It seems like I don t like people anymore

Losing the ability to like people is not that you won't like people, but that you won't like people (how sad). What's more, knowing that this is a disease, he still doesn't treat it. When I see someone I like, I will still like it, but I will only like it.

I don't bother to say a word or say hello. As for chasing, don't even think about it. That's right, I'm such a person, I'm terminally ill because someone likes me, and I don't even bother to take the initiative.

I like myself right now. Watch yourself work out your abs in the gym and love yourself! Watch yourself dance better and better and like yourself!

Seeing that you are getting better and better to clean yourself up like yourself! Seeing that the food you cook is getting better and better like yourself!

I liked a girl a long time ago, and I never told her at first, but we have to send a lot of text messages and talk a lot every day, and after a long time, I thought it would be self-evident love. I have too many things to say to her, and I don't have enough to send dozens of words for more than 70 words per text message, so I go to write a diary to record my feelings, and I still feel that it is not enough to write a few large sheets of paper every time, I turn to write ** to record my feelings, and tens of thousands of words still feel that it is not enough.

But after a long time, when I finally decided to confess, I was rejected. The most ridiculous thing is that I never imagined that I would be rejected. I wrote one of my most proud love letters, I thought it was just a process of signing and stamping, but what I didn't expect was that the visa was denied.

Since then, I have never written a love letter or confessed to anyone. There have been other people around me, and I also like the person next to me, but I clearly understand that it is different from the feeling at that time, and I still remember the feeling of concern in my heart, but I have never been able to get that feeling back. The kind of love that used to permeate every corner of life, and I will think of her when the moonlight is soft; The cat next door had a litter, and I wanted to tell her; The snowflake cheese at the door was delicious, I want to go with her next time; The diamonds in the jewelry store were shining through the dazzling lights on the counter, and although I couldn't afford them, I wanted to accompany her to the ......She said that my aunt was uncomfortable when she came, and I checked all the information and told her to drink more hot water; She said that the exam was smashed, and it was very sad that I wrote the results one by one; I've seen all the movies she's praised and mentioned.

At the time, I never thought I would be rejected for such an outcome. Since then, even if there are other people around me, because I have inadvertently done too much homework before, I am like an outsider to solve an exercise that has been done many times, and I coldly accept all the routines and stalks in a self-righteous way, but it does not contain any emotion, and I feel miserable and powerless about it. I tried hard to think of a solution to this dilemma, but like an insomniac, I was completely stuck in the predicament and could not get out of it as thoroughly as a person with insomnia thinks about why he has insomnia.

Sometimes I meet girls I really like, but I keep missing them because I get stuck in the cycle of "thinking about why I have insomnia", and I feel like I can't dream anymore.

I deeply sympathize, strictly speaking, I have had three people I liked, one in high school, one in sophomores, and one in seniors. As a result, I couldn't love it three times, although I didn't care too much about the other party's heart, but I was hurt a lot. I still remember the second one, after learning that she had a boyfriend, I really felt the taste of not wanting to sleep at night, but I couldn't squeeze out tears in my eyes.

I think the body is using this mechanism to tell me that a crush is dangerous, that it makes you pour out time and emotions, and finally empty your heart all at once. Now I still like good-looking girls, cute girls, and kind girls when I meet them. But it seems that I just like it, as if I want to be tempted and take the initiative at the beginning, my body will automatically tune out the painful memories of the past.

I no longer speculate about a girl's preferences, nor do I write emotionally charged letters for her to stay up late. Everything seemed so beautiful, and I just quietly admired it, but it never came any closer.

Actually, I think it's normal to feel this way, don't feel as if you have nothing to love. It's normal to love without being able to do this, don't take it too seriously. Just have a good time every day, and you have to believe that you will meet someone in the future who will make your heart flutter.

Many people seem to feel pain because of their predecessors, to put it a little Buddha, we have received the education from childhood to adulthood is to persevere, to have perseverance, in fact, the root of a lot of pain is that you are too persistent, if you are obsessed, it will be painful. Just put it down, well, put it down!

