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The Chinese family concept is that the male is the main male and the female is the female leader, each has its own division of labor, and it requires mutual understanding, support and respect, and the boundary cannot be crossed. Once the boundaries are not clear and the division of labor is not clear, it is easy to cause confusion.
Generally speaking, men work hard outside the home and are the main economic and spiritual pillars to support their families. Without a stable income**, the foundation of the family is easily shaken. This is why people now attach so much importance to the economic conditions of the man's family.
The financial situation is an important cornerstone of the stability of married life, and it is not unreasonable to pay attention to the reality of life.
Men are the sun, women are the earth, and children are the moon. The earth revolves around the sun and the moon revolves around the earth. Just as a woman revolves around a man, a child revolves around a mother.
The sun is stable for the earth, and it represents the stability of the family's economy and the stability of men's emotions. Once the movement of the sun is unstable, it will affect the movement of the earth and even more so the trajectory of the moon. Therefore, the stability of the sun is the foundation and guarantee for the healthy operation of a family.
If the foundation is not stable, all the layout of the family may be disrupted.
Men work hard outside the home, and women take care of housework at home, which is the traditional family view of the Chinese. A woman's orderly management of the internal affairs of the family is the greatest support for a man's work. Because the stability within the family can also indirectly or directly affect the career and emotional stability of men.
No matter how unsatisfactory a man is at work outside the home, everything should be calm when he returns home, and he should not bring the unhappiness in his career to the family, and let the bad mood affect his wife and children. Similarly, the problems encountered by the wife in handling housework at home should also be handled by herself as much as possible, and the man should not be allowed to worry about the trivial matters of the family. A wife and a husband do their part well, which is the greatest support for each other.
One side is outside, the other side is inside, often report good news to each other but not bad news, in order not to affect the other party's emotions, this is the traditional custom of the Chinese, but also a virtue. Therefore, the division of labor between men and women cannot be crossed. Once this boundary is crossed, men are good at managing family chores, and women are in charge of men's careers outside, and it is easy to have quarrels within the family, and then the relationship between husband and wife is prone to cracks, and it is unlikely that a family will achieve healthy and sustainable development.
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If a woman is too strong, it is easy to cause family feelings to break down. Two of you are divorced. Therefore, women should not be too strong, but should be gentle and considerate. Man. It's tiring in itself. There must always be a good wife at home.
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Most men choose a strong wife when they get married, and they may feel very happy at the beginning, but after getting along for a long time, they will not feel that their married life is very happy. Because if the girl is too strong, there will be a certain amount of pressure on the boy.
In fact, the personalities of strong people and some boys in life will also be more complementary, so it does not mean that with a strong woman, the life after marriage will be unhappy, mainly depends on how the two people communicate in life. Although most people don't like strong girls, if you really love each other, even if you are a strong woman, you won't find it difficult to communicate. And in fact, two people who really love each other, maybe the girl's personality will be very strong at first, but in the process of getting along with two people, the strong woman will also change and make concessions for the sake of each other, so in this case, the relationship between the two people can also be very happy.
But in real life, there are really boys who go, and if they are strong, their wives will be very unhappy after marriage, because very strong girls will ask a lot in life, and they will also make boys have no status in the family. For a long time, will it make boys feel very depressed in life, and they will lose themselves, so this kind of married life is very unhappy and painful.
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Yes. If the other party is particularly strong, then after marriage, the life of the two people will be particularly unhappy, and they will not express their thoughts and opinions, because the other party will not listen at all.
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This kind of life is not particularly good, because the two of you will have a lot of conflicts, and the two of you will also have disputes because of some emotional problems, so life is not particularly happy.
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Yes. Because a particularly strong woman is particularly strict with men after marriage, it will restrict men's freedom and make men unable to live their true selves.
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I think that having a strong wife, although she will be stricter, can also better improve the quality of life.
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The so-called woman is too strong, not to mess around and be forceful. It is a woman who is serious and has a good house, just ask which woman is born to love and be strong, who doesn't want to worry about anything, eat and drink. It was when he met a cowardly man who wanted to support his family and was unwilling to be ordinary, so he was forced to become strong and became a woman.
A man with a conscience and gratitude will realize his lack of affection, and feel sorry for the woman from other housework and cooking, which is also a kind of compensation! Marriage happiness is to respect each other, trust each other, focus on the family, and never abandon each other. Happy marriages are all about men working hard for their careers, women managing the house, nurturing children, and honoring their parents.
Find such a strong woman, and the family can prosper for three generations.
No matter how strong a woman is, she also needs men to love, and she also hopes to have a harmonious and beautiful family, a pair of healthy and vivid children, does it mean that men are too weak if women are too strong? It is because she does not want to be a man, so as long as everything depends on her own hard work, if you can hope that men and women will not appear so strong, such a marriage is often caused by the gap between the husband and wife, if the man can improve from time to time to reduce the gap and bridge the lack, then the marriage relationship will also be carried out steadily. Of course, if the man does not know how to think deeply, and still does not work hard to compensate for his own lack of self, allows the gap to widen, and even intervenes to prevent the development of the woman, then the collapse of the marriage will be a matter of time.
