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In fact, as a relationship maintenance, giving is the most important way to each other. If everyone doesn't give, then there is no way to maintain this relationship. In fact, a good relationship, everyone is giving, paying their own labor, paying their own feelings.
If it is not for special reasons, then it means that this man is at least a relatively selfish person. If you had chosen to leave. That might end better for you, now that this boyfriend is all right for you, will he give up because of the location?
Do you have what it takes to accept such an outcome? You have to have such a responsibility. On the contrary, your thinking may be a kind of inner "strong First of all, you are in the object, first of all, you should both put some principled things in front of you, when the two of you get along, you should both sides see through some of the connotation of each other, so as not to wait for a long time, when it comes to talking about marriage, the separation is not good and then decides to choose, so that the other party is embarrassed, secondly, filial piety is the first, our parents give us life, so that we have the opportunity to live and work hard in this world, The mouth should be grateful to the parents, people who do not honor their parents, I personally think it is bad, even if they are married, it is a troublesome hidden danger after marriage!
First of all, you are in the object, your girlfriend is all good to you, will you give up because of the geographical location? Do you have what it takes to accept such an outcome? You have to have such a responsibility.
On the other hand, your thinking may be a kind of inner "power."
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Personally, I think that opening a restaurant is not a thing that can be successful by spending money and investing, even if you listen to your girlfriend's advice and open a restaurant, but if the business is not good, or because of poor management and finally closes, your parents will not agree, unless you have been operating stably for many years, and your parents are satisfied after inspection, it will be different, the problem is that there are many things to consider when opening a store, about the location of the store, the decoration style, the positioning of the restaurant's flavor characteristics, the chef's craftsmanship, the purchase of ingredients, the management of employees, and the management of the business...... And so on determine whether the restaurant can be maintained, whether it can survive, the test is a person's comprehensive ability, in case of failure, more no play, if you are personally competent, you can also try, otherwise in the end people and money are empty, want to get the approval of the other party's parents, you must be reliable, have a stable job, people can rest assured that their daughters will be handed over to you, parents in the world do not want their children to suffer, personal ability, and down-to-earth attitude is the king, You can manage your life and work well, bring happiness to others, and live a good life.
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Hello, if it's not a close family marriage, two people can get married, not cousins or anything like that. Thank you.
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Hello, I've seen what you've to say. I think if your girlfriend has no opinion, she can still deal with it for the time being. This question needs to be explained by him and his parents.
Whether there is work or not is your problem. Agreeing or disagreeing is his problem. If the woman likes you.
I think he's going to do his parents' work. Specifically, whether you can get married or not is only the woman's mood.
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It's hard to say, I guess they will be separated in the end, a man without a job is fatal, and parents don't agree when it's critical.
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It's better not to get married, find another one from scratch, otherwise you will have conflicts in the future
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You don't have to open a restaurant. It's okay to have a stable job first. Whether you get married or not is your own business, and your parents are just making reference opinions.
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Marriage can be said to be a matter of two people, or it can be said to be a matter of two families.
But more importantly, do both of these people have the ability to live their lives well?
Only if Sun Pai can live his own life well, can he live the life of two people, and he can live the life of two families.
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Getting married is not as simple as falling in love, and if you want to get married, you have to consider both the feelings of two people and whether they are suitable or not.
You can't ignore the happiness in front of you because of the future, and marriage is related to the rest of your life. There are great differences in attitudes towards marriage, and it is often said that "marriage is the grave of love, and after marriage, it is necessary to prevent oneself from moving one's own grave and to prevent others from robbing the grave."
Therefore, many people are afraid of getting married, worried about being unhappy after marriage; But there are also people who believe that marriage is a continuation of love and the beginning of a happy life.
In fact, no matter what others think of marriage, it has nothing to do with your marriage, just like the truth of "pony crossing the river", marriage needs to be experienced by yourself to understand. Of course, you can learn from the experiences and lessons of others, which will allow you to avoid detours.
When the relationship between two people reaches the consummation, it is natural that there will be plans to get married. However, there are many factors to consider when getting married, and you can't blindly choose to get married on impulse.
If you don't want your marriage to become a "grave of love", you must consider these issues in advance to avoid marital misfortune.
Considering the personality factors of two people, the relationship needs to be run-in.
When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that each other is very good at everything, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will make Xianglu you feel respectful and driven, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot.
The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's personalities are suitable, and if the personalities don't get along, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship.
There are no common interests and hobbies, as well as topics.
Getting married is not a simple matter, and you have to think about your future. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end.
With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together and talk together.
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In the concept of the vast majority of people, they think that marriage is okay as long as two people like each other, and there is nothing more important than "mutual like", after all, marriage still needs to have a certain emotional foundation to go further, and marriage without feelings is like scattered sand, and it will be dispersed as soon as the wind blows.
Therefore, many people insist that two people must like each other and get married again, but it backfires, and the most painful thing in the relationship is that they can't love each other, two people obviously like each other, but for various reasons, they can't hold hands together, and in the end, they have no choice but to lose to these three words: not suitable.
Force majeure factors.
Two people like each other, but they can't be together, and the most critical point is that they are hindered by "force majeure factors". You may ask, which are the force majeure factors, for example, the two of you like each other, but one of the parents is not optimistic, and even thinks that the person you like does not meet the standard in their eyes, they will use the identity of the past to persuade you to separate, if you resist, you have to be together, some parents may be scared, saying that if you insist on being with him, then you will not go back to this home in the future and break off the relationship. From now on, your marriage is not blessed by your parents, generally speaking, few people will resist their parents, to be with the other half desperately, most of them are to end this love and inability to love on the grounds of inappropriateness.
