I drank too much and deliberately tossed my boyfriend to see if he had the patience to care about me

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
55 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Between couples, whether it is playing or tempting, there should be a degree, almost enough, don't go overboard, otherwise it will be like you now, and the consequences will be too serious to accept. If you still want to be with him, then show your sincerity, sincerely apologize to him, and say that you shouldn't have drunk so much that day and done such a rude thing, after all, it was really you who were wrong this time, so don't worry about any facelessness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I believe this is the result you want, friends are not used to deliberately toss, but to love, maybe you think it's okay, maybe you think it's okay, but you can't be sure that the other party also thinks it's okay, and it's definitely not the first time you deliberately toss your boyfriend, so it's okay not to toss blindly, in fact, feelings can't stand tossing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is your mistake, the object must be managed well, it is to care for each other, understand and tolerate, not to toss anyone, you eat a trench to grow a wisdom, and then the object will be good in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I drank too much and deliberately tossed my boyfriend to see if he had the patience to care about me, and I was broken up? He should be a person who does not respect himself and others. It's better not to be anywhere, and breaking up is the best option.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If he breaks up with you just because of this trivial matter, it means that he is not worthy of your reliance at all, and he is not worthy of your dependence at all.

    Because of this little thing, I broke up with you, and it is a good thing for you to separate early. Because the more time passes, the more it hurts you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think love can stand the test. So we'd better be cautious. If you have a boyfriend. If he doesn't ask you, he won't take care of you for the rest of your life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Drinking isn't the point, is it? Are you just going out for a drink?

    I think the key to solving the problem between you is here.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Is it just a matter of going out for a drink?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    cares, this is what you want to go, he doesn't want to stay, but he will be uncomfortable.

    During the relationship, it is better to think more about the other party.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Drunk and sober. Don't think that drunken words are all nonsense, since he said to break up, it means that he really wants to break up with you in his heart.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Girls don't talk about breakups easily. Maybe you say that you break up a hundred times, but in your heart you hope that he can keep it, as long as you keep you, you will turn back, but if there are too many times, the boy will be disgusted and will take it seriously, and the boy will easily not say the breakup, but after saying it, few people will turn back.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You didn't give him the stairs, insomnia is also a habit, which means that he has been sleeping and eating lately, and he has become accustomed to it, it was he who broke up, and you deleted him again, and he was even more embarrassed to come to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Divide it, don't dwell on the past, look forward to everything, and start your own new journey.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I really don't understand the young people nowadays, you dumped people, and you still hope that people have always cared about you, what kind of mentality.?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Drunk often in the depths of their own hearts, has been afraid to say what you have not dared to say, the so-called drunk mushy is just a sober person or sex when you want to cover up the drunk mantra of a statement. A drunk person will not think about whether he can say this, whether he should say it, what the consequences will be if he says it, he will say it if he wants to.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Drunken promiscuity. I'm afraid of hitting people. In fact, everyone has disadvantages and advantages. Just take care of him and let him drink less. If you lose your words after drinking, don't take it to heart.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Love is a matter of two people, not one person! Love needs to be given by two people and not one! You may take it for granted to be spoiled and willful with him, because you think that your partner will forgive your mistakes if she loves you!

    But you never think about it from a different perspective! Every time you make a mistake against him, he will remember it! He also endured all this, because he loved you so he didn't say anything!

    But everybody is human! People always have a temper, and when you consume his bottom line, it's too late to regret it! Now all you can do is do everything you can to keep him!

    Buy him some gifts or something! Let him also know that you really care about him and not just spoil him! It's up to you whether you can keep it!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you look at your last sentence, you said that if he turns back, you are still willing to be with him, which means that you subconsciously do not want to change yourself, and you have not looked for your own mistakes.

    If he still wants to be with you, he won't mention breaking up.

    My dear, everything has to be found on both sides!

    No one will tolerate you!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When a person is tortured by you and doesn't love you anymore, it is estimated that the heart is dead, unless you have the patience to chase him back and let him know your changes.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Men are still very righteous! Since you still miss him! Use your own actions to chase him back! The specific method is: look at things from his point of view, and men like partner-type girlfriends!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There must be a reason why the person who loves you as much as you said said that if you don't love, you won't love it, you can talk to him calmly, see if the problem is in the **, and at the same time reflect on yourself, because love is not a one-man show, only let one person blindly pay is not conducive to the long-term development of the relationship after all, you can try to change yourself, try to love him a little more, let him feel your transformation.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not good, but the truth is that it deserves it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    That's what you think after everyone loses.

    Learn to be able to take it and put it down, now that it is a thing of the past. It's better to live the moment.