A glass of wine, give it to someone wholeheartedly every time, and every time you spill it, you will mix it with some water for the next one. Later, when I saw that it was full of water, I couldn't take it out, so I drank it all and left only the empty cup. In such a state, I lived alone and accumulated a lot, hoping to be able to make sake again.

It's just a person's life addiction, that cup of hearty wine you want for someone else, and in the end you just get drunk yourself. You can't be sure if the inner you are what you are now. Rejection of everything deep may be an umbrella .

Keeping the sense of security you want can't protect the character you were born in. You take, you give, you give up, you hold on, and in the end it's just your own business. Yu Huanai is disappointed, and Yu is insensitive.

The inner child clenches his knees and only asks you to be safe. Time has no dimension, and the occasional panic is also dissipated in a night of dreams, and the pain in alcohol is just a moment.

Forget it, it's not so much that I have lost the ability to like people, but that I don't know what liking is at all. Love is a game of equal strength, not a chase of you and me. Zhang Ailing said:

Like a person, you will be humbled to the dust, and then blossom. "But I'm sorry, I've only seen her feelings humble to the dust, and I've never seen the beauty of flowers blooming. Around me, I have seen lovers who love each other because they look at each other and smile, and I have also seen lovers who have been compatible for a long time, but I have rarely met two people who have been together because of the long-term pursuit of one party.

And even if there were, it would be only temporary. So then again, what is like? From a rational point of view, I like this feeling as the secretion of phenylenylmine.

Three years together, going out to the park together. It was raining in the middle of the walk, and I was drenched in heavy rain, so he took me to the Internet café in order to save money, and there was no place yet, so he sat at the entrance of the Internet café at the position of an air inlet. I sat for an hour with my teeth chattering, and he didn't hang me the whole time.

At that moment, I suddenly felt that I didn't like him anymore.

It's just an illusion on your part, and when you meet the next person you like, you'll still be tempted.

When I first broke up with my first love, I also felt like this, I always felt that I would no longer like someone else, I felt that I would miss her for the rest of my life, and then I would be lonely for the rest of my life.

But it turns out that although I was indeed single for 4 years, I didn't hesitate to chase the girl I crushed.

At this time, I thought I would remember the person for the rest of my life, and I can't even remember what she looks like.

I just finished watching "Later Us" and read a lot of comments, which is very touching, and I think this question is very appropriate. For many people, if they love too much, they may lose the ability to love forever once they lose it. It's like eating a lot of chocolate in one sitting, plus three packs of chocolate truffles, and then you may have a lot of palpitations when you see chocolate for the rest of your life.

Good things need to be cherished, but if you love too much, you are easily hurt.

You can live happily ever after, and you have to believe that you will meet someone who makes you feel at ease. Many people seem to be suffering because of their predecessors. They say a little Buddha.

Let it go, well, let it go!

There is one person in my heart so I don't like others anymore, just open the door of my heart for one person.

Actually, I think you just haven't met the right person at the right time, and you haven't met the person who makes your heart flutter.

I'm in this state now, I don't want to like anyone anymore, I just want to love myself.

As someone who has faced such a situation before, I can share my feelings and experiences. When I find out that someone is expressing affection for me and I don't feel the same way about them, I feel some mixed emotions and inner struggles. First of all, I would feel embarrassed and confused.

Suddenly knowing that someone likes me, especially someone I don't have a strong emotional connection to, can catch me off guard. I would think about why the other person felt the way about me, and I couldn't respond. This awkwardness often confuses me, and I reflect on my actions and attitudes to find an explanation or reason.

Quietly, I will feel the inner conflict. It was hard for me to know clearly that I didn't like the other person, but I didn't want to hurt their feelings. I will think about how to handle the situation properly and not let the other person get hurt too much.

Inner conflicts and stress often trigger anxiety and restlessness. At the same time, I will also feel a touch of responsibility and respect. Even though I can't respond to the other person's feelings, I also understand that everyone has the right to choose who they like.

I will respect the other person's feelings and try to communicate with them in a friendly and honest way. I will try to express my true feelings while maintaining respect and understanding for the other person. In addition, I will get to know myself more deeply through this experience.

