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A few days ago, I saw from the report: In Wuhan, there was an old man who fell, and after the old man fell, many onlookers gathered. A kind-hearted woman wanted to go up to see if the old man was carrying first-aid medicine, but was "kindly" dissuaded.
After that, no one came forward to rescue the old man until his life ended.
Why is that? It is common sense that if an octogenarian falls to the ground, someone should pull him up from the ground, but some people are afraid of repeating the same mistakes, so they lift the old man up and are bitten back. That's why I interviewed my mom and dad.
Mom and Dad agreed that if someone was present, they should find more people to help them; If the elderly person is old, call 120 and let the medical staff take care of it.
I think: In today's life, I am afraid that I will suffer a little loss, and I refuse to do such a thing as helping the elderly. Even if he is framed by the old man, he must believe that the law will always give him a clean slate.
Respecting the old and loving the young has been a traditional virtue since ancient times, and if everyone has their own small calculations, then is this still a virtue? Think about it, if an old man falls in front of you, you stretch out your hand, and a life is saved by you, and you turn away, maybe a life will end.
The ancients said: "The old and the old, the young and the young." "It is a traditional virtue that people help each other and should be praised.
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The old man falls: to help or not to help?
Picking up an old man who has fallen should be our moral responsibility. However, when some well-wishers who helped the elderly to get up were misunderstood or even blackmailed, we had to rethink this issue.
The other day, I saw an elderly man riding an electric car on the street who accidentally fell. I and the pedestrians around me immediately stopped, hesitating to step forward and help. This image made me ponder, when we hesitate, what exactly are we hesitating?
Is it a guard against strangers? Or is it a concern about the trouble that may bring? Or is it the indifference and numbness of society that casts doubt on our moral responsibility?
In traditional Chinese culture, respecting the elderly and caring for the young is one of our core moral values. Every child is taught from an early age to be enthusiastic about helping others and helping those in need, especially the elderly and children. However, a number of events in recent years have raised questions about this value.
Some criminals take advantage of people's kindness and create some ** to blackmail those well-meaning passers-by. These events have put our society in a dilemma: if we no longer pick up the old man who has fallen, we have violated our moral responsibility and lost our goodness; If we still pick up the elderly who have fallen, we may get into trouble and may even suffer damage to our property.
I don't think we should abandon our kindness and moral responsibilities for fear of being misunderstood or taken advantage of. What our society needs is more understanding, trust and love, not more suspicion and apathy. We cannot allow the evil deeds of a few to change our perception of the world and change our values.
We must stick to our moral code and continue to pick up the elderly who have fallen and care for those who need our help.
However, we also need to find a solution, one that protects our goodness while also preventing us from being taken advantage of. The solution could be legislative protection, it could be educational guidance, it could be public scrutiny, or it could be a combination of all of these. Whatever the solution, we need the whole society to work together to create a more harmonious, just and loving society.
The old man falls: to help or not to help? In my opinion, the answer to this question is simple: we should help.
Because it's our moral responsibility, because it's our humanity. No matter what difficulties and challenges we face, we must not give up our kindness and humanity. We must firmly believe that good will prevail over evil, truth over lies, love over hate.
We must firmly believe that only by working together as a whole can we overcome all difficulties and create a better future.
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Should the old man be helped when he falls? This is a matter of course, but my mother told me not to help casually, because similar things like "touching porcelain" have happened on the Internet. "Touching porcelain"?
This is the first time I've heard that. After listening to my mother's explanation, I didn't seem to understand. Since then, I have seen that the elderly with limited mobility always stay away, but I have an indescribable feeling in my heart.
One evening, I was walking on my way from school and was about to cross the zebra crossing when I saw a gray-haired old man on crutches and trembling to stop beside me. Looking at his old appearance, I thought to myself: No!
There is a lot of traffic here, can he get there? I couldn't help but feel the urge to help the old man cross the street, but remembering my mother's advice, I habitually fled to the side. Somehow, the old man suddenly fell down with a "plop", and the old man struggled to hold the ground with one hand, picked up the crutches with the other, and struggled to stand up, but he couldn't do it, and he fell again.
