It s hard to accept the reality of my father s old age, is this an escape for me?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-21
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Not being able to accept the fact that your father is old is not an escape, because it is just a blow to yourself, and you don't want to believe that it is true.

    It can only show that you miss your father, and the special focus is that your father is unwilling to let go, but you have to remember that people will always grow old, and we must accept this fact on this day and let time witness it!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hello, in the face of this painful reality, if it were me, I would definitely not be able to calm down for a long time. I can tell from your words that your father loves you and that you love him. We often say that love is not reciprocated, and that our parents have done so much for us.

    As a parent, raising a child at the age of 100, and worrying about 99 years old! The past is gone, what you can do is to let time dilute everything, the important thing is to cherish the people in front of you, don't forget your mother by your side, the departure of your lover, I believe that her heart is also sad with you, your mother can only rely on you, if you die, what should she do? Maybe you feel that you are sorry for your father, however, the love that our parents give us is unrequited, and when you laugh, he will be happy; When you cry, he will be very sad.

    Even if they are silent, they have always cared about you, silently treated you, as long as they have you by their side, it is enough. I believe that love has a continuation, you still have your father's blood in you, his love is poured into you, I believe you must be very eager to fulfill your father's last wish and be admitted to university. As for the idea that if you don't pass the exam and die, please also look at the people around you, your mother, your friends, they need you.

    To be alive is to be responsible, please don't run away from reality. Your father is very good, and his spirit has always accompanied you to grow up. As an outsider, I may not fully understand your feelings, but what I want to tell you is that there are many unexpected things in life, we can't control the facts, all you can do is live in the moment, for yourself, for your parents, because you are the only one for them!

    Finally, may your father be well in heaven, and I hope you can find yourself again, thank you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This is not an escape, it is that I can't accept the sudden change in front of me, but the reality is there, and the status quo of life is like this.

    However, my father's illness can be slowly recovered through ****, and I must also work hard to change the status quo, have the courage to shoulder the burden of the family, and restore the family to its former happiness as soon as possible.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is not an escape. This is one of a kind for loved ones. Miss. And then everybody I think as long as it's a mortal. Then in the face of his loved ones, he must not be able to think about death. It's going to be hard to accept that you won't be able to live for a long time. Isn't it normal?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It is difficult to accept the reality of the death of the old father, this is because you have a deep father-son relationship, you should adjust your mentality and come out slowly.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's hard to accept the reality of my father's old age, am I sleeping a kind of escape? In fact, everyone accepts this situation very well, but there is no way that time will slowly calm your heart.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can't escape this matter, whether you accept it or not.

