Fate is really hard to find, alas

Facts make people, maybe fate is really something that can be met but not sought, I hope you can grasp your own happiness, maybe some people are right, people may be flowery, but no one wants to admit the facts, I hope you can keep your eternal happiness, work hard!!

I think as long as you love each other, even if you have children, it's okay. If I really love someone, even if he has children and has had a very bad past, I will accept him the same, because I love him now. However, I will be nicer to his child than to my own!

It is necessary to think about who you will be happy with, but also to see the good character of that person, because there may be cracks in the marriage after the union.

Well, that's a question, but you have to think about it, will you still eat from the bowl and look at the pot in the future?

If he has a child, it will be very troublesome, you have to think about it.

I think so... So it should be grasped.

The word fate, bai, originated from Buddhism. For thousands of years, there have been many confusing and inexplicable things about the world.

Internal appearance.

That person just appeared when you wanted love, and there are people who lack love when you want love.

When fate comes, two people will naturally get together, and when fate is over, they will naturally disperse and follow the guidance of fate.

This sentence expresses that there is no stipulation who must love whom, who must love whom, and who must tolerate whom infinitely. Therefore, all emotions must be handed over to fate, and fate determines the reunion and separation of two people.

This kind of fate is a kind of behavioral fit, a kind of ideological attraction, and a kind of spiritual coupling, two people do not force each other, do not change themselves, everything is left to fate, this is also a way of love.

Love pays attention to fate, but sometimes active pursuit is fate:

Fate is not an attitude to life, but the fear of "rejection" in the heart, but a choice after weighing the pros and cons - not choosing is also a choice. Love can analyze a lot of logic, which tells you the probability of winning, tells yourself that the odds of winning are higher, and such people give themselves higher benefits.

But probability needs to work, and that's based on the number of opportunities, on the basis of making choices and making decisions again and again. The reality is that the number of times I meet my heart and love in my life is actually very limited, and I don't let myself experiment with my maximum benefit strategy again and again.

Logically, this is indeed the best strategy that is least likely to regret it. But not everyone gets 10 chances! Some people have exhausted the courage of their lives, and they may only meet so many heartbeats two or three times.

You might as well be bold, love someone, climb a mountain, and chase a dream! Instead, go with the flow!

Fate is divided into three classes, and it is impossible to meet.

Someone explained it in the book like this: Some fates are encounterable but unsought, and they belong to the superior fate; Some fates can be met and sought, and they belong to medium fate; Some fates can be met without asking, and they belong to inferior fate.

The so-called fate is that you meet what you are bound to meet, you meet what you can't escape, and you meet what you are destined to meet.

Fate is deep and shallow, people in life come and go, some just take a picture, some just pass by, and some will never leave you.

1. It refers to any good thing that can only wait, it should be yours as long as you work hard to seize the opportunity to get, and you should not be bored if you can't force it, even if you barely get it, you will eventually lose it.

2. You have to know what fate is, fate is a godsend, and what kind of fate can be encountered in a person's life, such as marriage, wealth, birth, etc. It's yours that can't run, and it's useless to ask grandpa to sue grandma if it's not you.

3. That is to say, if you deliberately look for it, you will not get it, but if you go with the flow, you may encounter it. For example, fate, like looking for books in the library, or shopping for clothes, if you have a certain purpose, saying that you must find one you want today, it is not so easy; And maybe when you are disappointed and want to give up and leave, you suddenly find one that suits you well, even if it is not what you wanted in the first place.

Fate can not be found, this sentence conveys the meaning that fate in life can not be created entirely by subjective efforts or willingness, some fate is predestined, destined, need the cooperation of timing and chance, in order to create unexpected beauty and opportunities.

Fate is a very abstract concept, it is like a mysterious force, unfathomable and elusive. It is all around us anytime and anywhere, it can be meeting a new friend, it can be an encounter with a love, it can be a chance. However, people tend to forcibly seek fate on some important occasions, such as spouses, jobs, friends, etc., but these are not completely controllable.

It's not that we hope that if we meet someone earlier, we will definitely meet them, or that we will be able to succeed if we are ready.

However, "edge" does not mean complete randomness and no factor control. In the eyes of many people, fate is the same state, at the same time and in the same place, similar events will occur. This means that, in addition to the effort, we need to pay more attention to our opportunities and timing, and grasp the opportunities according to them.

Once you have the ability to understand the context and situation of yourself and the things around you, you can look for your own opportunities in it.

Therefore, fate needs to be found and created by wise people. We need to have some ability, find what we like and direction, grasp our own opportunities, and be brave enough to face the challenges and difficulties that come from us. In this way, we can truly grasp the context of fate and obtain a beautiful fate through countless efforts and accidental opportunities.

In short, "fate can be met but not sought" means that fate needs the cooperation of timing and opportunity, and cannot simply rely on auspicious efforts and one's own wishes. We can find the opportunity and perception of fate in the attempt, and bravely face our own choices and wishes when the opportunity and timing are coordinated, so as to create a better future from the opportunity. <>

1. It refers to any good thing that can only wait, it should be yours as long as you seize the opportunity through hard work, and you can't force it if it shouldn't be yours, even if you barely get it, you will eventually lose it.

2. You have to know what fate is, fate is a godsend, and what kind of fate can be encountered in a person's life, such as marriage, wealth, orange leakage, etc. It's yours that can't run, and it's useless to ask grandpa to sue grandma if it's not you.

3. That is to say, if you guess Wu Qiao deliberately looks for it, you can't get it, but if you go with the flow, you may encounter it. For example, fate, it's like looking for books in the library, or shopping for clothes, if you have a certain purpose, saying that you must find a spike key you want today, it's not so easy; And maybe when you are disappointed and want to give up and leave, you suddenly find one that suits you well, even if it is not what you wanted in the first place.