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I don't think getting married is a matter of two people. It's a matter of two families or two families. If you want everyone to meditate on the fortunate and shout the blessings, and be able to move forward well, then you should have an overall concept, so that you can manage happiness and infiltrate the mu. Strive for happiness.
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Marriage should be a matter for two families. But the most important thing is to see if the two people really love each other. Can you tolerate and understand each other?
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Couples make up their minds to be with their significant other, usually because they love each other, understand each other, and are able to work through difficulties and challenges together. Some common causes may include:
1.Emotional traction: Couples may have a strong mutual attraction and emotional pull that makes them want to be together.
2.Career and family support: Both parties support each other in professional and family life, motivate each other, and overcome difficulties and challenges together.
3.Trust and respect: Couples build strong trust and respect, are able to be open and honest with each other, and understand each other's needs.
4.Common goals and values: Both parties share similar or identical goals, values, and philosophies of life, so they can share life and dreams.
For couples who are determined to be with their significant other, it is recommended that both partners maintain good communication and respect in the marriage, learn to be honest with each other, share thoughts and feelings, and support each other's needs and dreams.
When faced with difficulties and challenges, we must deal with them together and support each other. If there are conflicts and disagreements between husband and wife, you can try marriage** or seek professional help. Most importantly, both partners need to do their best to maintain a healthy, long, and happy marriage.
In addition, couples should also maintain mutual understanding and tolerance, and try to avoid blaming and attacking each other. They can listen attentively to each other's opinions and opinions, communicate and explore solutions to problems.
At the same time, they can also choose some meaningful activities and projects to spend quality time together and enhance their bond and sense of interdependence. Creative joint activities, such as practicing yoga and learning a new language or skill, can strengthen the bond between couples.
Finally, in order to maintain a healthy and long married life, couples need to manage themselves, such as maintaining a healthy lifestyle and actively managing stress and anxiety. This will make them not only more emotionally connected, but also more confident and purposeful in life.
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When Huahua was young, she talked about a boyfriend who was much worse than her own family. The elders told her: If you are looking for a partner, you must find someone who has a well-off family, at least the right person. If the conditions are too poor, life will be difficult later.
Huahua disagreed, thinking that they knew money and didn't know love. Her boyfriend is attentive to her and is willing to give her anything except no money.
Huahua enjoys this sweetness and pampering, and firmly believes that as long as the relationship is good, other problems can be overcome and solved. Isn't there a saying, love is full of water.
Huahua, like every girl, sees love as very holy, and has a princess dream, looking forward to the day when Prince Charming will ride auspicious clouds to marry her. Then, as in the end of the fairy tale: from then on, they lived happily ever after.
Talking about money in front of love can't be more worldly.
Sanmao once said that love, if it is not implemented in the real life of dressing, eating, counting money, and sleeping, it is not easy to last forever.
Hope is always hope, and dreams are always dreams. When love is gradually implemented in life, the world reveals its truth and cruelty.
Because of how to spend money, what kind of decoration he likes, and whether he helps the third uncle's son find a job, the fifth uncle often eats and drinks and hides needles in the cotton when the parents of both sides meet, etc., Huahua still broke up with her boyfriend.
She finally realized painfully: Door-to-door matching refers not only to money, but also to spiritual door-to-door matching. The thinking patterns and values of the original family, these concepts flowing in the blood, cannot be changed by the power of love.
Worldly eyes and arguments are not something that love can bear. People like to see Cinderella marry a prince rather than marry a Grey husband.
She has a song "Ocean of Love", which tells the story of the disparity between the two families and the disgrace of the boy. In "Ordinary World", Sun Shaoan and Tian Runye were also separated by their parents because of the big difference in family background.
Marriage is a joint decision of two families, and in order to last a long time, after all, all the external strength of both parties is needed, and the spiritual growth together.
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How can there be two people in the world who are naturally suitable, and all suitability is just the result of long-term getting along and running-in, tolerating and accommodating each other.
1."Falling in love is talking about a person's strengths, and getting married is living with a person's shortcomings. "Only when you can accept and tolerate each other's shortcomings, and are willing to discover and dig out the hidden strengths of each other from these shortcomings.
Even if you know that each other is not perfect, you still want to hold hands with him and her, go through this life side by side, and will not force each other to make changes for yourself, and will not find fault with each other because of each other's shortcomings, this relationship can last for a long time.
2.If you feel that you love him very much, are ready to spend the rest of your life with him, can accept his strengths and weaknesses, and can tolerate his flaws and imperfections. No matter what happens halfway, I am willing to face it with him.
No matter what happens to the first book, you will not suddenly abandon him and leave alone. And he is also wholeheartedly devoted to you, from the beginning to the end. Then you can get married at any time.
Whether it's marriage or love, what we want to find is someone who can be ourselves in front of him. It doesn't matter if you are crying with tears, or laughing heartlessly, whether you are beautiful and beautiful, or embarrassed, positive and optimistic, or depressed and decadent. He is willing to hug you, kiss you, hold your hand, and walk with you through this journey of life.
May we all meet such a person.
Both of them believe that marriage is a very sacred thing, not a child's play or a playhouse, and firmly respect each other's marriage and protect happiness.
If you have reached this level of love, you can prepare to get married, and from then on you will work together for the rest of your life.
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