    After a long time, I accepted it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When your loved ones are gone, it takes a process to accept it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is inevitable that my father will die and be sad, but people cannot be resurrected after death. The living still have to live well, you don't live in the environment where your father is always there, go out and walk with friends more, scatter your heart, and you will forget the pain after a long time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    We couldn't accept the loss of our relatives at the time, just like my father died eleven years ago, I couldn't accept it at the time, but for the sake of my mother, I also had to accept it, now you have to take care of your mother's emotions and live well.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's normal for people to be born, old, sick and die, and it's certain to be sad, but if you have to open up, my father doesn't want you to be so sad.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Everyone will go through this time, and your pain will be taken away.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you should divert your own attention, watch the old man think about it, compare the time when your father is there with the time when your father is away, and it is best to understand that your father is not dead, he is going somewhere, and you will go to accompany him in the future. We are all born, old, sick and dead, and we are all no exception, and it is best for you to touch on the things that can make you feel sad. Calm down, your father is watching you from heaven, you can't be so cowardly, you have to use a new attitude towards life to face and adapt to your father's departure.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Loved ones have left us, it must be difficult for us to accept in our hearts, it will take a long time to slowly calm down, since it has happened, you have to open a little, you are always like this, your father in heaven will be very distressed when he sees it, you have to cheer up and make your life better, so that your father will not worry about you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Everyone will have this day, and you have to think that your father will think about making you live well, instead of drowning in pain every day.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Condolences change. When a loved one leaves, everyone has to go through, think about their spirit in the sky, and don't want you to be unhappy every day.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Death is gone, you have to accept it if you can't accept it, let time heal the wounds, live better, I believe that you have a father and hope that you can be happy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Everybody dies, and your father doesn't want you to have a bad time, so you have to live well, and your father is watching you from heaven.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Dear, I can only say to you that it is a fact that life has to go on, don't always think about those unhappy things, you are happy, I believe that your father will be comforted if he knows.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When a loved one dies, there is definitely grief. But people cannot be resurrected after death, which is also the law of life. You still want to open a little. The old man definitely doesn't want to see your sad appearance, and hopes that you can go on bravely.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    People are always born, old, sick and die, your father will be very sad to see you like this, you only have to live better, let your father rest assured, this is the real filial piety.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When your relatives leave you, the psychological side must be uncomfortable, your father is the support of your heart, but he is not there after all, you have to live well, you live well is the greatest comfort to him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Sooner or later, your loved ones will grow old, including yourself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Sometimes the loss of a loved one is really hard, maybe the passage of time will make your sadness less, I hope you cheer up quickly.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You have a deep relationship with your father, and the mourning is smooth, the dead are gone, and the living still have to live well.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you can't accept it, you can't accept it, as long as it doesn't affect your life too much.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I can't accept it like you, my father died in an accident with my brother, I really can't accept it, and my dearest people left me forever together.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's really sad, but you have to look away, if your father is still alive, I definitely hope that you are happy and healthy, and live well for your father.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Everyone gets old at some point, and everyone has the pain of losing a loved one. In fact, think about it calmly, I don't know what will happen tomorrow today, just take me today, a small desertion hit the battery car on the tree, and I and my daughter were covered with blood, which was unexpected, but fortunately, the car was finished, and everyone was fine. Between people, they get along one day less than one day, life is very short, as long as everyone is together, cherish each other, there are no regrets.

    Your father is gone, but he certainly wants you to be happy, and there is nothing that cannot be accepted, we will all go down this path, but sooner or later!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    My father.

    People often say that a father's love is like a mountain, but in my opinion, my father's love for me is not completely as severe as a mountain, but sometimes as gentle as water.

    My father was a man of culture and high moral character, and although he was not as wealthy as other parents, he did nothing for me worse than other children, or even better than them.

    When I talk about my father, I can't help but cry. He is usually very busy with work, but in any case, he insists on greeting me about study and life every day, and as long as I have problems with my studies, he will take time out of his busy schedule to tutor me. From school to the present, he has never been absent from every parent-teacher conference, he once said:

    No matter how busy I am, my children will always come first to me."

    Every weekend, I went to my father's place of work. Sometimes, when I arrived, I saw him at work, and I couldn't bear to disturb him, so I watched from the sidelines, looking at my father, who was getting older, and there was a trace of gray hair on his temples, and I couldn't help crying again. Watching that body get thinner and thinner day by day, my heart was extremely painful.

    I remembered how my father had been subjected back then.

    And my love for my father is more important than my love for my mother. My father has been an indispensable part of my life since I was sensible. He is a good teacher for me in my studies and a good friend for me in life.

    If I did something wrong, his first reaction was not to hit or scold me, but to teach me calmly. No matter what I did wrong, he would find out the problem from himself and then educate me. He was very strict with me because he was very strict with me.

    But I don't hate him, because my father is concerned about me and is afraid that I will go the wrong way.

    I am proud of my father. He is very image-oriented in life. So he was very neatly dressed. He once said, "A person's image represents a person's qualities".

    More than a dozen spring and autumn seasons have passed, and my love for my father has deepened. I also know that there is no one in my life who can replace him in my life.

    Father, don't worry, I will live up to your expectations. When I grew up, I still remember the way home. Please give me a share thanks.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's good, but why should I post it to a blog.

    And whether it's a son or a daughter, I'm a little confused.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    And I'm a little confused about whether it's a son or a daughter, and I don't know anything about you.

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