Nasty adolescence, help me!

Although he has been defeated repeatedly, he still has confidence in himself. Success is the perseverance of striving to pursue one's goals. Even if you fail in the end, then enjoy the process of perseverance.

The budding of puberty is something that everyone has to encounter and is normal. This shows that you are growing up little by little, and there is nothing wrong with liking others, and treating them as your best friends and confidants. Keep your energy on your studies.

It's very simple, this is a human body's must go through, what is it, you have to put your mentality right, so many crooked brains at a young age. Go with the flow, don't force it, why do you restrain yourself, what do men and women get along with, be decent, you just love to complicate the relationship between men and women, and finally make yourself tired.

As for learning to do your best, it's right to be strong, don't overdraw, work hard

Oh, you have to believe in the people who came over, they are not the last you like, far away, in high school you will like another type of people, so don't deepen your good feelings, it's good to be friends, it's important to study hard, go to college and love vigorously, listen to me, I also came here like this, I didn't obey, so I regret it!

The second year of junior high school is a watershed, control yourself well, believe me.

You're 95?? Second?? I'm 94 years old, and I'm a freshman in high school.

In fact, it is useless to sprout and suppress, go with the flow, think about sitting next to him every day to listen to lectures and eat together, it seems to be very good.

In this way, you will enjoy going to school, the second year of junior high school, it is true that there is a little time that is difficult, but in junior high school, as long as you study hard, it should be fine.

It's a flower. If you can, open it as much as you can. Don't drown in your own scent.

The color of youth, like the rainbow, does not only represent the illusory color refracted by it. It is also the strength of Wen Xu's heart. Moments of mood swings.

You can communicate with them in a sincere manner. Let's work together. Shape the expectations that belong to youth.

I believe you still have a lot of potential. Repression is not a reasonable way. Learning is not a struggle in the world of books.

Normal Don't look at these things, it's just the past, only when you are busy, you won't think about anything else.

Goal Shifting Method: Don't spend all your energy on studying, don't always think nonsense.

It's okay, let it be.

If you want to learn, outside influences will not interfere with learning.

Only in their own hearts.

Junior high school is a foundation, you don't have to study too well, let's work hard in high school. As for feelings, let it be, if you like it very much, what's wrong with falling in love, what age is it now, I just know that it's not good to read hard!

In fact, it doesn't matter if you study well in junior high school Really, my grades in junior high school were good But I don't care about junior high school when I go to college I don't care about junior high school Lie to you not being a person You just don't play too much Grades are average Grades are always good will give people a long-term pressure Maybe you don't want to study when you reach high school The important thing in life is to study hard for a year in high school 3 Now it doesn't matter if you have average grades, it's OK I hope you don't go too far when you are young and don't go too far Be rational yourself o( o

Downhill in the second year of junior high school? You should be miserable, too.

I'm also in my second year of junior high school, haven't we studied politics? You can check it out, or we can talk.

It's not just adolescence, it's also annoying when you're old.

Come on, I don't have a mosaic here.

The junior high school period is also more important, your main thing now is to study, as for what you said, don't care too much, as long as you look away or don't take it too seriously, it's actually nothing! As long as you don't think about it during the communication with them, it's up to you.

You can read some adolescent books, or knowledge about this, you can read any book, but we have to learn to distinguish between good and bad, and have our own opinions. Hope it helps.

Adolescence is the fastest process of life growth, you will be exposed to some new things, don't be afraid, judge for yourself whether this information should be understood, sometimes you will be ridiculed if you don't understand anything, try to get in touch slowly.

Some things need to be understood, some things must be restrained, in short, treat them calmly and deal with them calmly.

You have to put the right mentality, the so-called go your own way and let others say go9 (or let others have nowhere to go) You can work hard, and you can also communicate well with them, and the way of writing is good.

You're a boy...They can't do anything to you...Anyway, the girls in your class are so scary......

It's best to scold them, if you keep avoiding, they won't give up, you let them know how good you are, and no one will hold you anymore. If there is still you to give him a slap. Just be ruthless.

It's all fake, where you know what you like and what love is, study hard, and talk about it in middle school.

If you like it, you can choose whichever you like, and if you don't like it, just say it.

Disfigure, or mask

Go disfigured.

Or scare them.

Well, you don't have to hide from them, you should tell them, "We are still young, the most important thing is to study, but we can be friends, friendship is better." "Also, you should study hard.

It's not youth depression, it's just because of the pressure. Girls are more fantasical, nothing to do, and then you need to find someone to talk to, you can watch more comedies, try not to think about those TV episodes. If you want, I can be your listener Oh Exercise more, strengthen the exercise, and maintain a good mood

No need to fantasize, let's go back to real life, there is no pressure, where is the motivation.

You can try to hang out with your best friends, you have to trust that they won't lie to you or hurt you, and you're trying to talk to strangers. At first, you can watch them talk, listen to them when they say things that interest you, and try to interject a sentence, and slowly you will get used to it, sometimes you can find strangers who you don't know but are very similar to you, and understand you very well, so you think that you are good friends who have not seen you for a long time, if you meet that kind of person, you should cherish it.

Go out boldly and step out of your shadow.

Try to smile at strangers and participate in group activities.

Q1024103533 This question can be said on this, after all, people are different It is necessary to prescribe the right medicine.

