Why does the baby recognize the birth and not let others hold it?

Because he is insecure, he will be insecure when he leaves the people he is familiar with, so he does not let others hug him.

This is because the child's personality is more timid, the child is not familiar with others, and is more afraid, so he will naturally not accept others to hold him.

Because the baby's personality is very timid, there will be this situation.

Introduction: If the child is not willing to let others hold the parents, do not force the child. The child is reluctant to let others hold him because he feels that he is not familiar with others. If the child is afraid of life, parents must take into account the child's development.

The reason why the child does not let others hold it is because the child feels that he does not have much contact with this person, and the child can distinguish his relatives. If you want your child to be familiar with this person, you must give your child a process of adaptation, and don't force your child, which will have a great impact on your child. When accompanying children, parents should often take their children out for a walk, and do not let children always stay with their relatives.

When a child always stays with a new person, the child will have a deviation in his thinking. Some children feel that their relatives are the closest people to them, and when they encounter unfamiliar faces, they will feel insecure.

If the child feels unsafe, he will cry all the time, and parents should communicate with the child more often and take the child out to meet strangers. Don't leave your child at home alone, if you leave your child at home alone, your child will have a hard time coming into contact with him and will feel that he is not sad. If a child is very afraid of giving birth, parents should let the child reach out appropriately.

If parents see that their children have this situation, they should look at what kind of interests the child usually has, and if the child is interested, the parents can also work hard to cultivate it. Children sometimes have some bad phenomena, parents should actively encourage their children, so that children can get a good development. Some children are always very willful when they are young, and like to let their mothers hold themselves all the time, at this time, parents should not spoil their children too much, and do not indulge their children, so that children can learn to be independent appropriately.

Some children will be spoiled by the elderly at home, and parents must stop the elderly in time at this time.

Because the baby doesn't like others, and the baby is afraid of contact with strangers, the baby will not like to let others hold it.

It may be that the baby lacks some sense of security, the baby's psychology is not particularly good, and the baby is afraid of some strangers, so it is not allowed to be held by others.

This is because the holding posture is incorrect, which will make the baby feel very uncomfortable, so to resist others holding him, parents must adjust the posture of holding the baby in time.

Because the baby is particularly afraid of strangers and has a more introverted personality, he will not let strangers hold him.

It may be because the child is insecure, but in fact, it is also because the child encounters a lot of problems in the process of growing up.

I think shouting rock should not be a manifestation of recognition, if the birth of the child, the baby will not laugh, if he sees others will laugh and take pictures, indicating that his personality is more cheerful, the reason why he is not allowed to hold, is likely to be because God is envious of the baby's lack of security, or it may be because he does not like the contact of others very much.

Yes, the baby's smile at others indicates that his personality is more extroverted, and not letting others hold him is a sign of recognition.

Babies usually laugh when they are teased by others. But the baby who recognizes birth generally does not like to be held by others. Parents should also not let strangers hold their children casually.

Introduction: We often find that many babies only let their parents hold, not let others hold, this is because the baby will recognize the birth, they will naturally resist strangers, then many people will be very curious, why the baby will recognize the birth of not let others hold how they do it, let's take a look.

Many babies can distinguish their parents and others by smell, because their parents have a unique smell, parents get along with their children day and night, children can naturally identify the smell of their parents, which is also a reason for children to recognize life, many parents have their own unique taste, every day holding the baby can naturally smell the smell of parents, if strangers come to hold them, they will be very resistant.

Many people think that young babies don't understand anything and can't tell their parents from other people, but this is actually a very wrong idea, even if they are small babies, they can tell their parents from other people. If other people want to hold their baby, the baby will definitely cry, but when parents go to hold the child or other relatives to hold the child, the child will not cry, and the child will judge by his appearance that this is his own relative.

