My wife and I always fight hard, how do we deal with it?

It's hard because everyone is hard.

Quarrels always want to solve a problem, and many couples (lovers) quarrel in the hope that the other party will solve the problem in their own way (simply put, they want the other party to listen to themselves).

At such times, if both people have strong personalities (stubbornness), it is difficult to distinguish between the superior and the inferior. The tip of the needle is inevitable on the wheat mang.

There are several ways to solve quarrels and hard-hitting, simply speaking:

1.Listen carefully: Many times we can't fully understand what the other person is saying, listening can help you understand the other person's thoughts better and make the other person feel respected.

2.Timely feedback: Let the other person know what you heard and tell them what you feel and think.

3.Don't dwell on one issue: if the issue doesn't come to a consensus for a while, just put it aside and talk outside the next day or another day (coffee house, restaurant, etc.).

4.Respect each other: There is no right or wrong in many problems in marriage, try to be considerate of each other and accept that the other person is different from you. As long as these issues don't involve principles or touch your bottom line, that's it. People are always different.

5.Be clear: When you argue, tell the other person exactly what you need and how you want it.

A lot of times we always quarrel, I don't want you like this, don't do that, you always do this, how can you do that. In fact, it is difficult for the other party to know what you really need, and it will also make the other party feel that you don't like and don't accept her. So it's important to be clear about your needs.

In addition, the personality traits of individuals need to be discussed separately from person to person and from family to family.

Take a step back and open the sky, in a fierce quarrel, one person must take a step first, keep silent, and the other can not quarrel anymore, two people calm down and calmly analyze the problem when quarreling, and must set a rule: you can't turn over old accounts, and it is impossible for people to analyze the problem correctly when they are angry.

Discuss who will soften first and take turns.

Calm down what can't be solved, the problem of mentality.

You realize that this is a problem, and you change it, sacrificing a little self-esteem for the sake of family harmony.

For the sake of family harmony, one party must first be soft, let your wife, woman.

Why don't you be humble, this one won't be much better.

Be humble and look like you're a gentleman.

Humility shows your generosity.

It's also a pleasure to be afraid of your wife, hehe, you can also try it.

Love is the most extravagant pleasure, but it often ends sadly.

You can bear with it, women always have a few days a month.

Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky.

Don't let her do more, it's a virtue for a big man to love his wife, if his wife is too rude, find an appropriate time to bring it up, say it well, if your wife loves you very much, I believe she will change it for you, in short, don't be tough. People say that there are no good words to quarrel about, and that will only hurt feelings.

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

Quarrels cannot be avoided, but they can only be mitigated if one of them makes concessions. Since you can't control the other party when you quarrel, you should control yourself, try to calm yourself down, and don't talk if you can, so as to avoid arguing more fiercely. But women rely on coaxing, and it's okay to coax after the quarrel!

Maybe the quarrels are all because of some trivial things There is always such a stage in life Run-in with each other, you are a big man, tolerate her more, your wife will be in front of you"Careful"Because she thinks of you as the closest person to her! @ Big man Tolerate the little woman!~

Love is useless just by one person's forbearance. If one person changes it unilaterally, the other person enjoys it, and I believe that this kind of relationship will not last long. If you want each other's relationship to last for a long time, I think you still need enough communication, and one of the two parties can't do understanding, trust, tolerance, and care, and I think the relationship can't last long!

Let's talk to your wife. I believe you guys can do better lo

Actually, you can think about it first, was your wife such a character when you were together? Has it always been this way, or has there been a transition time that has become what it is now?

If it has always been like this, if you don't get divorced, you have to live your life, then as a man, don't say these things at home when you are wronged outside in the future, just keep it in your heart, with your current situation, if you say it, you will be angry, it is better not to say it, or to talk to a friend;

If she wasn't like this before, but later became like this, then you have to reflect on it, what made him become what he is now, my parents' relationship is not good, and now they don't even talk anymore, if you keep not being with her and go home less, I think your relationship will be like my parents in the future; In fact, the relationship between men and women, the key is to look at the man, you can try to get angry and change the complaining words to: "Wife... I'm in a bad mood today...

Wait, I think it's a lot better to be coquettish with her or something;

The best thing to do at the moment is not to run away. 1. Pay more attention to her and see what troubles she has. 2. Confide in your friends about your disappointment, and don't take her as the object of confiding for the time being. 3 Speak only of those things which are of common interest to you. Brother, slowly she will change, that is, holding hands, we will go together.

Buy her a rose and talk to her about why we live like this. **Not satisfied, you solve it together. Overcome.

Quarrels are adjustments, whatever.

At least it shows that your personalities are not complementary, if you really love each other, you have to tolerate each other, and it is best to talk about this situation frankly. I wish you all happiness.

No, you should kiss him on the mouth during a fight.