Well, what do you say? First, I'm honored with your question.

I haven't finished reading it without writing it, but I already understand your mood and your situation. Your family changes everything about you.

Do you think God is fair to you? Maybe you won't, not fair.

It is not up to each person to choose what family they are born in. This is fate, man, why he is now the master of the earth, because he is more adapted to the present world, the present life, the present all kinds than any other animal. You should also learn to adapt to many things that you find uncomfortable, sad, or that you don't want to do, and that's life.

A family. It's just the beginning of your life. When you enter the big family of society, you will understand that your difficulties are only as good as these.

After all, your parents will leave you a day earlier. You have to go your own way. People don't have to live in other people's worlds, you are your own things, and you have to rely on yourself to solve your own problems and learn to give up.

Learn to accept it, too. When you get used to the society and the world, you have become accustomed to the true meaning of human life. Find some of your own dreams or hopes, work hard, have a little light, a little hope, and it will be better for your life.

And I don't know if you're a boy or a girl, but most of what I'm saying should be both, but there's a difference.

Girls should accept reality. Slowly get to know everyone and find their own happiness, the boy should start his own life to break through, for his own life and for his own future road to fight!

Ronin: Tempo.

The family environment has had an impact on your personality, as the so-called close to Zhu is red and close to ink is black, although the same environment can give birth to people with different personalities, but obviously your personality is not positive and optimistic.

Can you stay away from such an environment as much as possible, be with some optimistic, positive and cheerful friends, and feel more caring, loving and kind, so that in the long run, your personality will become better.

Talk to others more and you'll feel better.

Then, look at the world, so that you may have a new feeling or a new view of the world; For example: to our dying youth.

The one inside is similar to your family, but the personality is very good, hehe.

If you want to chat, you can find me, if you ask, I will leave QQ, I wish you happiness and good luck.

Students, adjust your mentality. To put it mildly, cheerful appearance is a common problem for everyone, almost everyone has a dark side of personality, which is also the root of human inferiority, you don't need to blame yourself for this.

It is true that family and experiences can affect a person's personality, but each person has different ways of dealing with it and treating it differently, so the results are different. As far as you are concerned, maybe the environment has brought you a bad influence, but you don't need to be dissatisfied with anything, just write a diary if you want to vent, this is the method I used before, and it works. I'm similar to you, but I'm also sure that everyone has a bad time, no one is always smooth, I used to have a super bad temper, and finally chose to self-adjust, control myself, resolutely not get angry with others, occasionally out of control, but overall successful.

I am also pessimistic and not confident, but if I want to live, if I want to live in this society, I have to overcome myself first!

You too, the first thing you have to do is to overcome yourself!!

You don't just think about it all, because you've grown up. Childhood memories may not be good, but after all, they are in the past. Exams should be approached with a good attitude.

If you lose, you can come again, as long as you have a heart that yearns for a better place, you will definitely succeed! You can turn a blind eye to things between parents, why because so many years have passed between them, time has not changed them, you just do what you should do, is it useful for you to be angry with them? You're a kid after all, don't you regret it when you're angry with them?

You can also try to look at them in a different way, from a different perspective, and look at your family, maybe you will find that what you call harmony and happiness is actually around you! Your parents have made a thousand mistakes in treating you, but they will still care for and love with their hearts! It's just you, your character is not what the family brought to you, but what you brought to yourself, is it useful that you hate this society and hate the family background?

You should study hard, work hard, repay the family, and repay the society, are you right? Don't just use your perspective to measure the problem, what is more difficult than you is much more difficult than you, is this society not chaotic like you? Go for it!

Only if you are motivated and have achievements, you are the master of changing the status quo! I wish you all the best!

Talk to me

Our backgrounds are very similar

We are in a similar situation, since our family doesn't care about us, why should we care about him, and sometimes we need to let them understand our feelings. I don't believe in love because of family, I prefer to spend more time chatting with my friends and brothers, they will give us a lot of advice, they can enlighten us when we are uncomfortable, you can also try, but at least you have to try to be financially independent. How to say that at least they are our parents, and they can endure it if they can, and go for a walk outside if they can't help it.

As for love? If you are a girl, find a boy who loves you, no matter what your family is? He will be your harbor.

Every age group has a different period of confusion, so there's no need to be unconfident.

Find a sustenance and a support point.

A goal to strive for.

That's it. It's rare in life to struggle for these.

I think every family has different troubles and contradictions, my parents used to quarrel a lot, but I don't quarrel when I'm at home, you try to talk to your parents as much as possible when you're at home, enlighten them more, and let them also think from your point of view, care more about you, and be considerate of you. In short, it is not your fault, but you should also take your own responsibility.

Finally, I hope your parents will reconcile soon, have a happy family, and have a parent who loves you!

You're really rebellious kids, in fact, I've had this kind of emotion but not as badly as you. Speaking of which, I can't be a few years older than you. I still understand your thoughts!

I also reread it, and during that time I felt very sorry for my parents, but I felt that you just hit someone. People can't choose their own living environment, but they can change their living environment! In the future, you don't necessarily have a high degree to live well, this is experience.

You can think about it and ask if you don't understand!

Forget the past and look to the future.

As long as you think about it, it's not a big deal.