A woman who is too strong has a bad family, which is a disaster for the family; Men can't raise their heads because of their oppression, can't stretch their waists, can't talk about the affairs of the family, and are often called around, and they are tired and tired in the end, and they are not all together, for the sake of this family, for the sake of their children, they can only persist and endure bitterly, and they accumulate hatred in their hearts, and they will not be good to women, and they often quarrel and quarrel, and the sons educated by such women will be cowardly and incompetent, and the daughters will be as strong as their mothers. If you meet this kind of woman who is too strong, even if you beat a single, don't take it, this is really a disaster for a man and a family, and the sadness and pain in it can only be understood by those who have experienced it.
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I think yes, a very strong wife will manage her husband very strictly after marriage, and she will also strictly control her pocket money, and she is very jealous, and her marriage is easy to break down.
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It may be a little, so that the man has no face. Some men may be very good to women, so they say that they spoil their wives and listen to their wives, but the premise is that the women are also very good.
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In married life, if your wife is too strong, then it is likely to put the whole family life in trouble, and the two are very prone to conflicts.
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1. The three consequences of the wife's strength 1. At home, the wife is the absolute authority, and the husband has no right to speak, but can only make promises and obey the wife's arrangement, and there is no happiness in such a family life. 2. At work, the wife is the absolute leader, and the husband is the absolute subordinate. The word of the wife is a holy decree, and it must not be disobeyed.
In such a family life, the husband has no status to speak of, and can only obey the arrangement, which is very sad. 3. In life, the wife has absolute control over the husband, the husband does not have any right to speak, the wife says the east, the husband can't go west, the wife lets the husband do what, the husband has to do, this kind of life is very terrible. 2. The higher the status of the wife in the marriage, the happier the marriage.
4. In marriage, if the wife's status is high, the husband will have more respect for his wife, and the husband will give everything to his wife, and this kind of marriage is very happy. 5. The high status of the wife will be more considerate of the husband in life, and the husband will love his wife more.
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If the man in the family is weak and the woman is strong, it is difficult to last long, and it is necessary to find a suitable way of communication, both parties understand each other, tolerate each other, and think more about each other in case of trouble, so that the relationship will get better and better, and the family atmosphere will be better. Women will feel that this man is incompetent and useless, and men will feel that they have no status and no face, so they may not necessarily quarrel, it is possible that the woman scolds harshly, and the man pretends to be stupid to listen, after all, it is rare to be happy!
In fact, many things need to be discussed by the father and then advised to the child. Instead of forcibly denying everything about him, this will only make the child completely away from them in his heart. Therefore, I personally think that families with mutual respect and love between parents are happier, and families with strong women are prone to cause a lot of unnecessary quarrels.
<> after my sister-in-law was promoted to vice president of the company, the child also followed. A strong woman does not necessarily mean that the family atmosphere is bad. Because the family atmosphere is not necessarily related to whether one party is strong or not.
Whether the family atmosphere is harmonious or bad depends on the feelings between the husband and wife. If the woman is weak and the man is strong, the family atmosphere will be fine, not necessarily. My brother and sister-in-law don't have all the troubles and problems caused by other people's children because their economic income can completely help them solve these problems.
At this time, looking back at my sister-in-law's decision six years ago, everyone thinks she was right.
Women are water, men are steel. Women want to be strong, everything at home and outside the home is the wife's final say, as soon as the man speaks, anyway, 10,000 is wrong, there is no room for negotiation of any issues, if the man can make money to support the family, if not, how to live this day, in the long run, there is only one way to go, and there will be sparks on the hard encounter, and it is inevitable to be noisy. A family is dominated by women, as long as it is not steel, most of them are warm and happy, but men can't use this to hurt their own women.
Generally speaking, women who are too strong are often detrimental to their lives and families.
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It's really very depressing, because such a family itself will not be particularly happy and harmonious.
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In a generally harmonious family, the male protagonist is the female protagonist, the wife is gentle and virtuous, and the husband is responsible and responsible. Therefore, if the wife is too strong, the man will live a more aggrieved life. I don't want to be responsible.
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Yes, especially the husband will feel very depressed, and he will feel very inferior, and feel that he has no status and no value in the family.
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Do you know that a marriage where the wife is too strong will have these consequences?
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The final outcome of marriage must be divorce, so that the two strong wives will often quarrel, and the marriage will be lit up with red lights, and such a wife must be a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law The relationship will not be very good.
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has a strong wife, if the other party is more accommodating to her, and then loves her enough to tolerate her. Then their ending can also be white-headed and old. If the other party has a similar personality to her, and then can't tolerate her character, it is estimated that there will be more quarrels, and the chance of each ending is relatively large.
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The final outcome of the marriage must be a breakup, because it is simply unbearable to be with the other party, especially in this situation for a long time, it will definitely be unbearable after a long time.
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Divorce, too strong wife, generally the husband is suppressed for a long time, naturally for a long time is very hurtful to the feelings of the husband and wife.
A wife who is gentle and virtuous, understands you and understands what you need is the best!
Hello this friend! Be able to have a heart, have true love, understand and tolerate each other, and be able to calmly listen to the reasons of both parties when encountering problems......Afterwards, I can communicate well, trust more, and be less suspicious, and ...... family is preciousHarmony between husband and wife, harmony in the family, and happiness actually exist in the casual moments of daily life......May you be happy%.
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Family harmony I understand is not that there are no quarrels at all, you can have some small quarrels occasionally, but you won't say particularly hurtful words! Often, the whole family mobilizes, watches movies, dinners, and does meaningful things together!