Children also have feelings, they can judge their parents and others through their own feelings, so in normal times we will find that some children's parents are very well-behaved, but strangers will cry when they hug, this is the child's sixth sense at work, for such children, their chances of being abducted by strangers will be greatly reduced. Because this kind of children are very aggressive and smart, but parents should also be careful not to often give their children to others to hold, for those children who do not recognize the birth, they are also very dangerous, because they are very difficult to cry in normal times, strangers hold them and they will not cry, it is likely to be dangerous.

Because there are many babies who are very introverted and have very little guts, this will happen. And I think the reason why they do it is because their children's personalities are very cheerful and very good at communicating with people, so we must look at it rationally.

This is because babies can feel whether they are their relatives through appearance, smell, sound, and feeling, and they are insecure about strangers, so they will recognize life.

Because the baby is insecure, the baby does not like to be held by others, and the baby is not familiar with these people. Smell the smell.

Don't forcibly hold the baby, give him time to observe, give him time to understand, he is familiar with it, understand that it is a family member, and will naturally recognize. When you start to hug, you should also tentatively touch his hands and feet, and attract him with his favorite toys.

It is possible that the baby is still afraid of strangers, so he just doesn't like strangers to hold him! At this time, the mother must not force him to accept, if this is done for a long time, it will cause the child to grow up insecure, and it will also make the child have social difficulties!

At this time, parents should not reprimand their children, but should be more tolerant of their children, after all, this is a very normal performance, and parents should take care of their children gently. Let the child know that the outside world is not so dangerous and that even strangers can hold the child. Try to make your child feel the kindness of strangers, or you can use toys to attract your child's attention, so as to improve the habit of recognizing life.

It may be that they don't know each other, and they also feel that the other party is particularly unfamiliar, so they are particularly scared and insecure.

It may be that children have less contact with outsiders since they were young, so they are particularly afraid of being reported, so they should take their children out to contact with other children, know more strangers, and slowly improve this problem.

The reason why the baby is afraid of being hugged is that parents do not often take their children out to play, to contact other people, his inner lack of security, the child begins to gradually recognize people, and it is normal to be afraid of being held, so parents should guide their children to slowly accept other people, not too much recognition.

After the baby is born, basically the closest is the mother, and then in other people, as the baby gradually grows up, there will be more contact with people, and the baby will also recognize the situation, so the baby more than 1 year old does not recognize who can hold it is normal?

In the process of growing up, as the mother of the baby, there are many problems, always feel that the baby is so abnormal, so abnormal, such a mind can only be understood by mothers. When a one-year-old baby does not recognize the birth, the mother will also be worried, but in fact, such a situation is normal, and there is no need to worry about it at all.

Babies are also different, some babies are born with a more introverted personality, such babies will be more timid in character, so when they come into contact with the living, they will show uneasiness, and fear, they will only hide in their mother's arms, let alone let people hug, such a situation is also normal.

More than 1 year old baby does not carry which He recognizes the birth, who can hold it, such a phenomenon is still determined by the baby's personality, such a baby personality must be more lively, and the baby also likes to be lively, more people make the baby feel very good, and will not be afraid, slow down such a character is better, even if it grows up, the baby's friends will be more, so parents actually do not need to worry.

The innocent and cute appearance of the little baby always makes people want to hug it, some little babies will smile and throw themselves into their arms when they see an adult stretching out their hands, but there are also some small babiesIt's embarrassing not to give face

Refusing to hold the baby seems to like only the mother, and when outsiders get close, they avoid it and even cry. It can't help but make parents doubt that the baby will grow upInterpersonal communicationThere will be no problems.

Small babies are not "recognized" at birth, but newborns are more "bold" and don't care much about who is holding them. This refusal of the baby's arms is a normal manifestation because he begins to recognize life after a certain age of months.

If the baby is a few months old, it may not be a good thing to meet unfamiliar people or "anyone holds them", and parents should understand the laws of the baby's cognitive development.

When the baby's eyesight is not very good, mainly rely on sound and smell to find the mother, and it is easier to be found by another person to hold him.

At this stage, the baby basically does not recognize life, and is usually not afraid to see strangers, and rarely has the problem of others wanting to hold but not giving face.

