Looking back on my failed love, is it destined that I will be alone for the rest of my life?

Updated on society 2024-06-18
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You just have to remember that there is a gain and a loss; Although you have experienced what you think is not a good emotional experience, but you are not slowly maturing on the road of feelings, at least you know what you should do and choose now, don't just put mistakes on others, reflect on it, whether you really have too much, then they think you are not suitable for them, don't be afraid of setbacks and failures, especially emotionally, you should not find your true love and not give up the mentality, right, You can learn from your failed relationships, correct your wrong views and ideas, and keep the good ones, then your future feelings must not be what you think now. You are still so young and early, you don't have to draw conclusions about yourself too early, you still wait slowly and silently for your love to appear. You know and understand a lot of reasoning, as long as you think about it and think about it more.

    Take care; Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Well, who says you have to have a boyfriend? It's more comfortable to be on your own Although sometimes you will be lonely Maybe you will envy the couples around you But enjoy the feeling of loneliness The world of a person is also very good I don't have a girlfriend like you There is nothing wrong with this Like those immature people The attitude of abusive and playful will only make people very disgusting and disgusting When fate comes, you will naturally find the right person You don't have to deliberately pursue anything It's best to go with the flow Don't lose your heart In addition, your problem Failed love may hurt you, but it will also make you mature Life is rich enough to experience everything Maybe because of the failure of the relationship you start to distrust others But you should not deny everyone because of the failure of the relationship Just like me The world is so dark But I am still pure I believe that there are good men in this world There is a good man who belongs to you Thank you

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't think what you said in this last sentence is right, you can't help but give your sincerity, I think if you don't give your sincerity, then you definitely won't get true love. Maybe you paid your heart but didn't get it in the end, but you can only get your heart right. It can be seen that you are a very delicate girl.

    24 years old, is the best time for a girl, you should not give up on yourself, you should open your heart and expand your range of communication, so that you can open your mind, broaden your horizons, and truly understand what kind of person you need to accompany you.

    In short, relax and go out, this is the most important thing you should do right now. Finally, I wish you to be able to get your own sweet love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Today is Thanksgiving, and we all need a grateful heart.

    We need to forget the sorrows of the past. Feel the love around you with your heart You have to think about the love that your family has for you. If you don't believe anymore, then you won't be happy. What is needed between people is a kind of trust.

    Perhaps all of this is a test. When you understand, your love will come quietly, and I think all of you, many people who want to be like me, hope that you will be okay, feel the beauty of the world with your own love, and make yourself happy and happy. Maybe you will be tired at times, but you have to remember that there is always a group of people behind you who will bless you forever

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel the same way you do. I've also been hurt mercilessly by others, and by the people I trust the most. I used to want to stop giving my heart to men from now on!

    But I now feel like not every man is that bad! Now I feel like there's always a good man who belongs to me!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you want to open up, what's wrong with being single, since your relationship has always failed recently, then be single for a while and adjust.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's just that fate hasn't arrived yet! Be confident.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Take your time, only 24 years old, there is still a long time ahead, the right time and the right person, you will always meet But I want to say that you better learn to be tolerant and understanding!! This is important for love, especially marriage!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, personality is acquired, if you really want to change yourself, and you are really afraid that you will be lonely for the rest of your life, then you must make up your mind and take the first step bravely.

    The first thing you have to do is accept yourself from the bottom of your heart and don't think that you are a good-for-nothing person. Only when you learn to love yourself will others love you. Whether in life or in a relationship, if you don't have confidence in yourself and fail to discover your shining point, then you will definitely be at a disadvantage.

    So the most important step is that you learn to discover your strengths and have a clear understanding of yourself.

    Then, what you have to do is learn to communicate with the other person. If you don't know how to talk to someone, you can carefully observe how people in life who are good at dealing with others greet each other. When you listen a lot, you will slowly understand, even if you feel embarrassed, you have to communicate with others, only if you open your heart and let others feel your sincerity, you can harvest your friendship.

    Moreover, because you are more introverted and cold, then it will be difficult for you to leave others with the feeling of a little sun. At this time, what you can do is to make yourself strong and make others feel that you are a reliable person, and at this time, others will naturally make friends with you.

    Finally, you have to pay attention to making a good first impression on others in life, so you must pay attention to your dressing. In addition to the external conditions, you should also pay attention to improving your own connotation and enriching your knowledge, so that your personality charm can radiate.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Human beings are always full of fear in the face of unknown things, and it is normal to be afraid that they will be alone and lonely all the time in the future.

    In fact, you can think more about the present, calmly live a good life in the present, and enrich your life, that person may be on the way to come, just an inadvertent encounter, maybe it is destined for your future. It will make you feel like a village with willows and flowers.

    A person's life has been separated and united with different people, some people will never see each other again for a lifetime after separation, and some people will be reunited after separation, which will make you more happy. And after all, there will be someone who will accompany you to old age, as long as you want.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1. Boys with low emotional intelligence.

    Low EQ is really a hard injury! In fact, if you observe carefully, you will find that many girls in life think that the "straight man of steel" is not just unable to talk to girls, they don't know how to communicate at all, in other words, they have low emotional intelligence! Even if you can't handle the relationship with someone of the same gender, let alone make girls have a good impression of them!

    This kind of person does not pay attention to orphans, who pays attention to orphans! For this kind of person, if you want to get rid of the single, you should first read a few more humanities and social science chicken soup books such as "Talking Skills to People".

    Second, boys who don't understand sex.

