I had a crush on everyone at first, but the more I got acquainted with it, the more bored I became.

Under normal circumstances, people will be like this, at the beginning of the unfamiliar when they are more curious, maybe the other party has characteristics that you do not have, very attractive to you, when you are familiar with each other, understand each other, do not be curious, and begin to slowly discover his shortcomings, to see if you can accept his shortcomings.

You are somewhat sensitive, so to overcome this problem. In fact, the better the relationship with friends, the less scruples they have when they speak, some are for your good, some are not paying attention to what they say, you can observe whether others are like this?

You can try to be honest with others, and when you feel that others are sarcastically treating you, tell yourself that you have a clear conscience. What's more important is that you treat the other person as a friend, and when you feel that the other person's words are not good, you can talk to him directly, and you don't have to suppress yourself. A good friend is a friend who can communicate openly and honestly.

If you call a good friend at the end, you don't have to worry about the class, because you can also come and go with the class.

I feel like it's similar to social phobia. And it really proves that you're not. If you want to make friends with the person in front of you, because this person is completely unlike-minded with you, there is no way to achieve that kind of good effect all the time.

Thousands of dollars are easy to get, confidants are hard to find, and real friends are difficult to meet, all of them are superficial, or friends of wine and meat. These are relatively easy to obtain. You don't have to waste your mind on these boring things, everyone has different talents, and you are studying now, so you try your best to do a good job in your studies.

As long as a person is excellent and powerful, no matter how bad his personality is, there will be many people who are willing to surround him.

Maybe your own personality is the kind of person who can't get used to others, and you don't want others to point fingers at you or say something bad, at first you like that kind of fresh thing, but after a long time you slowly hate it, so this is a problem of your own mentality, you have to change.

Hello, it may be that you are looking for perfection. When getting along with others. Also expect others to do what they want. If you can't meet your requirements, you will have this sense of disparity.

Mentality, at the beginning, because of the unfamiliarity, I was more curious and distant. When you become familiar with it, this freshness will be gone, and the defense line of the self in your heart will be gone, and you will be more authentic to express yourself. Your so-called boredom may be your truest attitude.

You can recognize why you are bored and find the reason to solve it.

I read your long narrative, you are actually not very confident in a person, in fact, I tell you, everyone is very lonely in their hearts, everyone has to live alone, you have to rely on yourself all your life, you don't look outward, don't go outside to seek. What slow heating is good for you, slow heating is good, you must learn to, why do you have to find someone else? Cherish yourself.

Don't expect others to relieve you of loneliness, it's impossible.

I think you think too much and your mind is too mixed, you have to have a good mood to face every day, everyone is everyone, if you think about it, then you feel that everyone is very annoying, so you rocking the chair, a good mood, several attitudes to accept everyone, everything. You won't feel annoying to anyone.

That's because you have a problem with your own psychology, you are more sensitive and suspicious, so the more you get acquainted, the more bored you are.

You are mainly familiar with people, and you have the feeling of self-acquaintance. The more you count, the more you feel that the other party has a lot of problems, so you start. Bored. You should be aware of temperature contact. See the good in him, don't see the bad in it, so that you can correct it.

This situation can only indicate that you have a personal problem. You need to change yourself and look at the good in others. Worry less about everyone and be more open-minded.

You have a good impression of all people at the beginning, and the reason why you lose more and more is that after getting acquainted, it may be because there is no distance to talk and do things without scruples, so you will feel bored, and this situation should keep a certain distance from all people.

I've had this situation before, but then it's getting better, but I think it's also my own knot, first of all, you have to do things in your own heart, don't follow your own temperament.

That may not have met a real good friend, so the more familiar you get, the more bored you become, because the more you get acquainted, the more clear the other person's shortcomings will be.

You are a typical type of liking the new and hating the old, because some people lose their freshness after getting along for a long time, and they don't like each other.

This is a person's mentality, sometimes it may be that you find the other party's shortcomings or other reasons, causing you to not want to continue dating, so at this time it is also a problem of your own mentality, you must adjust yourself.

It should be that you think too much and think too much, so it leads to so many problems. Adjust your mindset appropriately.

