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I think we're about the same, and so am I. But I don't think there are as many as you think, and I think that "meaning" is just a hole that people dig for themselves. The state preaches that the meaning of life is to contribute to society, but I think that is just a constraint on the minds of rulers.
When the country is in trouble, we stand up, and we don't have to think so much about it. Isn't the meaning of life to be alive? We do what we want to do, live the life we want to live, we don't have to look at other people's opinions, as long as we don't harm others, it's enough to have a clear conscience.
Of course, it's better not to be so free and easy to live in the world, we still have parents, friends, relatives, and possibly wives, children, and careers. I suppose you're still a student? Or is it more leisurely to work?
When I work and work, I don't have time to think about these meanings or anything.
Personal opinion: Usually contact more friends, establish a wide circle of friends, play ball if you are a boy, don't let yourself idle and think about these things, anyway, it's the same whether you want to think about it or not. There is also the possibility of establishing a goal, and achieving it is not about comparing yourself with others, nor about how much money you make, but just making your life more fulfilling and rich, and accepting all kinds of challenges (on the premise of being safe).
Of course, another is to find a wife, talk about love, talk about love or something, and make yourself more responsible, which may also help you. (I'm a boy, if it's a girl, I can't help much).
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Many young people nowadays are like this, facing a grim situation, and all kinds of pressure, I myself and you are similar, I don't know what to do in the future, and how to gain a foothold in society, really, the future is at a loss, our teachers also continue to warn us, everyone is almost the same when they start a business, but also face a lot of problems, only a few people are outside, first of all, you can't be afraid to face reality, more importantly, you have to pay sweat, I have watched a lot of TV series of that soldier assault, People are trained in a harsh environment, and people who have not succeeded casually, according to what you described, you should not have suffered hardship, of course, you don't know the cruelty of the real society. A successful person is to suffer a lot of hardships, you will understand that hard work will be rewarded, pay is not necessarily rewarded, but do not pay will not be rewarded, now you should set a goal, work towards the goal, this is your first must do, you should think about what you want to do in the future, what to eat, what to rely on to support your family, think about it, and then set a goal to struggle, choose a good goal This is the best way to eliminate your idleness all day long, after having a goal, Your life has set the direction, the next time is to endure hardship, almost every successful person has a period of hardship behind it, suffer hardship, Fang is a master, every day you strive towards the goal, young people are time to endure hardship, don't waste time in the most precious youth of life, there is really no need to be afraid of the future, as long as you work hard, even if there is nothing to do in the future, but you have a clear conscience, establish confidence in yourself, believe that you will succeed, bread and milk will drop, young people wish you good luck! Remember to make more friends!
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You're living too luxuriously, your life is too comfortable, you're just a person who is full and has nothing to do, and I envy you to death When you have the feeling that someone has to bow your head under the roof, you won't think like that A life without shame and sweep will force you to find your life purpose But now you Hehe, everything has been arranged by others, and you can only live comfortably So you are a person who is full and has nothing to do, and I hope to be like your life Because my life is very tired! So be content. Because you have a good life.
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I think you live in the void, but in fact, you are very yearning for a better life. You should read more **, biographies, philosophy books. Set yourself a goal that you are willing to fight for. In life, learn about or try something you didn't dare to try before.
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The meaning of life is to make everyone happy.
If you're idle, it's about helping others, like I am now, solving other people's problems and giving yourself a sense of accomplishment at the same time.
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Let's talk about it when the money is spent.,People who don't want to do something will run out of money one day.,Haha。。
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Recently, I read the book "Murphy's Law", I have heard the name of this book before, and I always thought it was an economics book, but I bought it and read it to know that it was a psychology book.
I thought it would be boring to read such a book, but I didn't expect to be fascinated by it. There are a lot of interesting life principles in it, which are easy to understand and not boring. It seems that I have misunderstood psychology books before, but psychology is still quite interesting.
Although many life principles are also realized in life, reading books and explaining will find that they do not understand it thoroughly, as if they only understand it self-righteously.
I agree with the points in the book, explain it very clearly, and I feel like I am suddenly enlightened. I have only heard of the truths that I have already known, but I have never put them into practice. I thought that if I had taken the principles in the book as the creed of my life, maybe my life would have been different.
There is a sentence in Murphy's Law that stuck with me: "Happiness is self-inflicted". I used to hear that troubles are self-inflicted, but I didn't realize that happiness is also self-inflicted.
