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If you are too selfish, have no sense of responsibility, and are unwilling to take responsibility, you should choose divorce.

The wife is very selfish and has no sense of responsibility for the family, and is lazy to eat. In this case, you can only guide him more and influence him more, and if it still doesn't work, then you can only let go. After all, tangles won't solve the problem.

If she thinks like this, I don't think it's necessary to live together anymore, and I can't raise tigers for trouble.

If you can look at your wife like this, you probably aren't a good man.

If so, then there is no need to settle for divorce.

Ask yourself first, do you love her? If you love her, then why talk about giving and returning, just like your parents did so much for you, did you ever think of returning; If you don't love her, then marriage becomes a transaction, a transaction of money and goods, and in this case, if you don't get anything in return, you naturally don't need to pay blindly. Women are used to love, for people who don't understand the way of husband and wife, you can only wait and teach slowly, if you find another one, maybe it's not as good as this, so the vast sea of people to meet someone in love is a very small chance, waiting for her to awaken with love to touch, and then analyze it from two aspects, first of all, every mature person is not mature all at once, there is always a process, all kinds of tribulations in life are the touchstone of her maturity, as the saying goes, jade is not carved into a tool, this is the truth, You must know that everyone will go through this kind of life baptism, no one is an exception, you are now walking the road that others have walked, it is not a big deal, move forward bravely, and if you do not advance, you will retreat, and you will face it with strength and determination.

Two people can not find fault with each other, to understand each other, support each other and help each other, if there is a problem, everyone put it on the table, if you have selfish intentions, this price is not good.

That's definitely not appropriate, two people should support each other and care for each other, if it's just one party's long-term pay, it's definitely not okay.

I feel that the payment is two-sided, and there is no way to last one-sidedly, well, you need to talk to your wife about it.

Such a marriage is difficult to sustain, both parties in the marriage should have to pay, and blindly asking for it will only increase the conflict.

Try sitting down with two people and talking to see what she thinks. In the end, husband and wife always have feelings, try to solve them in a harmonious way. Don't do things on the spur of the moment that you regret them.

Yes, if the wife is selfish between husband and wife, you still need to influence her with love!

I think that a person's giving and getting should be proportional, if it can't be proportional, everyone will be unbalanced, so I think you should stop in moderation.

The wife keeps asking for it and won't pay, so the husband shouldn't blindly give, because he won't get a response. Love is the joy of two loves.

I don't think it's necessary, really this kind of person is like that immature dog, maybe one day it will bite you. I think if I can go back on it, I'd try to date someone like you.

Husband and wife should not worry too much, since the wife is selfish, then as a husband, you should set an example to help your wife get rid of this bad habit and cultivate her wife's sense of family responsibility, so that you will be happy in the future.

Since he doesn't know what you have paid for, if the other party is relatively paid, you need to be cold and let him feel your pay, and then be good to him.

Then it's not a matter of whether you are good to your wife or not, marriage: the end.

I feel like that's the case.

The landlord can insist on what he thinks, because after all, you are husband and wife, although your wife has some shortcomings, but you have to transform love into strength to influence him.

If you want to continue to maintain the relationship, then you have to tolerate him more, of course, if you don't want to continue, there is no need.

If one of the husband and wife is very selfish, the other party will definitely be cold for a long time, which is not conducive to the relationship between husband and wife.

Everyone has different standards for judging selfishness, I don't know if your wife is really as selfish as you say, ungrateful to give and blindly taking. If that's really the case, it's not good for the child's education, so be sure to talk to her about it.

We should understand that family responsibilities are a matter for both husband and wife, and we should be considerate of each other!

We can only talk about family responsibilities after we have the above points, and it can be seen from your text that your wife is still in a state of ignorance, although she is married, but she does not have the courage or intention to take on family responsibilities, so the landlord should have a good talk with your wife.

Now it is no longer a feudal society, nothing exists.

Arranged marriage. So I believe the landlord is still there.

