People are sad and don t know how to adjust

Updated on psychology 2024-06-04
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Life. In just a few decades, it is easy to come and go in a hurry

    Doing something that I think is impossible is a challenge to myself, which is the sublimation of my soul.

    Don't let yourself be sorry.

    In fact, why don't you treat her as the object you care about, it's better to talk about her as an ordinary friend.

    You should have made one more friend, and when you both think each other is special, isn't that better called wishful thinking

    As long as you don't break the law, don't do things that hurt others, and don't do things that charm your conscience.

    Everyone can brave the opposite side.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Chasing girls requires initiative, not passivity, and how many odds can there be in the world to be passive?

    Master each other, take the initiative, since you like it, make it clear, if you have a good heart, I hope you will have a harvest, and finally wish you: success.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You don't have much success, so to speak, because you don't cross paths, and she won't be so hasty. Unless you marry her. If you look at the other problems, open your eyes and you'll know what to do.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Find all sorts of excuses to reach out to her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There will inevitably be times in life when things don't go well, everyone has their own troubles, no matter what the reason, sometimes it always makes us feel uncomfortable like pressing a big stone, making us breathless, but we can't find a solution. The following is how to adjust yourself when you are sad, I hope you like the article! Be still.

    No matter what bothers us, we need to calm down and think about it, and only when we figure it out and understand can we make ourselves faster. Accept reality. Go to bed.

    When you are sad and helpless, you can take a big nap, maybe you can think about something more clearly after you sleep, and then you may find that there is no need to be sad, it is not a big deal. Swim. If you are sad, you can go swimming by yourself, empty yourself in the water, don't think about anything, and when you are tired of swimming and lie on the shore, the whole person will feel much more relaxed.

    Find someone to talk to. If you feel that you have been wronged and are misunderstood, you can find one or two good girlfriends to chat, tell you what you hold in your heart, and let your girlfriends help you analyze and enlighten, and you will be much better. Eat dessert.

    Something sweet will soothe the mood, and it will allow you to turn your sadness into motivation and eat it hard to vent your dissatisfaction. Of course, it will also make you fat, so do it in moderation and don't overeat just because you're sad. Trip.

    Ask a friend to go out for a walk, go outside to see those beautiful scenery, interesting activities, these cute, interesting and positive things will make you forget your troubles. Cry a lot. If something is really sad to the extreme, then there is really no need to hold it in your heart anymore, find a place where no one is and cry happily, it will make you feel a lot better.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't know what your pain is, but it must be those things that can't be said but make you sad, and you are alone in it, so when others see it, it may be hypocrisy, it is unreasonable, and even you will think if I am stupid like this.

    Nobody doesn't know, you don't want to say it, and no one can understand your pain, they may say it's just a little thing, it's okay, but you can't hold on, some people even think, or maybe it's better to die. That's not right. If you are sad, those who make you sad will be happy, and you still need to think about it a little.

    You can cry a lot, or say all your grievances to the puppy, you need to vent, what self-digestion will only make you more and more wronged the more you think about it. Learn to be stronger, become less inferior, and make more friends, even if it's a netizen.

    You may not be very good-looking, your personality is not very good, a little fat or introverted, which makes you feel a little inferior, I am also like this, I used to feel inferior because of my appearance and personality, I will blush and heartbeat when talking to others, very cowardly, but I want to change, it's okay, children I am here, not afraid, this world may not be so warm, but I am still here, I also quietly love you somewhere in the world, you are very cute, don't be afraid. Be brave and be a confident cutie.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Time can't stand still, so there's no need to be sad. One person's.

    Happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset.

    There is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life. Life is immeasurable, and there are countless troubles. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past.

    Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed.

    After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Try not to make yourself think about things that are sad. Find something else to do.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's okay to grit your teeth and get through, don't be too attached to a lot of things, care too much, struggling will only make yourself very painful, selective amnesia is actually a very good way, let yourself forget the painful things, let yourself come out of the shadows, let everything start again, it's no big deal, there is hope for people to live. Be hopeful and confident about your future. I believe that everything is the best arrangement, all pain is a necessary lesson in life, and success is waiting for you ahead.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful! Be optimistic about anything.

    I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

    2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

    4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

    Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

    For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

    Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

    For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

    Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Go on a trip, I don't think there's anything more relaxing than sitting on the train and listening to the scenery along the way. When traveling, meet new people, see new things, and shift your focus to what interests you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    An ancient poem says well, there is a month.

    The clouds and sunshine are short, and people have joys and sorrows, and this matter is difficult to complete. From ancient times to the present, everyone has had happy and sad times, and it depends on how you deal with it. If you can't live sadly when you encounter ups and downs, then it means that your will is not strong enough, and you are not mature enough, so you will be sad and don't know what to do.

    In fact, as long as you are sad, think about the achievements you have made and the happy past, and then think about what this little difficulty is? Could it be that this little difficulty and sadness can crush me? Absolutely not.

    So, I'm going to turn sadness into motivation, so that you will get rid of your sad mood and change your sadness into not being sad.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you are really sad, it depends on what you are sad about, and you should solve the problem in a targeted manner, first of all, leave the environment at the time, try not to think about the troubles, go to the natural environment, express your feelings, vent your unhappiness very much, participate in more social activities, contact more society, adapt to your own receptivity, and it will be fine soon.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It depends on the reason why you are sad, I personally think that the factors that make people sad are nothing more than two points - money and feelings, if it is because of money, I personally think it is really unnecessary, because it is something that life does not bring and death does not bring; If it's because of feelings, it depends on what feelings, it's family affection? Or is it camaraderie? Or love?

    If it's because of family affection, it's really worth being sad, it's not normal if it's not sad, but whether it's birth, old age, sickness or death, or gathering and clutching is the norm, it's useless to be too sad, it's better to turn grief and anger into strength and cherish the present! If it's for the sake of friendship, you have to know that some friends can stick a knife in both sides, but some friends are used to sell, if you are sad because your friends are betrayed, I personally feel that it is really a waste of feelings, it is better to spend more energy to care for real friends; If it's because of love, then I can only tell you that it's difficult, because even God can't solve it, not to mention that I'm not God, just an ordinary person, or a person who is also sad because of love, here I can only be sad with you, hoping to share your sadness.

    If none of the above reasons are true, then it is probably that you are having a difficult time, not being sad.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everyone will have unhappy times, but learn to self-adjust their mentality, if you encounter unhappy things, don't be bored at home alone, you can talk to your family or good friends, and talk about the unhappy in your heart, so that you will feel a lot more comfortable, you can also find a place with good scenery to travel and relax, and when you come back, all the troubles will pass.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When you're sad, don't think about it, the more you think about it, the more sad it will be, indulge yourself, do more good deeds, listen to **, you can travel outside, I can relieve the content of sadness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you are sad, you want to think about the happy time, life is not smooth sailing, everything is going well, every day is constantly exercising yourself, constantly challenging yourself, sadness is the test of life for you, so you should be brave to face, to be happy and happy every moment, to find fun for yourself, contented people are always happy, when you are sad, you have joy, anger and sorrow, although you say that you laugh often, no one will always smile often, who has unhappy things? The main thing is to live the hurdles in your own heart, and I wish you a happy day.

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