell them that you can help them call 110 to find the police uncle, if the other party refuses, it is likely to be the first thing that :) and then say, I really can't figure out what could be**.