    Girls are fond of little romance and little fun, and in the process of interacting with girls, boys will not only play a sultry trick appropriately, but also greatly attract girls' interest in him, so that the good impression will explode instantly. However, there are some boys who are born with elm heads, and rotten wood cannot be carved. For example, when a girl asks a boy if he wants to taste her lipstick, he is really licking lipstick!

    Is there any salvation for this kind of boy to get off the single? I'm really worried about them.

    3. Boys who do not respect girls.

    Boys who don't respect girls are often called "straight male cancer" in people's mouths. How can a "straight man cancer" have a girlfriend? Come on!

    Now it's the 21st century, and you still keep your feudal conservative ideology of male superiority and female inferiority, husbandry, and women's obedience, three obedience, four virtues, and Jurchen female virtues, so do you still want three wives and four concubines? Such an old antique, not to mention that no girl will like it, even among boys of the same sex, few people will like them.

    Summary: Humans are social animals and rely on social activities to obtain a basic sense of existence and happiness. Of course, if you are always alone, no one of the opposite sex likes you, and even sex is reluctant to associate with you, then you may have to find your own reasons.

    Of course, I still hope that a lover can eventually become a family.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then you have to figure out why you are afraid, and overcome it when you are done, in the final analysis, you have no guts, try to do something crazy that you have not done and are not afraid to do, and practice your courage, for example, when you see a good-looking girl, you can go up and hug her and kiss her, and when you are done, you say, I am practicing courage, I am wrong, you hit me, I apologize, if the momentum is not good, the thirty-six plan is the best policy. There is no crime, no rape and criminal department, as long as you don't become a habitual offender, the police are too lazy to care, for the film police, well, you come to report the case, say let people hug and kiss it, and no one knows if the person is done apologizing and the person runs away, how can the film police have the leisure to care about you. If a smart girl has the face to say it, both parties are quite heartbeat from the feeling, and they will recall it for a while afterwards, which is not a bad thing for a girl, painting clothes for a few years or more than ten years, someone can not help but kiss him in this life, enough capital to show off.

    This shows that he can also live more confidently, if you are clever enough, you may pick up and girlfriend, if you are a girl, it doesn't matter if you see, a handsome guy goes over and starts quickly, as for the man, you kiss her, he is absolutely sure and will definitely not beat you, if you go to the police station and the police and say I let you don't know the woman hug and kiss, I will call the police, here is your imagination space, guess what the expression of the police? I can guess 80% of the lines in my heart that this man is sick in the brain.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Celibacy, but to be honest, as long as you are still a human being, you can experience friendship and love or family affection, although I have a very low demand for this aspect, but it still can't be said that there is no at all, everything has a degree, excessive inner imbalance produces a sense of imbalance, imbalance will cause anxiety, anxiety if it continues to accumulate psychological problems. I've been alone for a long time, so why haven't I had psychological problems? That's because there are books, there are **, there are anime, which is actually a kind of communication with people at some level.

    Without that, I find it hard to imagine being alone. To be completely unafraid of loneliness, unless you can do it, without any communication from anyone, you will not have a feeling of imbalance in your heart, but I think that is almost impossible. Because people's education involves relatives, friendship, and love, we all have longing and yearning for these to some extent, even if we have been hurt and betrayed.

    This longing has not gone away.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A lifetime of loneliness Liu Ruoying I think I will always be lonely This life has been so lonely I think I will always be lonely like this for a lifetime The bluer the sky, the more afraid I am to look up The more complete the movie, the more sad I feel The more time I have, the more uneasy I feel Because I am always lonely and live a lonely life The person I like does not appear The person who appears does not like it Some love hesitates and still thinks about him leaving I thought about it A little bit but found that it will be more difficult So I learned to be optimistic and live a lonely life When loneliness has become a habit I'm so used to it that I don't think about it anymore Even if I'm upset, even if I don't have anyone to do with me How do I convert between freedom and loneliness I walk alone on the street and look at the sky I can't find the answer, I don't have the answer The sky is blue, I'll look up The more complete the movie, the more I cherish the sadness The more time I have, the more I get used to being uneasy Because I'm always lonely and living a lonely life I think I'll always be lonely.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Song Title: A Lifetime of Loneliness Singer: Liu Ruoying.

    I think I'll always be alone, and I'll be so lonely for the rest of my life.

    I think I'll be lonely like this for the rest of my life.

    The bluer the sky, the more afraid I am to look up and watch the movie, the more sad I feel, and the more time I have, the more uneasy I feel, because I am always lonely.

    Living a lonely life, I think I'll always be alone.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Rene Liu's "A Lifetime of Loneliness".

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Liu Ruoying - lonely all her life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A lifetime of loneliness - Liu Ruoying.

    I think I'll be alone all the time.

    I've been so lonely all my life.

    I think I'll be alone all the time.

    So lonely for a lifetime.

    The bluer the sky, the more afraid it is to look up.

    The more complete the movie, the more sad it feels.

    The more time I had, the more uneasy I felt.

    Because I was always alone, living a lonely life.

    The person who likes it does not appear.

    The people who appear don't like it.

    Some love hesitates.

    He left while still thinking about it.

    I've thought about it.

    But it will be even more difficult to find out.

    So I learned to be optimistic.

    Living a lonely life.

    When loneliness has become a habit.

    I'm so used to it that I don't think about what to do anymore.

    Even if you are upset, even if you have no one to keep you company.

    How to convert between freedom and loneliness.

    I walked alone down the street looking at the sky.

    Can't find an answer, I don't have an answer.

    The sky is blue, and I'll look up.

    The more complete the movie, the more we cherish the sadness.

    The more time you have, the more you get used to the restlessness.

    Because I will always live a lonely life.

    I think I'll be alone all the time.

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