    When I meet a better one in the future, I remember this lesson. Cherish it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The same situation is irreversible.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Judging from your description, your boyfriend broke up in anger, you used to worry about him and didn't let him drink, now he drinks a lot and tells you that he did it on purpose, he wants you to know how painful he is.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Usually such a guy has developed such a personality because you care too much about him, and he knows that you care about him, so he tells you that he goes around drinking, in fact, the purpose is to hope for your sympathy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I promised him not to let him drink before I broke up, but now I drink a lot every day, and I have to tell me, why is this? She told you to see if you still care about her? Do you still have him in your heart?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't want such a boyfriend, because of anger and break up. Still drinking, you heard that she doesn't listen to advice for such a boyfriend. Too self-righteous, doesn't know how to cherish others, doesn't know how to cherish feelings. So you have to do it yourself.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's normal for your boyfriend to break up with you, and you're worried that he won't let him drink, but now that he's drinking a lot every day, it only proves that he might just want to get your attention and tell him not to drink.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you behave like this, it may be that your boyfriend wants you to care about him, so he told you like this, and you should still care about him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you break up because of anger, then it must be more sad for the other party, the more you don't let the other party do anything at this time, the more the other party may give up on themselves, so for a relationship, sometimes you may need to maintain it, so don't break up easily.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    How so? If this is the case, I don't think you have a common goal between you, or you are not on the same level, it is difficult to reach a consensus, I think you should find a point to build a bridge for each other, at least so that you can have a consensus, and it can be reached so that your feelings can continue to move forward.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    He is deliberately angry with you in doing this, because you are worried about him, so he deliberately drinks a lot of wine and kisses you in front of you, proving that he must still love you, or want to reconcile with you, since you are angry and break up, you forgive him, but the premise is that you still love him, if you don't love him, then you break up as soon as possible, if you still love him, then reconcile with him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    A lot of things came to a later point, and a lot of things didn't feel bitter at all, but I couldn't find the way I came.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It shows that he is relatively naïve, and he breaks up when he is immature, why should a big man drink to kill his sorrows? I knew why I had to do it in the first place.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think he really wants you to care about him, feel sorry for him, come back and continue to tell him not to drink and pay attention to his body. I think it's possible for you to be together! If you care about it, why should you separate! He is so sad to leave you, and you are not happy that you care about him. He just didn't have the same heart.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think he is doing this to arouse your concern for him, so if you want to go back at this time, you can be together 100%.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You should sit down with him, communicate well, tell the two of them something, don't be angry, even drinking is not good, it's not good for your body, you are very worried about him and hope that he won't do this.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The boyfriend does this just because he wants you to care about him and care about him, and he doesn't let go of you in his heart.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Then you have a good talk with your boyfriend, let him pay attention to his body, don't be angry, and continue to drink, which is very bad for his health.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It shows that he loves you very much. He was drinking to drown his sorrows. And he's going to tell you about his drinking.

    It means that he still has you in his heart. I still want to get back together with you. Now it's just a gamble.

    Case. If you still have a heart for him, you can dissuade him from drinking. It feels like the relationship between the two of you hasn't broken.

    There is still room for détente. Case. You'd better understand each other.

    So that you can continue to get along.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think his behavior like this also shows that he wants you to care about him, wants you to care about him, he may break up with you, and he regrets it.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It should be angry, a little childish temper, he will do whatever he doesn't let him do, deliberately angry that you still care about you, and if you can't let it go, you can reconcile.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Of course, he's taking revenge on you. I don't want to be with you anymore, so I hope you and her have a good chat to break this deadlock.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I think it shows that he is immature, that she is abusing herself to win your sympathy, which is irrational and immature, childish.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    There is no right or wrong in emotional matters, when I like you, I love you and love to die, and it is right to be wrong, when one day I find that I don't love you so much, it's not right, it's not pleasing to the eye, don't pay attention to these trivial things and no nutrition, if you love him, cool him for a few days, calm down and then chase him back, if you don't love so much, then let him toss.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If it's really a misunderstanding, it can be explained clearly, isn't it, it seems that your boyfriend doesn't think so, he seems to want to break up directly to his ultimate goal, and he doesn't talk well.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    If there is something that can be said back then, it must be communicated. If you are separated because of a misunderstanding, there may be regrets. First of all, we must know that the people who cherish you, for the people who don't understand, the more you do, the more meaningless it is.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Love is a property owned by both men and women, and once two people propose to break up, it means that there are not too many different thoughts and opinions between each other, and they have reached a moment when they are incompatible with each other.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    This means that your boyfriend is no longer interested in you, and is even tired of it, so you should leave your boyfriend.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    It's all nonsense, you don't have to take it to heart, if she really doesn't like you, he'll tell you.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    If you can be together, you have to tolerate each other, and it's good to play less with your mobile phone if you have nothing to do.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    It is a misunderstanding, and what is needed between men and women is trust, not mutual suspicion.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    I don't need to understand it, I basically want to break up. If you can't even accept your girlfriend's occasional complaints, you don't have to care about him, even if you are barely together, you won't be happy, and you don't have to care what his words mean, he doesn't cherish what someone will cherish, live a happy life, come on.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Is it to find faults. One or two things you pass are that it is him. See if he's true or false to you. Maybe it's not interesting to say it in a fit of rage. Maybe you're too distracted.

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