Why did others want to ruin me? How do people ruin themselves?

They want to destroy you, because of jealousy, people want to destroy you, I hope that he can't get something, and he doesn't want others to get such a person, it's very dangerous, you have to stay away from that at the same time, it also means that you are very good, so someone is jealous of you In this case, you must stay away from such people, it is very dangerous, and you don't have to care too much, because if you stay away from him, you will be safe, and this kind of person often hides in the dark, you also have to be more careful, as long as you are more excellent, let him be jealous, if you go further, the farther you chase her, the more he can't catch up, then his jealousy will slowly disappear, and he won't want to go back, so what the two aspects have to do is to stay away from such people, and the second is to make yourself better, so that he has no way to ruin your life, which is the most critical thing.

Because you are very good, they are jealous of you, and then they replace you, and they have to destroy you first.

Has someone else's civilization ruined you? Could there be anything - a misunderstanding?

In addition, do you usually have any radical and inappropriate words and deeds that have caused dissatisfaction among others?

Could it be that you are mistaken, thinking too much, thinking crookedly, thinking too seriously?

I hope you will open your mind and horizons. Be open-minded and look at the problem with an atmosphere!

If you have time, you can consult a psychologist. Usually, you can communicate and talk with rational and wise relatives, friends, and elders.

You must have someone who has hatred for you and wants to dethrone you.

There are several reasons why you destroy yourself:

1. Strong pessimism.

Pessimistic people have a fixed mode of thinking, they have a very bad idea of things, whether it is good or bad for them, they always encounter some difficulties and are prone to complaining and giving up on themselves.

I remember that there was a classmate in our class, he always liked to do something outside the classroom, and the teacher said that after he said once, he complained about how bad the teacher taught every day, and since then he has changed from complaining about the teacher to complaining about the school, and then complaining about the world. Some teachers had talked to him about work, and carried out a series of encouragement, but he did not make any changes, and finally he fell deeper and deeper, at the time of graduation, he directly tore off the graduation certificate of a classmate who played badly, and finally he was left a level, and carried out a meal's education, if there is no improvement, the school book will not accept him! Think about it, you are about to graduate, you have to do something, isn't it causing trouble for yourself?

2. Strengthened the color of perfectionism.

This kind of people have a desire based on the belief that everything is unsatisfactory and imperfect, so they fall into deep contradictions, and they have extremely high pursuits and strict demands on themselves. Formal should be their constant pursuit of perfection, and have strict requirements for others, which is also a big quagmire for themselves.

I remember discussing a very wide range of questions in the group, there was a very good male classmate in our group, he was the kind of guy who was very good at everything, I thought that this discussion should have an answer soon, and the result? He wrote a lot of answers by himself, and we wrote very little, and he felt that he had answered so many by himself, and began to accuse us of not taking it seriously, so we quarreled, and finally this time the homework was completed, but he became more and more arrogant, and when he failed in a later exam, he became irritable, and complained to the people around him, and since then he has begun to degenerate. Summary:

The world is an objective thing, and people's thoughts are subjective initiative, so we must establish the correct three views and love life at the same time. Pursue ideals, and don't do things that transgress the law.

3. To sum up, I want to establish the correct three views, and look at the philosophy of life positively and optimistically!

We all ruin ourselves step by step in bad habits. Good habits are hard to come by, but bad habits are easy to develop

(1) Lack of self-discipline and restraint

Nowadays, many people lack self-discipline and restraint, lack self-discipline in body management, eat high-calorie food, do not pay attention to meat and vegetarian nutrition, and indulge themselves arbitrarily. I have seen some eating broadcasts on the Internet, disregarding their own health in order to make money, and I have seen some celebrities who still insist on exercising at the age of forty or fifty.

Not being able to control your appetite is really all too common in the younger group。There's a joke that's true:Nothing in the adult world is easy, except for hair loss and getting fat

Ambition is easily worn out by the cruelty of realityWith the help of time, countless of us willingly surrendered to life。In the transition from a refreshing teenager to a "greasy" middle age, how do we "destroy" ourselves step by step.

(2) Personality makes us incompatible with the masses

Those who are too proud will one day destroy themselves。They can't hold their breath,Passionate about showing off to othersPeople who are really smart and capable have long since turned themselves into silent mode

Usually looks like a stupid person, stupid, and not good at saying nice things, the purpose of doing this,It's to paralyze the opponent, a little bit to make the other party lose their vigilance,At the same time, you can hide your ambitionsThe so-called great wisdom and foolishness are such people, such peopledoes not show the mountain, does not show water, and does not pretend to be smart, not deliberately pretending to be stupid or pretending to be deep. RatherDon't care about small things, pretend to be confused, and be resolute in big things, killing with one hit.

(3) Without a motivated heart, he is willing to fall

A lot of people are at that age to struggleChose indulgence, they go with the flow and lack self-motivation. At a time when everyone else is working hard for their future, he chooses to indulge himself.