That's right, in this long life, isn't living to be happy in the world, if you can find happiness, why do you want to find troubles? What's the point of living if life isn't happy?
I think that in the future life, I should always remember that happiness is self-inflicted. It's okay, don't worry about yourself, put down what you can't get, don't worry about losing those things that don't belong to you.
Remember, because you can find happiness in life, it's worth it.
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This idea is not wrong in itself, but we need to recognize that afflictions are not an inevitable part of life.
First of all, annoyance can bring some negative emotions and stress that can sometimes take a toll on our mental health. However, excessive worries and anxieties can cause us to fall into negative emotions that affect our lives and work. Therefore, we should learn how to deal with troubles, such as:
Ease your worries with a positive mindset, relaxation techniques, or seek professional help.
Second, everyone's life experience and circumstances are different, so we also need to recognize that the idea of "no worries" does not apply to everyone. Some people may live in undesirable circumstances such as poverty, war, violence, etc., and they may be more susceptible to annoyance and stress than others. However, even living in the same environment, everyone's feelings and circumstances can be different.
In short, while it is not a wrong idea to have no afflictions, we also need to be aware that defilements and imitations are not an inevitable part of life. Everyone can cope with their worries and stress with a positive attitude and methods to make their lives better and more fulfilling.
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Life should be free of troubles" is incorrect.
Afflictions are contradictions, and philosophically speaking, contradictions are the driving force that pushes society forward and does not talk frankly. In the same way, if there are troubles in life, you have to constantly try to solve new ones, which is the "negation of negation". If there are no troubles in life, there will be no motivation to struggle, and life will lose its meaning.
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There are always things that don't go your way in life.
Try not to think about the things that annoy you.
Afflictions have something to do with one's own state of mind.
If you're in a good enough mindset.
No matter what the problem is.
You'll all laugh and solve it.
If you have a bad mentality.
It's easy to get caught up in a little bit of something.
You remember to smile more every day.
Believe in yourself to make tomorrow better.
Good work.
Step by step.
You will find out. Life is getting better.
I also suddenly understood.
No matter what the problem is.
You can face it with a good attitude.
In fact, people who know how to live.
Even if you encounter difficulties, you will know how to enjoy life, and even if you are unsatisfactory, you can learn to enjoy yourself.
If you're happy.
It's very happy, no matter how tired you are, you won't get tired.
You can look for a good life.
But you must not bring yourself into trouble.
Remember that a happy life in this life is the most important thing.
Don't think about the tedious things.
Good life.
Live hard.
Happy life.
That's what we need.
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People are thinking animals from time to time, and when people come to the world, they are constantly looking for troubles and solving them. Besides, do you say that people who sleep underground will have troubles, so I say the most important thing is the state of mind.
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Life has many difficulties and setbacks.
You should be brave enough to face it.
And not to run away.
Dreams are waiting for us to come true, and our loved ones are looking forward to our growth. The most sorry for the lack of achievement is ourselves! We can't afford to fall for a little setback. It must be tempered by these setbacks in order for us to grow. 1
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One life and one death, without beginning and no end. The end is the end, and the beginning is the beginning. Human life comes from the continuation of ancestral genes, and people are the genes of their ancestors"Accidentally"Select out.
Life is the process from birth to death, when you see it clearly, everything is in the past, because life and time go hand in hand, it is an irreversible process of activity, as long as people live, tomorrow will definitely come. Therefore, all the time in life is to reach a good end, because there is no life without a future. First of all, we must work hard, study hard, accumulate experience, lay a good foundation, enrich ourselves, and naturally see more opportunities, grasp the conditions for success, and you can achieve what you want and get a better life.
However, the mountain has the height of the mountain, the water has the depth of the water, there is no need to compare, everyone's living environment is different, everyone has their own strengths; What you think is happy, seek it; What you think is worthwhile, wait; What you think is happy, cherish it. The path of life is made by yourself.
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I'll help you, O lost lamb, to find you.
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People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tired, very hard, because the society is very unfair, life is very helpless, sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring, because life is like this, no one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!
I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone while walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Zheng Yunchong is happy for a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".
2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.
4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.
Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.
For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some incense and suck in the fragrance it emittes. 7.
Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.
For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.
Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life! Satisfied.
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