Why I m getting more and more afraid of being lonely now?

Dear Friend:

Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering losses, being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall, is the most valuable experience in your life

What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing.

Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.

Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much.

You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm!

I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself! In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely.

So, isn't it a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened? Is that right?

For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.

Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?

So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!

In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life?

In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it.

Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life! ~

Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired.

There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! ~^

So much to the point.

You should work harder to face life.

Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!

May you shine every day! * Happy and healthy :)

I hope to encourage you together.

The older you get, the more you know, the emptier your heart becomes, and the more empty you are, the more lonely you feel. You need some company, someone you need to talk to.

Loneliness is also a practice, and I'm used to it.

The reason for the insecurity, try to make more friends.

1. Fear is a kind of physical instinct, and its ultimate reason is the fear of death;

2. The personality formed in childhood determines how much you are afraid of loneliness now;

3. In childhood, you were not confident enough and were afraid of loneliness;

4. Participate less in too noisy occasions, such a big gap;

5. Find your own emotional sustenance, and have psychological sustenance when you are alone, such as researching a science, watching a meaningful TV series, etc.;

Because you lack love, you lack care.

It has something to do with the education you received from an early age.