Is it really hard to find a true friend?

Updated on society 2024-06-18
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you live alone all day, you don't want to make progress! Aren't neighbors human? If you are really idle and have nothing to do, I don't believe in going into their house to help the old people sweep the floor, they will kick you out!

    How did friends come and lose! With get! Both!

    You also know this, and you are not wrong, but the Tao is not the same, the problem is that your friendship area is too small, and one out of a hundred must have the same personality as you! Bosom friends are those who have the same personality, care for each other, help each other, forgive, tolerate, and trust. Confidant, not ordinary, ordinary, what you want, you will be responsible first!

    You just don't have tolerance and trust.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    What's the big deal, I'm fine, people are too fake now, and you have to guard against stabbing to make a friend, and keeping the necessary distance is the king.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Everything goes with the flow. Think about what went wrong with you first, and then improve it, I believe it will be better! Also, self-confidence is the most important thing! Good luck!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Yes, society has progressed, but people's hearts have also changed.

    True friends are hard to come by Friends when they were young are friends for life. It's hard to say when you grow up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This person's life can make a few sincere friends, friends, brothers, all nonsense, it is better to toss yourself

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're the same problem as I am, but no one cares about it anymore.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    A hundred years of life, make friends everywhere. Meet new people and don't forget old ones. It's hard to buy a friend, and it's easy to walk when you have more friends.

    Good friends don't change their money, and true feelings are hard to find. Don't ask for a group of friends, but ask for a few friends. Make friends, make real friends, take a hand when you are in trouble, and don't let go in the wind and rain, this kind of friend can last for a long time.

    Innocent feelings will not be destroyed for a hundred years, and confidants and friends will miss them for a lifetime.

    Make friends regardless of poverty and nobility, men and women and sizes, morning and evening and succession, the key is to be a good person, heart for heart, and treat each other sincerely. It is necessary to make friends who have faith and morality, friends who are sincere and sincere, friends who are kind-hearted and do not dislike the poor and love the rich, friends who are reasonable in traffic and loyal and honest, friends who are enterprising and responsible, friends who dare to take responsibility, friends who do not cause trouble and are doing things rightly, friends who are filial to their parents, grateful and grateful, who love their families and families, and friends who share weal and woe. Don't make friends who are rich and powerful, don't make friends who talk sweetly, don't make friends who are icing on the cake, don't make friends who eat, drink and have fun, don't make friends who are calculating, yang and yin, and have bad intentions.

    Only with sincerity can we always talk slowly, and only by cherishing can we have it. Friends are the sky, and the affection is boundless. Friends are fated to disturb each other, and they are linked to each other for the rest of their lives. Be grateful for fate and cherish today. Confidant and friend, true forever!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Real friends are a bit hard to find friends:

    1.The one who brings you out of the trough when you're sad.

    2.Someone who laughs with you when you're happy.

    3.Remind you of people who are not proud when you are successful.

    4.Someone who gives you confidence when you encounter setbacks.

    5.Someone who helps you in time when you need it.

    6.and those who forsake thee neither when thou hast been rich nor rich.

    Remember: a true friend is generous, and the person who accompanies you all your life is your lifelong wealth.

    Cherish it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on what age you are.

    The older you get, the more difficult it becomes, this society is becoming more and more realistic, to find a true friend is not only to open your heart but also to learn to avoid harm, but also to know how to cherish, it is a technical job.

    But I'm only 16 years old and I want to be with you for the rest of my life, so I'm very lucky, and I wish you the best of luck in finding true friends.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    These 3 types of people, it is difficult to make "true friends", stop pretending to be stupid.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, I don't think it's difficult to find a true friend, but the difficulty is that you can't easily find a friend who has always been true to you. Maybe when you get close to those so-called true friends, the real true friends are being abandoned by you because of your neglect.

    But you have to believe that as long as you treat others with sincerity, others will treat you with sincerity. Although the real world makes people really suspicious.

    Yes, what is a true friend, in my understanding, a true friend is not to share the blessings with you, but to share the difficulties with you. A true friend will not leave you behind when you are at your hardest.

    Please keep your eyes open, you will definitely have your most sincere friends by your side.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What do you want to ask? How do I go about handing it in? How old are you? If you're still a student, I should be able to help you.,If you're stepping into society.,I'll say something else.。。

    I just think that when we're trying so hard to make friends, that's when we reveal ourselves. To make a true friend, this is a must, but you can't first see through his sincerity, and then show his sincerity. So you can't make friends tentatively.

    When you go to make friends, you are in need of friends, and you take the initiative. So don't be careful to protect yourself, because you are afraid that the other party is not sincere, so you only give her a small half of him and keep a large half for yourself.

    If you are still a student, because there are many only children now, it is true that some children are quite tricky and vulnerable. But since it's at school, don't be afraid. Perhaps only at this age can you make friends completely and spontaneously.

    So, retention is needed, but don't cover it up for yourself, don't go too far, and then don't be afraid, if the other person is really not good, it's a big deal to start over.