I can't stand it anymore, and I'm thinking about going over to help my grandfather. At this time, a young man wearing sunglasses walked up, and the old man raised his head and looked at him with begging eyes, but the young man didn't even look at it, and kicked his crutches away.
It's also so damnable! I was a little angry and wanted to pick up the crutches, but I hesitated: do I want to help them?
If you don't help you, you may be run over by a car, and the consequences are very serious, and you are afraid that the old man will put all the sins on my head, saying that I tripped him. I don't know what's going on, a sentence I learned in Chinese class yesterday - "the old and the old, the young and the young" suddenly came out of my mind, I ran over in three steps and two steps, and used all my strength to help the old man up, and picked up the kicked crutches and returned them to the old man, and then continued to help him cross the road. The old man was very grateful, and said in a loud voice:
The children are so good, thank you! Thank you! "No thanks!
I shouted. The old man walked away slowly, but he still looked at me with kind eyes from time to time.
When I got home, I told my mother about it, and my mother said a little embarrassedly: "It seems that Bi Jing is a minority of the things reported on the Internet about helping the elderly and being blackmailed, and most of them are friendly and kind." We must not lose the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation because of individual phenomena.
Mom almost misled you! ”
Nowadays, this problem no longer bothers me, and when the elderly fall, I will not hesitate to help them, because "the old and the old, the young and the young." ”
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The elderly fall to the ground, which is usually divided into two situations. One is that the elderly are unconscious and should not be called. At this point, you should call emergency services** immediately.
If the elderly are conscious, they should first ask the elderly about the fall and whether they have any memory of the fall process, if they cannot remember the fall process, it may be syncope or cerebrovascular accident, and the elderly should be immediately escorted to the hospital for diagnosis and treatment or call for emergency treatment**.
From the perspective of traditional Chinese virtues, when we see an old man falling, we should immediately help the old man up, but how can it become a hot topic now? The reasons for this are worth pondering. This is because in social life, there are some people who use falls to carry out extortion, and many people become innocent victims.
Those who go to help the elderly, they should be worthy of our praise for their good deeds, but in the blink of an eye, they become victims, which should not be, the direct result of this phenomenon is that there will be fewer and fewer people who do good deeds, and more and more people will take a hesitant attitude in the face of this kind of thing, or simply ignore it, if it continues to develop, it will not be conducive to creating a good social and moral environment. It is very disadvantageous for individuals and for society, so when facing the elderly who have fallen, we should do the following.
1. Stay vigilant, film the whole process of the matter, and rescue scientifically.
When you meet an elderly person who has fallen, you must observe the surrounding situation, and at the same time record the whole process of the incident with your mobile phone, and take scientific methods to rescue.
2. Possess certain medical knowledge.
Some elderly people suddenly faint after falling, and at this time, we need to master scientific medical knowledge.
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My parents are past their prime, and I often warn my parents: When you fall, don't let others help you up, and you must get up by yourself. If you can't stand up on your own, call your family, or 120.
Why? Because my parents have high blood pressure, once they are helped up, it is very likely to cause a big disaster, and it is too late to regret it.
The night before, in the Nanjing Taiyuan Community, a septuagenarian lady was injured on the way home, and she sat paralyzed on the ground and couldn't move. After 40 minutes, it was not until the 120 emergency doctors arrived that the old lady was lifted from the ground and taken to a nearby hospital for treatment.
According to common sense, if a septuagenarian falls to the ground, nearby residents should help her up, and respecting the old and loving the young is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. However, have you ever thought about it? The old lady is very old, if someone goes to help her up, in case of an accident, who will bear the responsibility?
This is also the reason why the police did not dare to pick her up when they came.
In my opinion, the residents' approach is really a haircut and foot wash - from top to bottom, they should not choose to call the police first, but should contact her family first, her relatives come, and everyone will help to send them to the hospital without worrying about being blackmailed. If she has no relatives, she should give 120 dozen ** first, and the medical staff still need to be responsible for helping her up?
