Can children talk to their parents? Should children be submissive to their parents words?

Of course, this is possible, because at least ninety percent of so many children in the world will contradict their parents, which is needless to say, because children are relatively young and don't understand anything at all, and their parents will contradict themselves when they are unhappy, and there is nothing to say.

What adults say is wrong, children can be topped, which shows that children are smart and have the ability to judge.

Children can speak out if they have different opinions, and they can argue with reason, but don't quarrel with their parents and lose their temper.

This is not the case, when the adult is not right, the child can express his own opinions and opinions, and this is the case for individuals.

In fact, children contradict their parents, no matter what society they are in, and the key is a matter of scale.

If it is just a matter of disagreement, it is acceptable.

In fact, the landlord only needs to figure out whether it is a confrontation or disobedience, after all, Chinese traditional culture teaches us that filial piety is the first, and it is necessary to respect the old and love the young.

First of all, you have to determine whether you are at fault, you can discuss anything with your parents, don't come up and top, and stand on the bottom line to solve it in a calm tone.

You can communicate with your parents, after all, it's the first time you're a child, and your parents are also your first parents, learn to communicate with them and say what you think.

Children, you can bite your own hands, you must bite your own hands to bleed, you know?

Naturally not. Filial piety to parents is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, there are ancient lying ice for carp, Lao Lai entertaining relatives, but that is feudal filial piety, should not be advocated. To be filial to your parents is to love them from the bottom of your heart and tolerate them.

Maybe our parents have some mandatory requirements for us, but believe it is out of love. When our parents' demands are dissatisfied, we should not choose to go against the grain, we can choose to communicate well with them and trust that they will understand you. We should not blindly obey them.

Have your own subjective awareness.

Filial piety has filial piety, and filial piety is one of the core contents of Chinese culture, which has a very profound meaning, and it is definitely not a simple "obedience" can be explained.

Of course not, the right one is taken, and the wrong one is corrected.

1. If you do something wrong, you are really stupid - if the child does something wrong, you can slowly correct the child, and guide the child to recognize his mistakes, or even where the mistakes are or directly point out the children's mistakes. But don't say "it's wrong again", and let the child learn to guide the child, so that the child deeply understands his mistakes, and the child will not continue to make mistakes next time.

2. I don't care about you anymore, whatever you do - such words will only make children have thoughts in their hearts about their parents slowly alienating. Parents are a safe haven for their children, and if they want to make their children feel close to themselves, then they can't say such words.

3. It's all the same as a child, why are you not as good as others - the child is your own, so parents don't say such things, you must praise your child more, the child's psychology will be healthy, but praise must also be moderate, otherwise the child will have vanity.

4. Shut up, how is it disobedient - children must be patient to educate, rough education of children will make children rebellious, and mental health will also be affected.

5. Stupid, useless things - children are the crystallization of their parents' love, and saying such things to their children not only hurts the child's heart, but also scolds himself.

6. If I say no, I can't do it - a tough attitude towards children will only be counterproductive. Parents should use some examples to persuade their children. Rather than a forceful way to prescribe the child's behavior.

That's the case with parents, and because you're still young, you don't have enough ability to fight against them, and when you become an adult, parents will be relatively equal to their children, and when they're old, they may listen to their children in turn, and most families in China are like this, and I also think that parents are bullying children, and parents are not saints, of course, they will be vexatious, and there is nothing they can do but endure, and you are just a little rebellious now, and when you have children, will you be considerate of them, and your relatives, after all, you can't care about what is right or wrong, because they are wrong They are also parents.

Can't think like that! What your parents do for you is good, although sometimes the way is not good, but it will not harm you. Is that how much you love to listen to your friends?

Is it possible to listen to your friends and make a big difference? If you're such a! Don't rely on your parents if you have the ability, don't stop others talking nonsense, and strive for a better future by yourself!

I hope you have your own opinions, and it's best to figure it out for yourself, don't go with the flow!

There is a reason to choose, and you can't blindly obey it.

It's not that you have to listen to your parents for everything, but there are some things that you have to listen to your parents and me.

People are doing it, and the sky is watching. You have done a good job, your parents naturally have their own preferences, which you can't change, so you do what you should, you don't need to be obedient to too unreasonable requests, and you don't expect your parents who pay a lot of eccentricity to say that you are good, you are just too good to talk, so there is now a step by step, why can't you say it once: no!?

If you can express your opinions in an appropriate form, maybe the situation will be more controllable, after all, you are also the child of your parents, and they will also think about whether they are too much, angry and useless, and think more about how to break the game, instead of sulking and hurting their bodies.

Not all parents in the world are good parents, not all children are good children, someone can sell their children, lose their children, and do things that are not as good as pigs and dogs to children, and it is not that everyone can not say, because they are parents, it is natural to do anything to their children, children cannot be blamed, others cannot be blamed, if you do that, it will be a big rebellion or something, what is the kindness, the kindness, even if you say that you have not done anything wrong, you have not done anything wrong, and the wrong thing is still wrong, if the parents do something wrong, they always take the grace of support, Isn't it true that our parents gave birth to us not to love each other and share family and human affection, but to ruthlessly take advantage of, bully, and take advantage?

If I were you, I would be far away, anyway, how to do they are that attitude, character is not formed day and night, it is accumulated over time, it is difficult to change, distance to produce a sense of security is good for everyone, it is not for you to ignore them, that is, what should be honored or honored, what should be fought or fight, don't feel unkind because it is yours, is it that they are selfish and selfish.

