Older girl with no way out, please help me!

It's not like you're out of nowhere, and you don't need someone to reason with you.

Since you can't make a decision: let go of him from your heart or marry someone you don't love, then what you need to do is to accept the reality that you are still single at 31 years old, and the people around you can't understand it.

What is confusion is because you expect to be satisfied with yourself or the people around you, but you can't achieve this wish, so you are confused, aggrieved, and feel lost. It's a bit of a stretch to make yourself want to get married or never get married, so it's better to let yourself relax, talk to your family about your confusion and inner anxiety, let them understand you, and then slowly find something you like to do in the second half of the year.

When your mood is happy and your face is full of radiance, you can fall in love again, and maybe you will have a different new feeling at that time.

It's almost okay for a woman to choose a mate The most taboo is to pick and choose You are now 31 years old and have no capital, just find one to marry, otherwise the more you go to the back, the more no one wants.

Get married, you should always find someone to rely on, and after you are no longer lonely, the memory of that person will slowly fade.

Don't contact the same person again. Completely cut off relations with him.

Long pain is better than short pain, everyone is already married, and you keep in touch with others, which is not good for people and for you.

Try to accept people who like you, maybe you are the right fit, but you just don't have the time to find out.

You say you want to find someone you like, time is a strange thing, it will make you slowly like and accept someone. Isn't everything valuable because it takes time to accumulate it?

Being with someone you don't like is holding you in the palm of your hand every day? Hmph: That's ridiculous.

Except for our parents, no one will hold us in the palm of our hands every day.

Try to accept people who like you, try to forget people you like.

I don't know if my words will help you, but I still wish you a place to go soon.

Feelings can't be said, in fact, you also know that it's impossible to talk to that man, but you're still willing to contact, I believe that contact will aggravate your sadness, why bother, this is feelings, I know it will hurt, but I'm still willing to do it, sister, feelings need clear judgment, rational thinking, firm thoughts and sincere hearts. Your family is also worried about you, but you know, if you can't force it, don't find a random one, it will be very painful, bless you, I hope you can be happy.

There's no need to rush. Be sure to believe in your fate.

It just didn't arrive.

Also believe that you have the power to love.

For marriage. We have always adhered to the principle of preferring shortage to excess.

Because life, after all, is different from other things.

Other than that. I don't think I should get into the emotional confusion of my ex-boyfriend.

Because you haven't lived together, that's why you don't forget it.

Besides, he's married.

You'd better not contact again, there's no need to do so.

Your actions are condemned.

For family members.

There is no need to explain anything.

Parents are distressed and anxious.

But you don't have to get married or start a relationship for the sake of your parents.

It's all up to you.

Trust you, there will be your other half.

It just didn't show up.

Sister, don't be so discouraged, the essence of life is actually to face all kinds of suffering. There are indeed many sorrows in life, and the answer in a phrase from the Bible Psalm is: "Sorrow and sorrow are empty in the blink of an eye."

In fact, no matter what kind of life or work, looking at life from the sunshine is indeed hard and sorrowful, and it will be empty in the blink of an eye. But if you look at life from above the sun, it will suddenly open up. The true meaning of life is actually above the sun.

Only by finding the meaning of life can we have a true purpose in life.

If we can't find the meaning of life, we will often have such an unavoidable sense of emptiness, confusion, helplessness and boredom in our lives, which are tightly entangled like ghosts. The more intelligent and sensitive people are, the more they will feel it.

The poor education we received when we were growing up has caused many talented young people to lose their direction in life, and it is very painful for this generation.

The most important thing for people is to find the meaning of life, so that there will be no hardship and emptiness.

The human soul is truly a wonderful thing, and only something truly eternal and valuable can satisfy it.

There are two things, the deeper and more persistent I think about them, the more the wonder and awe they evoke in my soul will grow with each passing day, and these are the stars above my head and the moral law in my heart. This is one of the most imposing quotes in the history of human thought, and it is engraved on Kant's tombstone in the last chapter of Kant's "Critique of Practical Reason."

Yes, if there is no ultimate truth, everything under the sun does not stand up to scrutiny, whether it is busy, leisurely, shallow sensual enjoyment, wonderful games. Movies, men and women entertain... A sigh and.

Confucius said:"Chaowen said, Xi can die. "

The Savior Jesus said, "What profit is it for a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul? What else can a man exchange for his life? ”

I recommend my sister to read a book "Wandering Son Yin - Eternity is Calling", there are on the Internet, in fact, only with true faith, people will see the glory and preciousness of life, and will also have mature values, and thus find the meaning of life, and live a rich, truly satisfying life. And it is a life that is happy and responsible in love and gratitude.

Everyone has a soul, and after this life is eternity, and everyone will stand before the eternal God and give an account of his life.

