Tell us about some school bullying incidents you ve encountered.

I was also a victim, when I was a primary school student, I went to a school called Nanshan Foreign Chinese in Shenzhen, I remember that there were always three people in the class who took the lead in making trouble for me, often bringing people to the door to find recommendations and beat me, and even barking at me and even biting me, comparing me with the garbage on purpose, and snatching the things on my desk, either for fun and throwing it in the trash can outside the window, or taking it for themselves, dividing it with the other party, and then it should be said that it was theirs, and when I behaved well, they would give it to me, If I take back what is supposed to be mine, they will tell the people around me that I stole their things, and even more annoyingly, they forced me into the women's bathroom when I had nothing to do, so that others would think I was a hooligan. I also tried to tell the teacher about their bullying of me, but the teacher basically said that you are not naughty, can they provoke you? If you want others to respect you, you have to respect others.

I still can't forget the names of these three people, they are Deng Yufeng, Chen Haodong and Lai Jiaxin. Although the past has passed, this shadow has always become the biggest trauma in my heart, from junior high school to the present, I feel panic and fear of any new classmates and teachers, so I have begun to become withdrawn and unpopular. The fear of being bullied again, and even the expressionless glance of a passer-by made me feel scared.

When I was in elementary school, because of my good grades, my personality was not very lively, and I was isolated by a few girls in the class, and secretly tore up my hand-copied newspaper, and put a small note in my drawer on which I wrote a lot of insulting words, I showed the small note to the teacher, and the teacher was too busy to pay much attention to it, and then the only girl who had a good relationship with me was also targeted by them, and then they took other people's things and put them in my schoolbag and said that I stole ......It's a pity that I was still a little cowardly at that time, and I didn't resist when I encountered such a thing. Later, when I went to junior high school, I was in the eugenics class, and the two girls were in the regular class, and there was a girl who helped bully me in the same class as me, and we were competitors in learning, and later she confessed to me that she and the other two girls did that because they were jealous of the teacher's partiality towards me. But it didn't have a bad effect on me, it made me know that relationships are important, and that people are lively, and now the whole class is very nice to me.

In November 2016, a parent at Zhongguancun No. 2 Primary School posted on the Internet that his child had been bullied by his classmates for a long time, and on November 24, 2016, his classmates used a garbage basket to detain his head. After the incident, the child developed symptoms such as insomnia, irritability, and fear of going to school, and was diagnosed as an acute stress reaction. The parents then reported to the school and the Haidian District Education Commission.

When I was in junior high school, the girls in my class targeted me everywhere, and I suddenly felt that I was doing something wrong, and they would hate me so much, and then another incident happened, and they hated me even more, because I was the representative of the Chinese class in the class, and the teacher asked me to collect my homework, and then I accidentally forgot to take the homework book of a girl in our class, and then she was very angry and said that I targeted her, and then the girls in our class hated me even more, and I was isolated like this, but I was not very miserable, and the boys in my class all protected me, I'm very happy to have touched them, and now that I think about it, I'm really grateful to them, for taking care of me, thank you.

A number of girls from a middle school in Jiangsu stripped another female classmate of their clothes in the toilet, abused and beat her, and the girl was slapped more than a dozen times in a row, and she was powerless to fight back.

In a middle school in Jiangshan, Zhejiang, several female classmates surrounded another female classmate, not only insulting and ridiculing her, but even taking turns slapping the girl who was surrounded. The girl who was beaten in public was deducted points for not wearing school pants, and a group of classmates slapped her as if justice was being done to "educate" her.

I was subjected to school violence in my third year of high school last year, and those people were jealous of the teachers who valued me well, and often verbally insulted me, and even threatened to block me at the school gate and beat me. That time was really difficult, every day they bullied me day after day, I would be restless after class, without the teacher in the classroom, the students would get out of control, they kept scolding me, sarcastic me, and deliberately hid my papers or sent homework not to me, and even more excessively, they would go out of class to find people in other classes to talk bad about me, and people in other classes would always look at me with colored glasses when they saw me, and talked about me, and even the students in other classes felt that it was a pleasure to fix me, They will also deliberately threaten to kill me when I am present, and the group of masterminds still feel that they are not excessive, they also join others to rectify me, resulting in someone waiting for me at the staircase every time after school, and then stalking me, laughing at me, sarcastically mocking me, very uncomfortable, the most excessive is that they also tried to control my friends, so that they dare not contact me, I really even had the heart to die at that time, and was isolated by everyone, but our teacher did nothing about it, because he was afraid of offending the powerful.