The son is not filial to the father's fault or something, if you are saying your own words are not necessary, then you are picking bones in your own eggs, you can't pick bones, you can only deceive yourself and say that eggs are bones, that is cowardice, evasion, you can't always only find problems in yourself, others are also looking for them, ask yourself if their actions are right Is it fair, you think you are at fault because you did not meet their unreasonable demands, then no one will meet your requirements or that unreasonable demand, then whose fault is it.

In my opinion, even if you want a cheap house, you must quickly separate from them, and support yourself early. Although we will suffer a little loss in doing so. But I think that if you don't split up now, you will have to suffer a lot of losses in the future! It's worth it to exchange some money for the purity of the second half of your life.

Maybe you are the eldest and your younger brother is the youngest, so they are more eccentric, plus your younger brother gave birth to a son, and yours is a daughter, so they are more eccentric. If you split up, the real estate must be your brother's, you're afraid you can't fight, the shop may be half of one person, both places are given to one of them, neither of them will agree, right? If there are many small properties, you are less, and you will work your own in the future, and don't deal with the small ones after the two elders are gone.

First of all, I think there is a generation gap with my parents after all, after so many things, blindly forbearance or complaining can't solve the problem, maybe find the root of the problem, calm down and talk more, the situation should improve a little...

I've seen this kind of thing like you on TV, and it's really infuriating! The last party really can't bear to kill the other, I hope you don't think about it, don't you want to divide the family, then divide! You eat it yourself, and you will save your wife from being angry.

But as a child, you should also be honored, do your best, and the house or something is your parents' house or did you buy it yourself? If you buy it yourself, you must not let it! If it's your parents' then it's good, I think you're very sad to have such parents negotiate with your brother and find a lawyer The house is not wanted, and his parents let him raise him, old age, sickness and death are not mixed with money, and what you are honoring is your conscience

Calm down, if you go to reason with your parents, you are all right, what can you do? The fact that they will always be your parents cannot be changed. The best way to do this is to go out on your own and live your own little life, you must have heard:

Distance produces beauty", right? Try it and see if it will change your heart and their heart.

The law starts from the technique, the machine is born from the heart, and the tongue is the heart.

Alas. I'm dizzy! Is it the idea of male superiority and inferiority of the older generation?

Look away, don't go to heart. Nurture your daughter into a talent and raise her eyebrows!

I think the main reason is that your brother's children are boys, and the old man is patriarchal. Then there is your brother and daughter-in-law, who are not as personable and reasonable as you and your wife. Your parents would rather offend you than your brother, and your parents spend more time with your brother, and your brother should take care of his younger brother since he was a child, and your parents may also be used to favoring his younger brother.

In fact, you should have lived separately a long time ago, there are no contradictions after being together for a long time, you can't blame your parents all, the problem is likely to lie with your younger brother and sister-in-law. It's okay to be separated. Let's think of a fair way to live separately.

It's okay to do things at home, and it's no good to worry too much, so you still have to rely on yourself.

Try to move them with your actions, and as for your brother and sister-in-law, good will be rewarded with good and evil will be rewarded, let them go.

It is estimated that the two of you have a gentle personality, since you let you eat separately, then split up, what's the matter, this is a good reason.

Just be a good person yourself, buy some clothes, shoes and socks for your parents during the New Year's holidays, and usually buy them some meat and vegetables, I believe that your parents will be influenced slowly.

In fact, you don't have to be too uncomfortable, there are many such families, since they can bear each other, you have to be patient, if you really can't stand it, don't stay at home when they quarrel, and it will be fine in the future, if you want to change the situation and don't want to say it, write down what you want to say on paper, show them at the right time, let them realize the harm they quarrel to you.

There is no other way, but this is not a bad thing, the most you receive and feel like this, you must be a cultured and reasonable person in the future, you better learn to understand that tolerance and tolerance are your future path!

Take the initiative to talk to parents about the problem of eccentricity, so that parents are aware of the harm they have caused to their children, so that parents will more or less set the balance right, and will also make their hearts feel better.

The reason why many people have an unhappy childhood is because they have a pair of eccentric parents who have suffered a lot of grievances since they were children. The reason why many people are entangled is because the person who hurts them is their biological parents, what if they meet eccentric parents?

1. Communicate with your parents.

If your parents' partiality is too serious and you have reached the point where you can't bear it, you can find an opportunity to talk to your parents, tell them how sad you are, and let them realize that what they are doing is inappropriate and will pay attention to it in the future.

Second, there are grievances to say.

After some people are left out in the cold, they are afraid of being criticized or ignored again, so they take everything to heart and endure any grievances by themselves, which is a very bad practice. If you have grievances to speak out, let your family understand your difficulties, instead of letting misunderstandings make you more and more distant from each other.

3. Don't live with your parents.

Parents are too partial, they will definitely think about the children they like in everything, and if they still live together, you will only do this and that like a slave, and you have to be thankless. If you don't obey, you will speak ill of each other at least and beat and scold at worst. Therefore, it is better to live separately, out of sight, out of mind, and just take a look at it during the New Year's holidays.

Fourth, empathy.

Sometimes you can think about it differently, you can look at this problem from the perspective of parents, maybe you don't think your parents are too biased, maybe if you are a parent, maybe you can't reach that level of fairness.

Fifth, be more understanding.

It is not easy for parents to raise children, to be more tolerant and understanding of parents, ten fingers are not generally long, it is normal for parents to prefer a certain child, if parents do not favor themselves too much, they must strive to improve themselves, and at the same time care more about their parents, so that they feel their filial piety, parents will not snub themselves.