Really, in Shanghai and other cities, older leftover women are very common, tuberculosis is not incurable, people with social fear are also handful, and there are many people who are much more difficult than my sister, I hope my sister will know God's eternal love as soon as possible and get out of confusion.

Answer: When a person is forced to have no way out, first of all, he must be calm and learn to be patient, to endure what ordinary people can't bear, and resolutely can't do things that are out of line at this time, as the saying goes, a misstep becomes a thousand years of hatred, and if you can't bear it at this time, you may hate for a thousand years. Then we must smooth out our thinking, find a way to survive first, have confidence in ourselves, and never abandon our beliefs as a human being, and believe that the light is not far away. The most important thing is to be down-to-earth and move forward step by step.

So not confident, more contact with people, no matter what you have to face bravely, it's just a little physically uncomfortable, don't worry, if you are sick, you have to go to see it, it will be fine if you see it, why are you not like this before, think about it, think about more happy things, don't live in the haze every day, believe in yourself, life is like a white horse, it's just a short moment, if you can't face it happily, what's the use, be optimistic.

Live every day and let yourself be miserable!

Don't be unconfident in yourself, God closes a door for you and will give you a bright window.

Rich men can't do it.

Haha

If you die on the side of the road, no one will care, let alone on the Internet, find relatives and friends.

Just to eat that bit of bank interest to buy instant noodles?

Something's wrong, so urgent.

Face is not worth much to the poor, and when you have money, others will personally give you face.

Premeditated singing: Xu Jiahui.

Why so many excuses.

It makes me feel guilty that I don't love enough.

I've been planning for a long time, but I just want to break up.

Why not get straight to the point.

Since you have to be free.

Retention will also make me aggrieved to the end.

It's been so long.

There is no reason to continue.

He doesn't feel bad anyway, he just needs to be free.

He wouldn't pay any attention to my feelings.

It's better to retreat to the point where there is no way out, so let it go.

I also want to be free.

He doesn't feel bad, he just needs to be free.

He wouldn't pay any attention to my feelings.

It's better to retreat to the point where there is no way out, so let it go.

Why so many excuses.

It makes me feel guilty that I don't love enough.

I've been planning for a long time, but I just want to break up.

Why not get straight to the point.

Since you have to be free.

Retention will also make me aggrieved to the end.

It's been so long.

There is no reason to continue.

He doesn't feel bad anyway, he just needs to be free.

He wouldn't pay any attention to my feelings.

It's better to retreat to the point where there is no way out, so let it go.

I also want to be free.

He doesn't feel bad, he just needs to be free.

He wouldn't pay any attention to my feelings.

It's better to retreat to the point where there is no way out, so let it go.

Since he doesn't feel bad, he just needs to be free.

He wouldn't pay any attention to my feelings.

It's better to retreat to the point where there is no way out, so let it go.

I also want to be free.

He doesn't feel bad, he just needs to be free.

He wouldn't pay any attention to my feelings.

It's better to retreat to the point where there is no way out, so let it go.

No one will pay attention to your online help.

It's useless for you to say here, who dares to believe you, if the situation is true, you can go to the Ministry of Civil Affairs to apply for help.

Give me 100 million and I'll pave the way for you.

Since that woman wants to be with her husband, it means that people are just fun with your husband, and there is no emotional foundation! Your husband also understands very well, so you can be completely decisive and retreat and leave this home, at least superficially!

Let him live without you, and think about who is the best!

Let him also think about what status that woman is!

No matter how you try to protect this home, you still have to straighten your back when it's time to be tough! Your blind tolerance will only become more and more indulgent!!

Just like a child, when he does something wrong, he will peek at the expression of an adult, and when he sees that the expression of an adult is nothing unusual, he will become more and more energetic, and the mistake will become bigger and bigger!!

Think about it! Can you tolerate it and make him feel good?

This has become a fact that cannot be changed, as a woman, if it were me, I would be self-reliant, cherish myself more than before, dress up to the next level than before, impress him, turn his eyes back to you, let him know you again. Don't do the little actions you envision, as he will look down on you more and be more irritable with you.

I'm you who dumped him. This kind of flowery man has no good end.

There is no other way but to divorce, it is the man's fault and not yours.

You also go to find a better boyfriend. But don't take it too seriously, he'll come back to you.

If that's the case, then make it clear to him, and if he's still not good for you, find a way to find that person's husband, tell him about it, and then deal with it depending on the situation!

Treat it calmly. Over time, everything will return to calm.

No one can help you, this is true.

All you have to do now is fight. In fact, it is still difficult to have no experience.

It's all about money, think about how to improve your income, and enhance your work skills to seek development.

Work diligently and be an honest man.