Or said: "The old lady fell and no one helped her, it was the 'Peng Yu complex' that was causing trouble, and it can be seen from the indifference of human feelings." "Personally, I think that such an opinion is simply a high fever without sweating - nonsense, if a child falls, someone lifts him up, why not?
However, if an old man falls down and someone rashly picks him up, it is very likely that he will do something bad with good intentions and harm the old man.
Why can't the old man be easily helped when he falls? The reason is very simple, most of the elderly suffer from heart disease, high blood pressure, cerebrovascular disease, after falling, if they get up on their own, they will not fall sequelae at all. Once you are dragged up by someone else with a strong external force, it is very likely to cause very serious consequences, ranging from serious illness to death.
The stakes are so high, how can we not guard against it?
The ancients said: "The old and the old, the young and the young." "It is a traditional virtue that people help each other and should be praised.
However, caution must be exercised when it comes to helping elderly people who have fallen. For example, if an elderly man is hit by a car and is lying on the street, if no one helps him, he will survive. However, someone casually helped the old man up, and as a result, he died.
You say, is this helping the elderly or "**" the elderly?
From this point of view, when the elderly fall, they still have to ask medical staff to deal with it. Those who don't understand foreign artillery must not break the machine, this is the responsible approach for the elderly.
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The old man fell and should not be helped.
Should we help the old man up when he falls?
I think this discussion is very necessary. Respecting the old and loving the young, saving the dead and helping the wounded has always been a fine tradition of our country.
Due to the fact that there have been many cases such as the Peng Yu case of helping the fallen elderly to do good deeds, but the old man was falsely accused of being the perpetrator, and even the court sentenced a huge amount of compensation on logical reasoning reasons such as "common sense judgment", more and more people are afraid of helping the fallen elderly.
It's a simple gesture that can lead to endless trouble. Social morality, traditional morality, is gradually lost in our hesitant gaze.
When the question of whether the elderly should be supported when they fall is hotly discussed by the whole society, the public, and the world, it has actually proved that to a certain extent, the morality of this society has gone bankrupt. Obviously, it seems that as a social person, no one can answer this question.
The unscrupulous Nanjing judges, the Tianjin judges, and the old people who punished the old people who slandered Peng Yu should be condemned, but will the onlookers who will not save them also be condemned by morality, justice, and conscience?
After 88-year-old Li Laohan in Wuhan fell at the entrance of a vegetable market less than 100 meters away from his home, many onlookers dared not lend a hand, and finally the old man died of suffocation due to nosebleeds blocking the airway, which shocked the whole society. The indifference and insensitivity of the public to the fall of the elderly should be reviewed by the whole society, and even by everyone. In the past, I always thought that things like whether and how to help the elderly when they fell were not a problem, but now it has really become a big problem.
Although cases like the Nanjing judge and the elderly in Wuhan cannot be said to be a common phenomenon, the social reality reflected by them is very grim.
Our discussion of whether the elderly should be helped when they fall is by no means a deliberate exaggeration of the seriousness of the problem, but a question of the current phenomenon of the decline of morality and values in the entire society, because similar phenomena of indifference and insensitivity do not only occur in the elderly who have fallen, but also in other cases, such as the story of the heroes who shed blood and tears, such as the shouts of "jumping" when onlookers committed suicide by jumping off the building, such as the normality of passengers on the bus turning a blind eye to thieves, etc., This has long been a problem for the whole society to reflect on, and it is completely a social problem.
Since the Nanjing Mrs. Xu incident, China has begun to enter a period of national moral decline, and has begun to disintegrate the morality of the Chinese people. And the price paid by Peng Yu was too high, so he began to indifferent the sympathy of the Chinese people and dilute the feelings between people. Later, a series of incidents, such as fishing law enforcement, completely numbed people's compassion, resulting in a mentality that it was not about themselves, and they hung high, causing the octogenarian to fall to the ground for more than an hour without anyone daring to lend a helping hand.
I'm sure most of the onlookers were good people, but no one could afford that huge price. Can you say that people are apathetic?
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