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1.Accept your own personality, the difference between introversion and extroversion is just a difference in the way you get energy, introverts get energy from the inside, and extroverts get energy from the outside.
2.Finding what you like and what you are strong in, and focusing on doing things will give you a sense of satisfaction and a sense of naturalness and authenticity. Learn a thing to learn fine, enhance their confidence, in front of a familiar thing we can often talk Kaikai, for introverts dare not express in front of everyone, stage fright, shyness, unclear expression and other phenomena can be weakened.
3.Many people don't like working in groups, but try to get their point across. Live with a sense of control.
4.Try to seize some opportunities to express, and it may be very contradictory, painful, and tense when there is an expression before expression. However, at the end of the day, you will feel a sense of accomplishment after taking on the challenge.
I hope that we can be people who have our own thoughts, know what we want and what we don't want, and can't bury that heart that is not the same as that taciturn.
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Expand your knowledge, improve your self-confidence, and be able to say something, and when you feel that others like to talk about yourself, or what you say is really helpful to others, you will become more and more like to talk and become talkative. Being friends with talkative people can also help.
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Step 1: Have a correct understanding of introversion and extroversion in terms of mentality. Introverts tend to be more self-conscious and stable, but in the long run, people feel very cowardly, not angry, no self-confidence, and no fighting spirit.
Extroversion, on the other hand, is a positive attitude, sunny, cheerful, make yourself more confident, communicate more smoothly, have more friends, and will also win victory in the workplace for yourself. We must firmly believe that as long as we want to change, we will work hard and we will be effective. Change your personality and start now.
Step 2: Overcome the psychology of low self-esteem. Introversion, often caused by low self-esteem, feeling that you are not outstanding, feeling that you do not have good skills, do not have a good family background, do not have a good diploma, do not have good eloquence, do not have money, etc., will affect your state of mind.
To face it with a confident attitude, without a good family background, you can slowly work hard and change; Without a good diploma, you can study on your own; Without good eloquence, you can practice slowly, no one is born an orator; There are no skills to learn and further your education.
We are still in a stage of personality plasticity. Making more friends and being humorous can easily infect others. When you are timid and shy, you remind yourself to be generous...
Find yourself first. It's a good place to start by getting around in a familiar environment so that there is no psychological resistance, and it's a good start to talk to someone about a topic that you care about or that you're more familiar with and good at. This will help you build your self-confidence.
Then it is to find some kind and cheerful friends, kind people will not laugh at others, so that you can avoid some unnecessary injuries and blows. I have only these suggestions, and I wish you a speedy one!
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Want to go from being an introverted, dull person to a confident, talkative person. First of all, you have to try to get into a new environment and get out of your comfort zone. Using the pressures of the environment forces a shift in our psyche.
Like joining a speech and eloquence club, taking a job in sales, or trying to chase a girl. Under the influence of the environment, we will change very quickly.
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Make yourself extroverted, talkative about your mentality, you must be sunny and optimistic, no worries and worries, improve your IQ and emotional intelligence, you can sign up for a speech class, you can read books on the proud aspects of social skills, a number of talented people to study, improve their connotation, you will definitely become extroverted and talkative.
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Go out more often to participate in social activities, and you will gradually improve your communication skills.
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Start with the little things around you, smile kindly at the people around you, take the initiative to say hello, don't be shy, constantly challenge your own shy bottom line, and slowly get used to being cheerful, smiling, and being optimistic.
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If you want to become extroverted and talkative in personality, then, in your daily life, you can participate in more social activities and make more extroverted friends, so that you can become talkative.
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Read more to make yourself know more. Standing high. Participate more in the group, participate in more group activities, and speak more. Be well prepared before you speak. Gradually improve your conversation, gradually improve your conversation.
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How to become outgoing and talkative? This must still be oriented from your personality, because everyone has a lot to do with their living environment since childhood, or their own personality, which requires you to join more groups and interact with others more, so that you can improve yourself.
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Introverts tend to rarely greet or make small talk. In fact, you only need to learn the skills of greeting and the basic etiquette of greeting people. As long as there is a beginning, everything will be natural.
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This question still needs to look at the congenital conditions, I think some things in the bones are not easy to change, but there are no absolutes, and it should be no problem through acquired hard work and learning. Read more, make friends, speak more actively in public, but don't talk nonsense.
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Learn more to make yourself better and more talented!!
The so-called non-talkative is mainly due to lack of knowledge, fear of empty language, and fear of opening a yellow tongue. There is also poor language organization skills, and I am afraid that I will not be able to explain clearly for a long time. These need to be perfected by learning.
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Learn to be confident, and do things with friends, go out and see more, talk more with friends.
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Being introverted is actually a kind of fear of letting go. The reason is mainly because of lack of self-confidence, and it is recommended that you improve your self-confidence more. For example, improve one's personal strengths, or read more books to increase knowledge.
Or make yourself outstanding in a certain area, at least you will be confident in this field. It's all about your own confidence in yourself. Of course, there is no value in indiscriminately firing nonsense.
It's best to be humorous and witty. Try to change yourself.
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First of all, you have to change yourself, take the initiative to smile and talk to others.
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If you want to make yourself introverted, there are several factors to consider, first, read more books in all aspects to increase your self-cultivation, all kinds of books can increase your knowledge in all aspects, and you can also integrate yourself into a more class of people. Second, find more themes in your weak aspects, and tell yourself that you don't have to be afraid of not doing well, just afraid of not participating, even if you participate, fail, it's okay, after all, you have taken a strange step, next time, you can do better than this time, then, the aspects that were not involved have been involved, but they are not good enough, it is better than not involved. Third, introverted people are generally self-closed, lack of self-confidence, dare not try, this is a very failed reason, tell yourself, it's okay, I did it first, I can't do it well, I change it next time, I have a lot of opportunities later, I must do better next time than this time, self-confidence will slowly get back little by little, after all, the leaders in various fields also come from not understanding, and the leaders are still like this, not to mention mortals.
In short, believe in yourself and have the courage to try, and the sense of introversion and dependence will slowly disappear.
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