One person scolds the child, should the whole family scold together

What you said is very right, you should not educate together, so you will feel helpless and have no one to rely on, the child's self-esteem will be hurt, and when it is serious, the child will lose confidence in life, he will think: even the closest family members are like this, then others will be worse, and it will also make the child's character become withdrawn, prompting the loss of the pursuit of hope, in fact, normal education should be equal communication between children and parents"Scolding"It is not only unfair but also detrimental to the child's growth. It is easier for children to become strong inferiority, timid, and submissive in the long run, and in the long run, it will also make him unnecessarily sensitive and set up a roadblock for his healthy growth, which is obviously not a good family education.

However, in this case, the mother should not act as a "protector" in front of the child, which is easy to make the child and the in-law hostile, and the habit of relying on the strong, and the other party should be scolded or scolded, and the child will be hurt as well. You can try to communicate with the other party, explain the benefits and disadvantages, and see if you can avoid such a situation in the future. In fact, the child is in the growth of groping everywhere and hitting the wall, it is not normal not to make mistakes, as long as there is no moral principle involved, making mistakes just means that he is inexperienced, and he encounters some trouble in dealing with a certain problem, as long as he helps him and solves his doubts, he will not make it again when he learns the correct method, so how can a lovely child be like a heinous criminal?

You can buy some books to educate your child, and tell your in-laws how to educate your child is beneficial to his healthy growth, they also love their children, as long as they work hard to communicate, they should be able to reach an agreement. Explain to the in-laws that the hiding place is actually enough to make the child realize the mistake (original).

The key is whether the child is wrong, if it is really wrong, everyone's opinions should be consistent, as for whether to scold or beat together, it depends on the specific situation, you can use different ways, but the opinions should be unified.

This is called falling into the well, the wall is falling down and everyone pushes it, do you say it's okay?

Scolding is not right and should be talked to by the child alone. What is scolding? Exercising your parental authority? There's no need to show off in front of your kids! You are bullying the weak with the strong, despising the weak!

It is inherently wrong to scold children in public, and children also have self-esteem, so they should respect it.

Absolutely not, this will be a big blow to a child's self-confidence.

It's not good to do that

Summary. It's not right to hit someone first, let alone hit the wrong person, so you must be calm and find out the reason for it.

It's not right to hit someone first, let alone hit the wrong person, so you must be calm and find out the reason for it.

Do you want to consult how to solve the problem after the beating?

For the person who beats someone, first of all, you must bear the administrative punishment, and secondly, you may have to bear civil liability for compensation according to your injuries; In addition, according to the conclusion of your injuries (if the injury is more than minor), you may be subject to criminal liability.

The specific legal basis is as follows:

1) Article 43 of the "Public Security Administration Punishment Law" Whoever beats another person's blind manuscript or intentionally injures another person's body shall be detained for not less than 5 days but not more than 10 days, and shall also be fined not less than 200 yuan but not more than 500 yuan; where the circumstances are more minor, they are to be detained for up to 5 days or fined up to 500 RMB.

1) Gang up to beat or injure others;

2) Beating or injuring persons with disabilities, pregnant women, persons under the age of 14, or persons over the age of 60;

3) Repeatedly beating or injuring others, or beating or injuring multiple people at a time.

2) Tort Liability Law

Article 3. The infringed party has the right to request the infringer to bear the tort liability.

Article 4. Where the infringer shall bear administrative or criminal responsibility for the same act, it does not affect the tort liability in accordance with law.

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