This situation prompted me to reflect on my own views and values about relationships. I think about the type of relationship I'm looking for and the ideal partner, which helps me to have a clearer understanding of my needs and expectations. This increased self-awareness has helped me to better manage my future relationships.

Finally, I believe that everyone has the right to choose the object of their affection. While being liked by someone you don't like can bring some distress and inner conflict, through honesty and respect, we can handle such situations properly while maintaining the dignity and friendliness of the other person. Such experiences also provide us with opportunities for reflection and growth.

1.Embarrassment and embarrassment. I don't like this person, but I can't show it directly, and it's easy to feel embarrassed, especially when I am confessed. At the same time, it is also difficult to express a tactful refusal.

2.Feelings of pressure. People who are afraid of disliking will get entangled in various ways and bring stress to life, which can make people feel anxious and distressed.

3.Kick oneself. I feel that I may have given the other person the wrong hint or hope in the relationship, so I will also feel guilty to a certain extent, and I feel sorry for it.

4.Not understood. I hope that the other person can understand what I really think, but if I express it, it will hurt the other person, and this feeling of not being understood can be very bad.

5.Emotional ambivalence. Intellectually I know that I don't like each other, but emotionally it is difficult to avoid a certain amount of sympathy and unbearable, and this kind of contradictory emotion will also make people feel entangled.

Therefore, in general, being liked by people who don't like it mainly brings some negative emotions, such as embarrassment, anxiety, stress and emotional entanglement.

1.Discomfort: It can be uncomfortable to learn that someone likes you but doesn't like them. This discomfort may come from not being able to respond to the emotion and the fear that your actions may be misleading.

2.Guilt: To some extent, it can be a feeling of guilt to know that someone likes you but can't respond to their feelings. This feeling of guilt may stem from empathy for the feelings of the other person and the fear that rejecting the other person may hurt them.

3.Feelings of pressure: There may be a certain amount of pressure when being liked by someone you don't like. This pressure can come from how to tactfully reject the other person and how to handle the relationship with the other person after rejecting the other person.

4.Emotion: To some extent, knowing that someone likes themselves, even if they don't like the other person, may make the reincarnation person feel some feelings about themselves. This may include an awareness of one's own attractiveness, or a reflection on one's role in relationships.

5.Confusion: In some cases, being liked by someone you don't like can be confusing. This confusion can come from doubts about one's own feelings, as well as uncertainty about how to handle the situation.

In conclusion, being liked by someone you don't like can trigger a complex range of emotional responses. In this case, it is very important to maintain a respectful, respectful, and kind attitude in order to minimize harm when dealing with the situation.

Being liked by someone you don't like is a complex feeling because it involves aspects such as our perceptions, emotions, and values about ourselves and others. Specifically, it may give us the following feelings:

1.Stress and burden.

When we realize that someone has an emotional investment in us that requires more entertainment, we may feel stressed and burdened. We may worry that we will not be able to respond to the other person's feelings, or that we will hurt the other person's feelings. This stress and burden can cause us to develop negative emotions such as guilt, anxiety, etc.

2.Haunted and tangled.

After learning that someone has a crush on us, we may begin to wonder if the relationship is a good fit and if it can be further developed. We may struggle with how we feel about this person and what we expect from the other person, or we may struggle with how to handle the relationship appropriately.

3.Self-doubt and self-denial.

When we are liked by someone we don't like, we may begin to question ourselves, such as whether we deserve to be liked by the other person, or if we really understand our feelings. This self-doubt and self-denial can affect our self-esteem and self-confidence.

4.Embarrassment and discomfort.

If we don't like the person but learn that the other person likes us, then we may feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. In this case, we need to face the problem of how to reject the other person or how to make them understand our position, which can bring some uncomfortable and embarrassing feelings.

In short, being liked by someone you don't like is a very complex feeling, and it can bring us all kinds of negative emotions and experiences. When dealing with this relationship, we need to be rational and objective, while also respecting our own and the other person's feelings and finding appropriate ways to handle the situation.