What should I do if I am forcibly aborted by my parents because I can t negotiate the bride price?

If both men and women plan to get married, but because the bride price cannot be negotiated between the two families, they are asked by their parents to forcibly abort, I personally think that girls should be brave at this time to question their parents' decision, after all, abortion is not a trivial matter, it is very harmful to the girl's body, and parents who really cherish their daughters will not do this part. In addition, if the boy really can't make up the amount of bride price requested by the woman's parents in a short period of time, then show his sincerity as much as possible, use his sincerity to impress the woman's parents, and ask the woman's parents to be more understanding and tolerant. In fact, the bride price is just a formality, just to let the woman's parents know how much they can afford to take care of their daughter, and at the same time, it is also a demonstration of the sincerity of the man's family.

However, in China, where the economy is getting better and better, many people are now offering prices all over the sky, and they will come with a bride price of hundreds of thousands at every turn. <>

Now there are still a few particularly wealthy families, and many families actually can't take out hundreds of thousands of bride prices at once, and the woman's family will plan to break up these little couples alive when the man can't get enough bride price because of face or other reasons. <>

Here, I have to ask, is this marrying a daughter or selling a daughter? Of course, we can also understand that as parents, we must hope that their daughter will marry a good family without worrying about food and clothing, but if I use the "miscarriage" as a bargaining chip, I feel that life is simply too cheap. I think that if the parents are going to drag their daughter to have an abortion because of the bride price issue, the daughter will definitely be disheartened, on the one hand, she will feel that her parents are too ruthless, and on the other hand, she will blame the man for attaching more importance to money than herself.

In any case, I still appeal to everyone here not to pay too much attention to the bride price, after all, girls are married to people, not to money.

Then take good care of your body and break off with this boyfriend directly, but my parents don't agree, and there will be a lot of trouble in the future.

I think we should learn to forget these past events. After all, these things make you feel particularly unhappy. Only by learning to forget can we move forward.

You should tell your parents what you think, even if the other party can't give you a bride price, you are willing to marry him, and if you force yourself to have an abortion, you will not be happy.

If both parties are truly in love with each other, and they are already pregnant with a child, they should sit down and have a frank chat with their parents, he may not have money now, but he will have money in the future, he will work hard, and he will be motivated, and it is impossible for parents not to care about their daughter's life and the child in their womb, which is very damaging to the body! The man assures the girl's parents that you will take action to prove that you will not let the girl and the child in your belly suffer with you!

You should communicate with your parents that two people really love each other and don't care about these material lives, hoping that your parents can understand.

I think we should have our own consciousness, we can't be forced by our parents to do something, if our bride price is relatively high, we should lower the standard of bride price.

I don't think you need to go to such a family if you really don't care about your body because of money.

Who got you pregnant? A miscarriage is a miscarriage.

If it's just a bride price issue, I personally think it's hard not to get involved. But. The important thing is that the bride price is behind.

Well, the two families can't place an order because of the bride price problem, I don't know how much you ask, if you ask too much, others really can't pay, then it is equivalent to saying that you are forcing others, then others are really not like you to join me a total of 50, I tell you that the bride price is 800,000 conversion. Right? But if it's the other way around.

There are 1 million people in your family who say they want to fail 500 out of 500, and you say it can't be because you're pregnant, let's say people don't want it, and that's another one. You have to know that if you add it, it won't be a good life, and then you can also review it again and have a boyfriend! Or wait for your husband, or is it not the one you want?

Because in this case, he should speak for you? Right? When you get to this point, the child is not two people alone.

If he says that, he's forcing you in disguise, and you think you're living. Will I be happy if I respond? I don't speak Mandarin.

You don't think it's better to be separated early. You have a baby, who is watching the child? Of course, I don't say you'll open it.

After all, I am the value of the product, and I can appreciate the value, but in that case, you will be very miserable. You know what I mean.

I don't think it's worth it, I don't understand the bride price, it's just a show of heart, too entangled in the price is not like a marriage, but like a transaction.