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Crying is the daily state of little babies, and it is their unique way of expressing it. But what makes many people puzzled is why the baby is still smiling one second, and the next second after seeing someone, he suddenly cries.
Therefore, many people believe that this person has certain problems, such as a near-life expectancy, recent bad luck, and a grudge against the baby in the previous life, ......Fortunately, this is the age of science, and science has given us the answers to these questions that could not be explained in the past.
Babies need a process for development, and when they are born, their memories are fragmented, and their eyesight is not well developed. But over time, their vision becomes clearer, their memories become complete, and they begin to be able to distinguish and remember their parents.
If suddenly there isStrangers approach, the baby sees a face that he has not seen before, or looks too different from a familiar person, it will be causedCrying in fear
After 3 months of age, babies begin to have a subconsciousIf someone who is close triggers their subconscious, you may be distressed by fear and discomfort.
For example, if the baby has been teased and cried uncomfortably, it will leave them with a subconscious, and if someone teases them in the same way in the future, it will cause rejection.
Some people are born with a love for childrenSome people make the baby afraid, which is related to the aura on the body。For example, some fierce-looking, bearded, and indifferent people will make the baby feel scared. There are still someThe old man has a lot of wrinkles on his face, which is also serious, aggressive, and will scare them in their feelings.
When babies are young, their perception of smell is very obvious, for example, when their vision is still blurred, they will tell whether it is their mother's arms by smell. And everyone's body smell is different, such as the smell of cigarettes, perfume, etc., some people's body smell is unfamiliar to the baby, and they may cry because of anxiety.
Therefore, everyone must stop thinking that this is a child with some mysterious "superpower". That's our innate instinct, and when babies get through this stage and grow up, it won't be like that anymore.
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Many old people will say that when the baby sees a person will cry, indicating that the other party is going to be unlucky or die soon, this is actually more ridiculous, may be due to the baby's unfamiliarity with the environment, from the heart can not accept, or the baby is a little afraid of someone's appearance, will cry and make a fuss, must take care of the baby's emotions, comfort the baby.
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It is very likely that the other party is too serious, and it is possible that the baby thinks that the other party's smell is too bad, so he will cry.
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In fact, the main reason is that the baby feels that the other party is very scary, probably because the baby has no consciousness of his own, so he will be scared to cry.
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Because the baby grows up day by day under the careful care of his father, mother or grandparents, he will naturally become dependent on his family and feel that he is safe only by his family's side, so when a stranger approaches, the baby will cry because he is afraid of contact with people. In fact, it is a very normal physiological reaction for babies to have a recognition period, because after 4-6 months of age, the baby already has a certain memory storage ability and can distinguish between relatives and strangers. At this time, the baby will have a natural fear of strangers.
Therefore, because some strangers' glasses, hairstyles, or men's beards may not be seen by the baby before, it will cause fear in the child, and sometimes even the appearance of the child's father will change greatly and make the child cry. Why is the bigger the baby, the more afraid he is of birth? Some parents will worry about whether the baby will grow up with this kind of personality, if this will not affect the baby's future interactions?
Some parents force their babies to play with strangers, hoping that this can exercise their baby's courage.
A young girl laughs when she sees it, but she doesn't like a man, and she almost cries when she sees it. But the people who cried when she saw it are now alive and well, nothing happens, but there is an aunt, usually kind and kind, and her daughter is also smiling when she sees her, and she has never cried once, my girl is crying, but it is okay to see everyone else. Later, after many months, I saw another classmate, but I still cried.
It's the kind of person who can't be approached at all.,As long as you get close, you'll cry.。
The baby can slowly distinguish the mother's face from other people's faces, you will find that the baby begins to stick to the mother or often take care of his person, and the appearance of other strangers will make him uneasy, crying, scared, and the baby will begin to "recognize" mode at this moment! My family Dabao also encountered, at that time my family Dabao was about ten months old, if my husband and I hugged him, strangers teasing him, he would not cry, but when he saw one of my high school classmates, he would cry, to about a year old, to see my classmate is still very afraid.
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It's not because I'm afraid of life, it's because it's the baby's instinctive reaction, and the unfamiliar smell makes him vigilant and makes him insecure, so he will suddenly cry to protect himself.
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It's because they're afraid of life, because they feel that this stranger might hurt them, and the baby will be insecure.
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This is only part of the reason, it may be because this person is more fierce, it may be because this person has more aura, or it may be because this person gives people a stiff facial expression.
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Because the baby thinks that these people may cause harm to him, the baby's behavior is not just because he is afraid of life.
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If it's just a stranger passing by, if it's love at first sight, the opposite sex will come forward to talk to you, and those who have a good impression will laugh it off; If you spend an hour or more with a stranger, such as a long-distance bus, train, or waiting in line together, keep a polite smile, and if the other person is talkative, chat together; If you are not willing to talk, do your own thing, listen to the surrounding scenery and environment, etc.; If it is a stranger that you may deal with in the future, such as a colleague or neighbor who you don't know in the company, you will greet politely, keep smiling but try not to talk much.
Keep waiting and make yourself good.
What are you doing now? Did you miss me, why didn't you contact me, aren't you happy? What's wrong? When do you take a vacation, because when he asks these things, he wants you to be there for him.