Which book do you think has influenced your life?

Every book on Chicken Soup for the Soul can affect my thoughts at the time, but none of them have influenced my life.

The beginning of the living method teaches us that life and work are actually to constantly hone one's soul. It's not difficult to do it, live with your nature, and constantly hone your soul to restrain your desires in the life of work.

Success in life is not about doing great things, but about doing ordinary little things seriously. It is necessary to have a positive attitude towards life, the right direction of effort, and enthusiasm for life and work.

Mr. Shi Tiesheng's "Me and the Altar of Earth" had a great influence on me. I am a person who often feels very sad, but this article has given me a lot of strength and made me feel that as long as I live, there is still hope.

Wang Zengqi's "Grass and Trees in the World" has an optimistic and leisurely attitude towards life.

English, because my English score is very low, I didn't get into my ideal major at my ideal university, so the major I am doing now is completely different from what I thought.

I think it's the preface to the high school physics textbook "Elective 3-1". Until now, I can feel the expectations of the editors, and it was at that time that I began to really stick to the choice of science, and to this day, I don't feel any regrets. Since this book, I have been accustomed to looking at the preface of every textbook, but I can't find such a good preface for the textbook.

After reading "Then We All Cried", I thought that if I couldn't find the right person, then I would rather not get married.

In "Ordinary World", Shao'an's yearning for a new world, as well as his self-esteem, strength and fighting spirit throughout the whole film deeply moved me! He made me understand that ordinary people can live an extraordinary life in an ordinary world.

Recommend "Don't be crazy about small things", the philosophy of life. Many people on the market have become chicken soup articles, or they are all on paper. I think that interpersonal communication still needs to be slowly pondered in practice, and even suffered losses to understand.

Instead of pondering how to speak, it is better to change your personality and attitude first. This book is useful. ‍‍

After reading "The Biography of Mother Teresa", I felt that the whole world was different. The first time I knew about this book was when a friend was on the subway holding the railing with one hand and holding it in the other hand and reading it with relish. The second time I knew about this book was when the supervisor mentioned it in a training class.

The supervisor said that the book had been sold out in Hong Kong, and that he had bought 30 copies of the book when he came to the mainland to teach this time, and that the book had been circulated in class, even though the package had not been opened. I remember a sentence from the supervisor the most, he said that he would read it every night before going to bed, and keep reading to internalize the knowledge. ‍‍

Jiang Tinghuang's "Modern History of China", although it is a thin volume, is better than countless later masterpieces. It is the first monograph on modern history in China, and unlike the chronicles and chronicles of the past, Jiang's research emphasizes synthesis and analysis, which is the way we see history textbooks now. In 1932, when Fairbank met Chiang, he was only 36 years old and "already in charge of modern Chinese studies".

I think An Ruyi's book "If Life Is Only as First Seen" has changed my outlook on life, which is completely to appreciate a person's talent, women like Yu Xuanji, Li Jilan, Xue Tao, although they are talented, but their reputation is not very good, but in this book, I really completely appreciate their talents. ‍‍

Yu Hua's "Alive", I really like the books written by this author, and after reading each of his books, I feel that I have benefited a lot. He does not have Lu Xun's words, which are particularly easy to understand, and do not have the deep meaning that Lu Xun is so difficult to excavate. ‍‍

"Travels on a Goose", when I read it, I already knew fairy tales and reality, but these books depicted my fantasy more clearly and interestingly. Until I was 20 years old, I was still thinking about a similar story about ducks, whose protagonists were other animals, and a bit of Long Aotian was born in a small family. ‍‍

<>1. "The Pyramid Principle".

Pyramid Principle: Anything can be summarized into a central argument, and this central argument can be supported by three to seven arguments, and these first-level arguments can also be an argument in themselves, supported by three to seven arguments at the second-level, and so on, like a pyramid.

2, "Influence".

In this book, psychologist Robert Cialdini explains why some people are extremely persuasive and we are always gullible to be deceived. The 6 psychological secrets hidden behind impulsively submissive behavior (reciprocity, commitment and consistency, social proof, preferences, authority, shortages) are at the root of it all. After reading this book, you will know how your psychology is manipulated by others, and you will be submissive to others step by step.

3, "The Road Less Traveled".

Refusing to mature is actually avoiding problems and avoiding pain. The tendency to avoid problems and avoid suffering is the root cause of human mental illness, and if it is not dealt with in time, you will pay a heavy price for it and suffer even more.

4. "Grotesque Behavior".

Society is a laboratory, and real people are guinea pigs. For the three irrational quirks of human beings, the author tells us why this is and how to change it in a relaxed and humorous way. He reveals and explains the reasons behind our incredible behavior better than any other economist.

5. "The Rabble-A Study of Mass Psychology".

How do you maintain the ability to think independently? It's a question worth exploring for a lifetime. If you've read this book, you'll understand the behavior of "troll groups" in hot online events.

6, "The Silent Majority".

It was the first book that made me realize how important it is to keep an independent mind. In that era, Wang Xiaobo said what others wanted to say but didn't dare to say, which can be described as deafening.

7, "Ordinary World".

The standard of a good book is to see if it can profoundly influence people and profoundly influence their direction towards the future, this book is suitable for teenagers, especially for the age full of enthusiasm. At this age, reading such a book is the only way to deeply understand what life is all about and what life itself means.

8, "Poor Charlie's Treasure Book".

In the book, Charlie Munger repeatedly mentions a method of thinking that influences his life, learning, and decision-making—the multi-dimensional thinking model, and he advocates continuous learning from many disciplines to form a multi-entry framework of the mental model. Once you have that system, you can gradually improve your understanding of things.

9, "The Kite Runner".

It is difficult for us to admit and face our true selves, we always numb ourselves with gorgeous lies, deceive others by the way, but we dare not face the sins we have committed. Who's to say that growing up isn't a game with yourself?

10, "Don't Eat Alone".

Because this book is easy to understand and has various examples, it reads like reading a storybook. Suitable for readers of all ages and professions. For example, people who collapsed shopping malls, politicians, and college students who have just stepped out of school can even be used as a reference for educating children.

1. Do you know on what occasion you should admit your insignificance? Before God, before wisdom, before beauty, Jane is not before nature, but not before the crowd. One should be aware of one's dignity in the crowd. ”

Chekhov's Collected Letters

2. What you have lost has never really belonged to you, so there is no need to regret it.

The Story of the Rose

3. In the past, I admired men like Ken Takakura, tall, resolute, never smiling, and seemed to bear the suffering and responsibility of a world. But gradually, my understanding of men became more and more ordinary, and I hoped that he would be considerate of women and take on the burden of even a small task of washing a bowl for her.

Dacha Space Flows in Time".

4. Death is not really goodbye, forgetting is.

Dream Travel

5. You ask me if it's worth it to love you, in fact, you should know that love is not worth it.

6, we live in a community of knowledge, we live on externally stored knowledge, we think we understand the principle of the remote control, in fact we only understand that someone has mastered the principle of the remote control, and these illusions are intertwined to imitate the feelings of the new world, which is the by-product of the entire social network.

The Illusion of Knowledge