This kind of emotion is basically common to people, because when people first come into contact, they are all on the good side, and they are familiar with the good side of you, and when they become lighter, many shortcomings and injustices to you will be exposed, which makes you hateful.

It's normal, after all, you will have a good impression at the beginning, after all, you will find everyone's shortcomings after a long time, you have to know to be yourself, don't please others and wronged yourself!!

Me too! This is a problem that normal people have! Some are obvious and some are not, it's important to bear with it and adjust your psychology, to be honest, you don't have long-term friends.

I had a crush on everyone at first, but the more I talked about it, the more I got bored, what should I do? I think a lot of people are born people, because everyone doesn't know each other, and their temperament and personality are well, and they only understand their own personalities after they are acquainted. Well, some people get along, and some people don't, so um, I think it's better to keep your distance.

In any case, you must change your attitude, and you must not have the idea of liking the new and hating the old, if you have such thoughts, you will have no friends, and others will not want to associate and communicate with you.

Is it a psychological annoyance, or a physical annoyance? If it's psychologically annoying, you can try to open up more and touch more.

It may be that you have a good feeling for everything at the beginning, and after a period of getting along, it may be that you are indifferent and you get bored.

After getting acquainted, I am familiar with the temperament and temperament that is more than this, and I feel that it is not suitable, so I hate it very annoyingly, and you try to contact it as little as possible.

Hello, I think in this case it may be that you have been together for a long time, and you feel that other people's concepts or what are different from you, but I don't think there is any way to ask others in this situation, because everyone has their own characteristics.

You should have social phobia, you find it annoying, or they have done something that makes you unhappy, or you have a gap between you and them.

It may be that after you get along with them, you feel that you see their shortcomings or some bad things, so you will feel this kind of boredom.

It is true that there is a bit of a psychological problem, it is recommended that you go to see a psychiatrist, you are a little too inferior and sensitive, and you always feel that others look down on you, but in fact, you look down on yourself.

In this case, you should have developed an emotion of disgust with him, so you don't want to contact him, you don't want to see him. In this case, you can directly tell him that you don't like him now, and hope that he won't come to you again in the future, this kind of person should directly refuse and not give him any hope. If you don't say it, he may continue to pester you in the future, and you don't know what to do.

So you have to make it clear to him now, otherwise you will be in trouble later. I hope you can protect yourself well in the future and don't be hurt by others again. You can also share your ideas with your family now and let them help you with their ideas, so that you don't have to worry so much.

Like is a form, above friendship, below lovers.

Like is a hazy good feeling, in front of this good feeling, each other is getting closer and closer to each other; And as the time of contact with the other person becomes longer and longer, a sense of trust develops, and this good feeling becomes like, and like develops into love.

From two people who don't know each other to determine their relationship, the process they often go through in the middle is: getting acquainted, having a good feeling, understanding each other, liking, depending, and falling in love with each other.

These processes are often step-by-step, of course, excluding "two-way love at first sight".

Because for love at first sight in both directions, any process is secondary, because they identify each other at the first sight of each other.

The reason why you like someone is also related to habits.

The longer you spend with the other person, the more often you chat, and the more they participate in your life, this is when you have a subconscious mind.

They are becoming more and more dependent on each other.

Dependence creates habits, and habits become deeper dependencies, and the two coexist and influence each other.

Have you ever had such an experience?

When you keep a certain frequency and talk to this person every day, it may not be long before you like them.

In other words, you commute to and from work with the same person every day, take the same car, take the same elevator, and leave work at the same time, and the company is on the same floor.

It's like this every day, and it won't be long before the two of you cross paths, start to get in touch, and then you like each other unconsciously.

Summary. Hello dear, I'm happy to answer for you, at first I have a good impression because a certain point in this person attracts you, but there may be some things that you are more disgusted in the process of getting along later, or the response he gives you is too satisfying to satisfy your curiosity about him, to put it simply, if he ignores you, you may not hate him.

I have a crush on someone at first, and then I hate it, and that's why.

Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you, at first I had a good impression because a certain point in this person attracted you, but in the process of getting along later, there may be some things that you are more disgusted with, or he gives you a response to judge a friend too much to satisfy your curiosity about him, to put it simply, if he ignores you, you may not hate him.

Yes, that's it.