Babies have their own standards of beauty

Babies don't like to be held by people who look "ugly", of course, this ugliness is only the standard for judging babies. Maybe it's an old man with gray hair, or maybe it's an old manA "beauty" with dyed hair

What is normal in the eyes of adults may be a little "scary" in the eyes of small babies, who are scared and refuse each other's arms.

Babies don't like bad smells

Some babies have a situation where they accept the other person's arms at first, but just hug themI just want to break free, maybe there is a bad smell on the other party.

Little babies have sensitive noses, and they are familiar with the smell of milk on their mothersI hate the smell of perfume and the smell of tobacco and alcohol。If the smell on the other party's body is unpleasant, even elders such as grandpa and grandma will be rejected if they want to hold the baby.

There is no sense of security in the arms of others

After 6 months, babies are becoming more and more cognitive, and they can distinguish between gentle and friendly and strange and dangerous ones.

At this stage, babies "recognize life" out of their own protection, and they feel that they are by their parents' sideThe safest, no matter how unfamiliar people coax, they can't get the baby's arms.

As babies learn to walk and come into contact with more and more people, they are bolder, who were originally afraid of everything.

After a long period of contact with their parents, babies gradually understand that they are protected by their parents, so as long as they are sure that their parents are around, they will not react particularly violently to strangers.

Most babies will go through the stage of recognition, which proves that the baby has enoughObservationand be security-conscious.

Parents should not scold the baby for being timid in this situation, otherwise it will aggravate the child's reluctance to contact people. What's moreDon'tWhen the child has already expressed his refusal, alsoForcibly sending the child into the arms of the other party.

This kind of behavior will break the child's established defensive mentalityToo trusting strangers, which is not good for their own safety. A few months old baby "whoever holds it" is not necessarily a good thing, parents should allow the child to refuse.

【Today's topic】When did your baby start to recognize his birth?

Everyone has seen such a baby, when you go to hug him, he hides vigorously, does not let him hold, always listen to people, the baby will recognize people, only allow mom or dad to put it, do not hold others. There are also babies, who can hold it, as long as it is to hold and play, like this situation is not the baby is still young, do not recognize people. How many months does your baby start to recognize someone?

How many months does your baby start to recognize someone?

According to the research of American psychologists, babies can know their mothers at three months. However, according to the general belief in China, the baby can clearly distinguish the images of his relatives at four months, which means that the baby can know his mother at four months.

American psychologists in the 60s found that newborns are most interested in face pictures soon after birth, but recent research has confirmed that babies under 2 months of age can not distinguish between face pictures and fake face pictures, and they look at these two pictures for about the same time.

This is because such a young baby is not yet able to see the detailed features in the figure, such as the vertical edges in the face, such as eyes, eyebrows, nose, mouth, and other details.

How to know that the baby is starting to recognize the mother.

1. Gaze into your face.

When you feed and cuddle your baby, he will look at your face, which means that he has developed a basic identification with you, so he will stare at you.

2. Constantly looking for you.

When your baby is already recognising you, you will find that he is constantly searching for your face in the crowd and constantly staring at you, so that you will know that your baby knows that you are his primary caregiver. Your baby's gaze on you shows that he recognizes you.

3. Identify your breast milk.

It's a natural ability that your baby will recognize the taste of your breast milk. Basically, in the newborn stage, the baby relies on this to recognize you as a mother. If you're feeding formula, or someone else's breast milk, it can cause your baby to panic.

4. Recognize your voice.

According to research, babies have very sensitive ears and will recognize human voices. This means that your baby will recognise your voice and intonation. So when you speak, your baby will turn his head to look at you.

The baby began to recognize people at the age of three or four months, which is why the baby began to let Kib be held by others at this time, some babies are better, as long as they are in their own family, they can be held, and some babies only recognize their mothers, only let their mothers hold. In this case, parents should take their babies out for a walk, contact more people, and no longer recognize birth.