I love your wife very much, I don't advocate divorce so easily, after all, it is not easy for two people to come together, now your main task is to enlighten and enlighten, but it is not to take her as your only enlightenment goal, you can change your perspective and talk to her parents (your parents-in-law) about the specific situation, I think your parents-in-law also want you to be happy, and they will also help you enlighten reasonably.

You also find out why your wife thinks this way, and then cooperate with your own actions, after all, happiness is earned, and we are not born to marry.

People who do housework.

But if you have done all this work and nothing has changed, then ending the marriage is also a last resort, and it may be the best solution for yourself and others.

Now the economy and society, the commoditized society, and the same goes for people. Holding the money in his hand, he thinks that what his wife is doing is worth the money, and he will be kind to Yan Yuese, but he will not give the money! If you do the above two points well, then you will have your own judgment ability when the time comes.

Brother, I am in a similar situation as you, but we have a 5-year-old daughter, and the reason why I didn't get divorced was because I was reluctant to give up my daughter and didn't want her to become a child of a single-parent family, but old.

My mother-in-law spends the money she earns by herself, and I can't afford all the family expenses, so I don't know what to do!

If you don't have children, leave immediately! If you have children, find someone who can accept them. If you can't find it, you're welcome to AA.

I think if the situation you wrote is true, it's not that your wife doesn't take responsibility, it's that you make too little money yourself. You earn 60,000 yuan a year, and your wife has 30,000 yuan, so you only have 30,000 yuan yourself. Calculate your expenses again, 10,000 yuan for children, 20,000 yuan before the car, and at least 20,000 yuan for daily expenses, how can your income of 30,000 yuan bear more than 50,000 yuan.

Or is it that more than 20,000 of them are borne by your wife herself? Since your wife also bears more than 20,000 yuan in expenses, and she has an income of 30,000 yuan, it shouldn't be considered a lack of responsibility.

I understand your feelings very well, your wife and my wife are the same type, never willing to pay a little, only ask you to pay for her, pay less and have to mess with you, tired, thinking about divorce.

The premise of your marriage is definitely not a free marriage, married life is created by two individuals, regardless of suffering and happiness, you must pay selflessly for each other, if you pay unilaterally, it is not love or life, two people can communicate, both parents are the same parents, and the treatment is different, which is very puzzling

Life is in your own hands, big brother, decisive point, two words: leave.

Who married you after your divorce? Let's think about this first.

Your wife spends some money on you and you feel distressed? Then your wife is happy to post you upside down, right?

The money earned by the family, **if necessary, go to**.

Maybe your wife doesn't seem to be very considerate of you and your family of origin, but think about it on the other hand, what did your family of origin do for your wife?

Think about it again, hasn't your wife ever paid for you?

The children have been born, have you thought about the children?

You are divorced and free, and if you marry another one, you will not be free.

Love your home well, if you don't have that virtue, your wife will be a miserable woman again.

Your wife is not a person who wants to suffer with you, she likes to be greedy for pleasure, and thinks a lot about herself. For such a wife, if you can persuade her, she won't live a life, you have to teach her how to live, although she is a mother, it really doesn't look like a mother. I'm talking about educating her, not blaming her.

Because you have children, you can't get divorced easily. However, for your "accusations" against her, it is not clear that your husband and wife still have feelings. Because I can't see that she cares about you, and I can't see how you tolerate her mistakes.

If the relationship really breaks down, then the marriage is bound to be divorced.

You're going to have to talk to her.

Since they are already husband and wife, they also have children.

Calm down and figure out what she's thinking.

Find out the root cause of the problem

Divorce is not the only effective solution to the problem.

Maybe she has his considerations too! ~

Nothing goes without a reason! ~

Both husband and wife are also equal, and you are confused when you are confused.

Maybe she's the same!

Part of her is also your connivance, you try to discuss it with her first, in fact, some things are not so complicated, she has a job, you also have a job, she should be very tired when you are tired, you should not be too concerned about your family, washing clothes and doing housework is a matter of minutes. The happiness of people is not to get more, but to care less.

If you divorce and find another one, people may still want you to keep it, won't the pressure be greater? There are many things that can be changed by two people communicating, if you don't say it, what you think in your heart, she may not know. Divorce is a relief for you, you can leave, but you may not be able to meet someone more suitable for you than her in the future, right?