So do you want to reconcile with him or something else?

Why is that? I obviously have a crush on him, but I don't have to be disgusted with him for less than two hours, why is that?

But what you like is a certain moment of him, and at a certain moment the sail makes you feel that he is very good, like a whole body of light, very dazzling. But without that moment, you will lose your liking for him.

Summary. Hello dear One of the reasons why good feelings become annoying is because of getting them. A person's good impression of another person is only in an instant, maybe because a person does something will let themselves have a feeling for each other, they will like each other from the bottom of their hearts, after a long time, if the other party can feel your love for her, she will pay attention, if she also has a good impression of you, such feelings will not last long, you will be disgusted, because what you can't get is the best, and what you can't get will leave you with infinite imagination, if you get it, When all the shortcomings of the other party are exposed in front of your eyes, you will not feel that the other person is a perfect person, but you will only feel bored.

Hello dear One of the reasons why the good feeling has become a hate for the Zen world is because I got it. A person's good impression of another person is only in an instant, maybe because a person does something will make themselves have a feeling for the other party, will be happy from the bottom of their hearts, after a long time, if the other party can feel your love for her, she will pay attention, if she also has a good impression of you, such a relationship will not last long, you will be disgusted, because what you can't get is the best, and what you can't get will leave yourself with infinite imagination, if you get it, When all the shortcomings of the other party are exposed in front of your eyes, you will not feel that the other party is a perfect person, and you will only feel bored.

Hello, dear, from having a good feeling to be hated, this is because a person who is not familiar with the spike is not familiar with you, and he has not seen and guessed the shortcomings of the person who swims to you, so at that time he has a good impression of you, and after a period of time, he finds out that your shortcomings are not what he likes, plus you keep annoying him, then this kind of good feeling becomes annoying.

Summary. Hello, dear, one of the reasons why favorability turns into disgust is because it is obtained. A person's good impression of another person is only in an instant, maybe because a person does something will let themselves have a feeling for each other, they will like each other from the bottom of their hearts, after a long time, if the other party can feel your love for her, she will pay attention, if she also has a good impression of you, such feelings will not last long, you will be disgusted, because what you can't get is the best, and what you can't get will leave you with infinite imagination, if you get it, When all the shortcomings of the other party are exposed in front of your eyes, you will not feel that the other person is a perfect person, but you will only feel bored.

Hello, dear, one of the reasons why favorability turns into disgust is because it is obtained. A person's good impression of another person is only in an instant, maybe because a person does something will make themselves have a feeling for each other, they will like each other from the bottom of their hearts, after a long time, if the other party can feel your love for her, she will pay attention, if she also has a good impression of you, such a feeling can not be maintained for a long time, you will be disgusted, because what you can't get is the best, and what you can't get will leave you with infinite imagination, if you get it, When all the shortcomings of the other party are exposed in front of your eyes, you will not feel that the other person is a perfect person, but you will only feel bored.

The generation of good feelings is often only in a moment, it will not be as long-lasting as long-lasting love, maybe there is some good feeling for you at this moment, but in the next moment you meet another person, this good feeling will be replaced by the next person, so good feelings are not love. Men will not give up pursuing other women because they have a good impression of a woman pretending to carry someone, and only when a man's heart can be fixed on a woman's body will he say that he is going to protect her alone, and he will not stick to the flowers.

Everyone's freshness for everyone is not the same time, and the freshness of good feelings should be shortened at the latest. Because it is just a personal freshness to you, it may be in the process of chasing you or dating, the freshness will fade, and the freshness will last for the shortest time, because the goodwill is only produced in a moment, and the goodwill may slowly fade in the next second, so the goodwill is not particularly easy to maintain for a long time, and if the problems in the process of dating together will slowly surface, the other party's shortcomings will be exposed in front of their eyes, and they will be disgusted with each other.

If you are together because of your good feelings, you will always feel that the other party is just a feeling between you when you know that you are stupid, and this feeling does not last very long, and you don't need to pay a lot of your sincerity, so you will remain rational in the process of falling in love. I hope that the good impression of a rational person will be less likely to become liked, and if you are too rational in the relationship, you will regret that the other party will feel that you are a very boring person, and you will become more and more diluted about your feelings.