    But don't let that stop you from making friends.

    If you are stepping into society, you should be a little more defensive. Although it seems indifferent, it is very real. Cold on the outside and hot on the inside, too, can be pleasing.

    At this time, you can't hurt others, but you must learn to see your friends a little more thoroughly, if you make friends at this time, it will be endless.

    At this time, it is necessary to make true friends. But if it's really hurt, it's not a big deal to treat it as a luxury. It's enough to have friends around.

    In short, I mean, to make a good friend, you need to take the initiative a little, but the main thing is to pay attention to your own mentality.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Friends are far and near, and adversity has true feelings.

    Nowadays, people are very realistic, true friendship must overcome material things to be considered true friendship, and this requires many years of communication, not to say that you can become true friends immediately, making true friends is not to look at others but to look at yourself!

    1. Integrity. Be sincere to your friends, even if you hurt them with sincere words, you can't deceive them with hypocritical words.

    2. Stand up. When a friend is in difficulty, you have to be willing to give up material, time, and everything to help him3. Value sharing. This is what it means to be like-minded, two people must have a common ambition and direction.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because... Now there are many people who don't believe in having a confidant or don't have the courage to make a confidant, and are afraid that making friends with sincerity will be hurt in exchange. However, there are still friends who can become confidants, so don't be so discouraged!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's easy to get money, it's hard to find a confidant, it's hard to find a confidant. There are true friends, but if you don't ask too much, you will feel that the whole world is your friend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The feelings between friends are accumulated little by little, you shouldn't be big this year, right? The so-called "road knows horsepower, and sees people's hearts over time", as long as we pay sincerely, after a long time, you will find that there are many confidants.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Isn't there a saying that "money is easy to get, but it's hard to find"? Scold.

    It's not as hard as you say. I have a good friend who has been known for 7 years now, and we met in a singing competition together in a college class. Now that I've graduated, we often hang out together, and we talk about everything, from life and work to relationships.

    I think friendship also needs to be managed with care. Get together once in a while, chat, and have fun. Cherish what should be cherished!

    Hope it helps!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I feel the same way.

    Maybe it's a kind of fate.

    Sometimes you meet it, and you must hold on tightly.

    Confidants are hard to find, otherwise why would Bo Yazi cherish each other's friendship so much.

    Wait, and may you find your unique soulmate soon.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You have to give your heart and soul to help someone you think can be your friend. In fact, if you help others silently like this, others should be aware of it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, it is very simple that a sincere heart is enough, maybe you pay your sincerity but in exchange for harm, it is not your fault but his loss, always maintain a kind heart, sincere heart, and a motivated heart to do things, but you will definitely get what you want.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Why are we so disappointed in our friends? It's that we're asking too much, expecting too much, relying too much. A friend doesn't have to be the one who is there for you when you're sad. With more tolerance and understanding, your friends will be more grateful and love you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    That's what I thought, too, why is it so hard? I don't have a question or something, but thank you for letting me see the answer in your question. The knot in my heart opened, and it was hard to find.

    I was disappointed by asking too much of my friends, expecting too much, and hoping too much. You're still so young, don't worry or get nervous. A confidant may be in his thirties or forties, and maybe oh hahaha scares you.

    Treat people with sincerity, be fair, don't flatter, don't favor him because you are friends, these are all good and right. I didn't even notice it before, come on, kid! o( o believe that you can between friends and don't care.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I agree with Yanjing Swordsman's statement, however, I don't think it's complete. In addition to what he said, there is also honesty. Between friends, you must be honest, what is the end of honesty?

    Just don't be partial to him, be fair. Don't be flattering, it will hurt your friends. Then, learn to listen, and listening to other people's hearts is also the best way to make friends.

    What do you think?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Nowadays people are very realistic, you just need to be your truest self, and there is no need to change yourself in order to make a close friend.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, it's good to be sincere, and it's good to be calm in your heart.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't you have one? I have two! Bosom friends are made from childhood!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Maybe it's because people pay too much attention to the gains and losses in front of them, but don't be afraid, there are still infatuated people, hehe.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Personally, I feel that there are the following points: 1) Find people who have common hobbies, 2) People who don't care much about money, 3. Have a grateful attitude, 4. Honor your parents and elders.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Not too many, just a few.

    It's good that I'm just 2 of them.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you're looking like this, it just means you're more insincere, isn't it?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Not necessarily, but there is a common topic, they treat you as a person to talk to, I have this experience, once there is no topic, they will take the initiative to leave you, looking for friends can not just test common interests, I think it is his attitude towards you, find more people who are really good to you, and this kind of person who can think about you will not be wrong.

    As a reminder, the chain of interests thing to remember, a lot of people are for this.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Well, everybody's sincere. It's up to you to see if it's right for you. If you're sincere to someone else. With sincerity for sincerity, there are still true friends

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Yes, if you talk to everyone well, then no one is a true friend, and only one is a minority.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Is it more difficult to make true friends the more you experience?

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