Think about it carefully, you are husband and wife, if you have each other's ghosts, there will inevitably be a gap. If you have something, you can communicate and discuss, as long as you are attentive, these problems can be solved.

Alas, mourning, try to communicate more, your wife is indeed.

Communicate first, if you can't communicate, divorce! Such a wife, hey, she is not a family, what is a marriage? It's home! Since she is not a family, that is to say, you are not a husband and wife, when you are a cash cow, haha!

I think this mother-in-law really has a problem with her character! Maybe you're making a lot of money, right?!

Marriage is run by two people, listening to what you say, you can see that you love your wife very much!

Both husband and wife should pay for the family, if your wife is, a full-time housewife, then there is no income**, then you can't afford any expenses, but if your wife is also working in the workplace, and is unwilling to bear the expenses of the family, that is not right, for this kind of wife, divorce as soon as possible is the best choice.

This kind of behavior is not very good, the specific situation is analyzed, but in general, this kind of performance is not to share the difficulties with you, is there a problem with your relationship, this is not necessarily a woman's problem, is it your problem that hurt her? If she is unwilling to share the expenses of the family, this is one of the manifestations of heartbreaking, and you have to reflect seriously.

Your wife is selfish, and she doesn't love you enough, and she is afraid that one day you will get divorced and you won't get anything, so you simply don't pay, at least the money is safe by your side. There's no way you can either convince her that you will spend together, or you can pay for it yourself, and at the end of all, you will go your separate ways!

Someone has to bear the cost of the family, and the wife doesn't bear it, so only you have to bear it.

The boy has the responsibility of bearing the financial burden of the family, don't put all this on your wife, it is not easy for him.

Your wife is a housewife, where did she get the money? Bear any expenses of the family with you, if he doesn't earn money, he can't bear it with you.

Why is it so clear? It's all a family, and if there's something big, your wife won't care. She's supposed to want to save her share, and you're going to have to behave well.

If you give him enough love, it will be good for him to feel safe.

Housework is difficult for immortals. It is not impossible for the two sides to be independent. You can also make an appointment, but you must have a correct grasp of your marriage feelings!

It depends on the situation, if your wife has a job and salary, then you have to talk to your wife about it. If your wife is a stay-at-home wife, how can she bear it with you if she has no income?

Because your wife wants to be more traditional, thinking that men should earn money to support their families, and women are responsible for being beautiful like flowers. Take care of the family and the children on it.

Figure it out for yourself, this kind of thing you two will slowly coordinate.

I'm sorry, I didn't finish reading what you wrote. I think that if you are really a person who has no sense of responsibility, not only is you unqualified as a wife, but even friends should be cautious (personal opinion).

An irresponsible woman, she's going to file for divorce from you, so leave because you're not her love.

After getting married, the woman is not willing to spend a penny for the family, it is recommended to communicate more, and the standard of how much the husband and wife pay is not measured by money.

How is marital property managed after marriage?

1) Where a husband and wife have to dispose of their joint property due to the needs of their daily lives, either party has the right to make a decision. Husband and wife have equal rights to dispose of joint property.

2) Where the husband and wife need to make important dispositions of their joint property other than for the needs of their daily lives, the husband and wife shall negotiate on an equal footing and reach a consensus.

Where one spouse makes a major sanction decision without the consent of the other party, the other spouse has the right to deny the legal effect of the sanction. However, if the third party has reason to believe that the disposition is an expression of the common intention of the husband and wife, the other party shall not oppose the bona fide third party on the grounds of disagreement or ignorance.

(3) The expenses for family living shall be paid by the joint property of the husband and wife, and if they are insufficient, the personal property of one of the husband or wife shall be shared.

4) Debts incurred by the husband and wife living together or for the purpose of fulfilling the obligation of support are joint debts and shall be paid off by the joint property of the husband and wife; In the event of a deficiency, both parties shall be jointly and severally liable.

5) The expenses incurred by the husband and wife in the management of the joint property shall be paid by the joint property.