I was once bullied by female classmates in the dormitory, and several people twisted and pinched me, and deliberately tore my clothes.

On several occasions, my living expenses were robbed by a few classmates, and I was not allowed to tell my teachers and parents, otherwise they would beat me.

I'm a primary school student, I just like to chase stars, I don't study very well, I like to be in the limelight, and some people can't get used to it, so they annoy me every day, pinch me, press me on the table and beat me, and once I was kicked several times. That's a boy, he studies well, and he is also a class committee, so he likes to bully girls who don't study well and chase stars, as well as some skinny boys. He used to make up rumors about me from his teacher, but he couldn't say it.

In the summer of 1997, when I was 15 years old, because I messed with the bad boys at school, the oldest was 19 years old, the youngest was 16 years old, and eight people beat me. Defeated, he was swarmed up and beaten violently... I'm really unhappy, and I'm still holding grudges.

I was beaten by my dormitory classmates, and I took a lot of **** and posted it on the Internet, and I was not allowed to tell the teacher.

I was bullied by several senior classmates, forced me to hand over my living expenses to them, and beat me if they didn't give it.

In 1998, when I was in the second grade, because I seemed to be a bully, a big man in my class and a person from another class pinned me to the ground and dragged me hard, during which one of them noticed and stopped, and when the person left, they started beating me again.

It's when I was in elementary school that I provoked the most popular girl in the class.,And then the whole class was cold.,The funny thing is that the girl is popular because she's an only child.,Grandma used her pension to give her more pocket money.,So she often buys snacks.,Now I heard that she repeated a year of secondary school in the ninth grade.,Now it seems to be married.。

When I was in the fifth grade of elementary school, I was often bullied by a few boys in the class at the door of the class, shot me in the eye with water from a water gun? I should be glad that the teacher appeared in time at that time, and I should also be glad that the water gun is water and not sulfuric acid.

I've met one before, he sat with me for a while, he either beat me, or scolded me, sometimes he stole from me, and then after I had to go somewhere else, he blatantly hurt people, and even bled a person's head in front of the school leader, crippled a person's hand, and kicked a person into the hospital, I don't think he was far away.

It's hard to say!! It's okay not to kill people, it doesn't matter if you make a small fight at school.

Because of his appearance, he was discriminated against by a group of scheming men, and the other group of scheming women watched the excitement, and the head teacher shirked his responsibility regardless of the matter.

Several people blocked the road and robbed and were beaten by me, and my taekwondo blue belt is 1.75 meters tall before elementary school.

When I was in school, there was always a guy with a bunch of rice bowls to help people with food.

Someone from the second grade came to our class to grab a boxed lunch at noon. Not only did I receive Baling, but the whole class received it, and I wanted to cry without tears, and I watched as the people in our class who didn't have time to get food didn't have ...... to eat

Frequent hands-on slapping.

Yes, I will actively help the person who is being bullied. Tell the teacher first to stop the incident from continuing to seriously harm the person being bullied. School bullying is handled as follows:

1. After the accident, the school should actively investigate the cause and process of the incident, and judge the fault of the school and the students in the accident.

2. If the school is at fault in the accident, the school should take the initiative to take responsibility, if the school is not at fault, it is necessary to do a good job in the ideological work of the parents involved and actively organize mediation between the parents involved. 1. Conditions for constituting the crime of campus bullying: 1. The conduct of the crime of campus bullying must occur inside and outside the campus and between students; 2. One party deliberately or maliciously bullies or insults one or more times through physical, verbal and online means;

3. Incidents that cause bodily injury, property damage or mental damage to the other party. II. Sentencing standards for school bullying: 1. Those who intentionally harm the body of others are to be sentenced to up to three years imprisonment, short-term detention, or controlled release; 2. Whoever causes serious injury shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than three years but not more than ten years; 3. Whoever causes death or seriously injures a person by especially cruel means, causing serious disability, is to be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than 10 years, life imprisonment, or death.

To sum up, if you encounter a school bullying incident, you should find a teacher and the school to deal with it, and if the teacher and the school do not deal with it, the student can explain to the parents, let the parents and the school communicate, and the school is still unwilling to deal with it, and the parents can complain to the Education Bureau, and if the Education Bureau cannot solve it, the parents can directly call the police and let the police deal with it.

