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If you go to the cafeteria to eat by yourself, will you share a table with others when there is no seat? In college, eating alone is a common thing. You can see that many students eat alone in the cafeteria, and the situation of not having a place to eat actually happens very rarely, of course, it cannot be ruled out.

In my previous experience, when I went to the cafeteria to eat by myself and didn't have a seat, I might pack up and go back to the dorm to eat. There is another possibility, which is to share a table with others. Sharing a table is also a common occurrence in college, especially during peak periods.

01. Fight the table depending on the situation. Some people will have some bad habits when eating that they are not aware of, such as: like to lift their feet, chirp their lips and eat loudly, etc., which will affect the meals of the rest of the students at the table.

If there is no place to eat in the cafeteria, I will first take a general look at the <> in the cafeteria

Seats, see which tables have free seats, observe his eating habits, and then choose a place to share the table according to the situation.

02. You can't force the table. We have to take into account the feelings of others when sharing tables, and we can't force ourselves to share tables when we go to the cafeteria to eat but there are no seats. Before sharing a table, you can ask the other person if they would mind eating together, so as not to make others feel stressed or embarrassed.

Be honest and <> when asking

Because the other party may feel very disgusted because of some of their unintentional actions, and they don't want to share a table to eat together.

03. Others have the right to refuse to share the table. Some people in college are used to eating alone in the cafeteria, and they just like to eat quietly alone. There may be times when we go straight to the table and affect the other people at the table.

Others have the right to refuse to share a table, and we must allow others to refuse, which is a kind of <> of politeness

Appear. Sharing a table is a trivial matter, and we can't morally kidnap others and embarrass them or make them angry because of it. If someone else refuses, we can still eat at a different table.

By personal choice, most people who sit are reluctant, but if you are standing reluctant? Maybe still unwilling.

At this point, the rules of the environment contradict the will of the individual, what should we do? Is that right?

1. Change the rules. This is not your place. It may seem like the laws and regulations haven't heard that you don't have to set the table. I don't study law. I want you to study the legal interpretation. The law is the rule of the state.

2. Change yourself and adjust your mentality, but when people are emotional, things get complicated, and I personally think it's hard to figure this out.

3. Change the environment and find a private room next time. In fact, big hotels usually don't need to set tables by default, but they pay attention to the quality of service. Most of them are ordinary small restaurants or roadside stalls. Don't talk about service in this kind of place. Fighting at the table is an unspoken rule.

Going back to the question at the beginning, you are standing, do you still agree? Even if you don't agree, do you think someone is a good person when you hear them agree? Are you busy from a waiter's point of view?

How does it feel when you're busy? I'm not morally condemning you. I just wish to look at it from another angle.

Judgments may vary, emotions may vary.

I'm a landscape major, and landscape design is actually very particular about distance. Refusing to share a table is actually denying strangers access to your safe distance. After a safe distance, you will feel infringed and uneasy, so I understand how you can refuse to share a table.

But objectively speaking, you are just renting this space in this place, and it does not belong to you. The space you rent is also the space you can use to eat. If you're too crowded, you shouldn't be allocated another space.

In other words, some canteens don't have seats at all. For example, cooked food can only be removed. Are they breaking the law?

So I personally don't think I want to share a table. Yes, it's uncomfortable, but that's the way the environment is. If you can't accept it, you should change to a private room next time, or change to a restaurant with good service quality. Personal choice, measured by yourself.

I will, the university cafeteria is public, and there is no rule that anyone should sit **, so when there are no seats, I think it's normal to share a table with others, and maybe I can meet other alumni during dinner.

Yes. **Seating when available**. Anyway, everyone doesn't know that they are all here to eat, and they will leave after eating, and they won't feel too embarrassed.