Wondering about the conflict between the choice of loving and being loved and the monetary aspect

Updated on society 2024-06-04
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My choice is: the one who loves me, because, I have also chosen this way, the situation is different.

    However, love me and what I love, indeed, only those who love me will give me happiness, money, is a sensitive topic, however, in the hearts of those who love you, you will not feel that money is important, the important thing is you, when you are helpless, he will try his best to help you, even if you choose not him in the end, but he will not regret it, he never thought about what you want him to pay back, just pay without regrets.

    Look at what you love, just that little bit of money, he sees it as more important than anything else, more important than your current mood.

    When there is a problem, you need your lover to share it the most, but he doesn't care about your mood at all, only cares about his money, can you guarantee that you can pay it back on time, is this kind of person worthy of love?

    If, today, it is he who encounters this problem, I believe that you will share it for him like someone who loves you, find a way, and care for him, instead of thinking about whether you can pay him back like he is now.

    I once lent money to someone I loved, but in the end, he didn't pay it back, but I don't mind, because money is not important in front of love at all, but what I mind is that he doesn't love me, and when I need someone to help me the most, only the person who loves me is by my side, so I chose to leave, although I still have love for him, but I know that this kind of love will only hurt me more, and leaving is the only best way.

    Now, I'm with the one who loves me, and now I love him as much as he loves me.

    If you meet someone who really loves you, cherish it, don't miss it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If it's me, I'll choose the second one, and the first one isn't a man at all. I don't have the idea of doing something for my own woman, do you still want to live with such a person for the rest of your life?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you can guarantee to pay me back at the end of the month, I can give you 1,000 yuan.

    When you urgently need a sum of money, you must also be able to guarantee that you can pay him back before the end of the month.

    1000 yuan can be seen a person.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    One is someone I love: if you can guarantee to return the money to me at the end of the month, I can give you 1,000 yuan.

    He can also say this kind of thing?? 4000 should be given to you directly

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Choose someone who loves me, so that you will know how happy you are in the future!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Being loved is a blessing.

    It's up to you to choose

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Do your own thing, do it yourself, what do I choose? Decide for yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Actually, most people. At a time when something hasn't been experienced. will choose what they love.

    And gave up the one who loved himself. After going through a lot of things. Discover:

    Life is short, why not live your life happily. If it were me, I would choose to love myself.

    See the truth in times of crisis. You should have heard this phrase. Everything you care about is false. Only when you encounter difficulties, see who has been with you until the end.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is better for you to love you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Choose the one that loves you! You will live happily ever after.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What do you dream of? If you love the country and don't love beauty, then look at the money! After all, things have to be paved with money, so you can look for everything in your own sky, including love.

    And it's not that money and love can't go hand in hand. Moreover, you love others in love; Others love you as well. You said no?

    Of course, you can choose love, if you love the country and don't love the beauty, if you are only envious of the mandarin duck and not the fairy, then don't think about it. In that case, you choose love!

    But I know what you're thinking right now. Ideally, love is what you deserve, but the money you get in exchange for love is not what you deserve.

    To put it bluntly, you originally wanted to take the money, but you were afraid of being sorry for yourself. Actually, I am a dreamer. But sometimes I wonder if I made the right choice.

    I just use my own efforts to pursue, but if I choose to give up the path of love temporarily, I will be confused; What's more, you are leaving, exchanging your love for money that you shouldn't get. You may regret it, and it's close to 100 percent. If you want to succeed, work your own.

    Walking under the sky that you are trying to hold up, even if the sky is small, you are worthy of yourself, and you can be happy. Being a human being doesn't have to be earth-shattering, the key is to be comfortable and happy, right?

    I wish you happiness.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I always feel that how to say it, love with financial security can be very happy, but love without financial security can also be very happy. Two people are diligent and thrifty, and they are close to each other, which can also be a beautiful love.

    Whether it is ancient or now, what determines love depends on the outlook on life and world view of both parties, and everything is different from person to person.

    My opinion is that as long as two people truly love each other, money is not an issue.

    Create your own future!!

    That's the reality in this society.

    Without bread, even if there is love, there will be no happiness. After marriage, how many people quarrel and divorce because of money.

    Because, the stability of money is the basis for the long-term stability of love.

    Therefore, love is indispensable if there is bread.

    This is life, and it is complete.

    Love is great, don't measure it by money.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no true love, the ancients said that "love the country and love the beauty more" and "rather give up the country than abandon the beauty" This is not true.

    When you really lose the country, you will find that in fact, the beauty will also follow the country.

    Therefore, money is definitely more important than love, which means that love is built on money.

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