Legal basis. Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China

Article 292: [Crime of Assembling a Crowd to Fight] Whoever assembles a crowd to fight shall be sentenced to up to three years imprisonment, short-term detention or controlled release for the ringleaders who are pure and late and others who actively participate; In any of the following circumstances, the ringleaders and others who actively participate are to be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than three years but not more than ten years: (1) Gathering crowds to fight multiple times; (2) Gathering a crowd to brawl with a large number of people, a large scale, and a heinous social impact; (3) Gathering crowds to fight in public places or on major transportation routes, causing serious disorder in social order; (4) Assembling a crowd to fight with weapons. [Intentional Wounding; Intentional homicide] Gathering a crowd to fight, causing serious injury or death, is to be convicted and punished in accordance with the provisions of articles 234 and 232 of this Law.

There was no school bullying in our time, so I didn't witness it, and I didn't experience it

There are many such reports nowadays, what should we do when we encounter bullying on campus?

The first one, speak out loud.

If you have already encountered bullying at school, be brave enough to report it to your teacher, school, or authority. Tell them who the abuser is? What exactly did they do?

At**? When? How long has it been going on?

What kind of trouble did you cause? When you feel that bullying is threatening your life, then you must speak up!

If there is no response from the relevant authorities, try to seek help from other authorities. It sounds complicated, but with perseverance, the problem can be solved.

Confide in your parents. You may worry that they are overreacting, but they are still the ones who are most willing to help you.

Second, take care of your emotions.

Encountering bullying and overcoming the damage it causes is not a simple matter, so how to get rid of the psychological shadow caused by school violence is a dilemma that every victim needs to face.

Try to behave as usual, laughing at yourself or humorously to reduce your uneasiness, or to communicate positively with people you trust. Focus on personal and emotional management, make a list of positive goals, and strive to achieve them. The sense of accomplishment that comes with this will increase your confidence.

Third, be careful not to face it alone.

When a person encounters a sudden bullying situation, they should walk away as soon as possible. Usually the abuser just takes the opportunity to vent his frustration, and if you don't react, the other person often won't pester. If the opponent suddenly strikes or chases, immediately run to the nearest crowd.

If you really can't avoid it, you can't be weak in momentum, the abuser always chooses those who seem weaker than him to start with pure reciprocal instructions, keep his eyes firm, keep calm and calm, and keep his waist straight, sending a message of "I'm not easy to mess with", or directly tell the other party "It's wrong for you to do this, the teacher will criticize you if he knows it".

Of course, there have been encounters or witnesses of school bullying. School bullying is particularly easy to appear in some schools of primary and secondary age groups, in schools of primary and secondary age groups, due to the immaturity of some students' minds and unsound personalities, they are easy to be self-centered, self-oriented, and easy to bully those children who seem to be more obscure and cowardly. It can only be said that this practice is very bad, and it is also very disgusting and annoying, which has a great impact on the bullied child.

Some of the school bullying is a combination of fists and feet, some are just to make the whole class ignore the child, give the child a good son into the group and lead the cold violence, or the bullying between teachers and students, the teacher always targets the students everywhere, which is actually a kind of bullying. School bullying is harmful but not beneficial, and it has a great impact on the future life of the bullied children, and they will always have a psychological shadow, that is, they are bullied, and their hearts are very depressed, so we need to pay more attention to these bullied children.

Rational and objective analysis of the psychological, physiological, and social environment of some students must have a reason for their violent behavior, so as to diagnose the causes of their behavior, and then come up with correct countermeasures to prevent and control school violence. I think that for school bullying, not only the school should be protected, but also the parents should be educated, the victimized children should be educated, and they should have the courage to stand up and blame and correct the bullies, so that these bullies can bear their due responsibilities. And for those parents of bullies, I think they should not cover up their children, but should correct their mistakes and let them change their ways, otherwise blindly tolerating their mistakes will only harm them.

Appropriate corporal punishment of children can sometimes have a restraining effect on some deviant behaviors of children, but corporal punishment is not a panacea, and the indiscriminate use of corporal punishment or severe punishment may have many adverse consequences. Parents must pay more attention to their children and not verbally hurt them, because they have already suffered from school bullying and have suffered a lot of psychological damage, so we must pay more attention to these bullied children, so that children can grow up healthily and not be controlled by the shadow of bullying.