What do you think about hiding money?

I think that both men and women may have their own private lives, because it is understandable that they don't want to let the other party know that you have some private money because people need privacy space, but there should be no abnormality, and if there is too much private money, it will seriously affect the quality of life of both husband and wife, because once it is discovered, it will cause serious consequences. Or even the breakdown of marriages.

I think it's normal, both men and women have hidden private money, not because they don't trust each other, but sometimes they really can't let the other half know, such as when they buy gifts for each other and give them surprises.

Last month, my husband secretly hid money and I inadvertently found out, but I haven't been mad, he got angry, said I didn't respect him, casually rummaged through his bag, in fact, I just wanted to open it by chance and saw a secret compartment I thought it was a hole in the bag, so I put my hand in to see how deep, who knew that I touched the money. Okay, I ended up paying the money back to him, but I still thought it was funny.

Husbands and wives should trust each other, and our ultimate goal is to hope that the family will have a good life. Normally, I ask my husband to give me a part of the money every month as a common savings for the family, and let my husband dispose of the rest according to his needs, so there is no such thing as private money.

I think it's okay to hide a little bit of private money, don't hide too much, otherwise it will be easy to be discovered.

My husband doesn't like to clean up, he often changes his clothes, wraps or something, and I find private money when I clean up for him. But I didn't say anything, and basically he ended up treating me to dinner and taking the kids to the supermarket.

I simply feel that this kind of behavior is not very respectful to me, shouldn't I be transparent when I get married, what does it mean to secretly save money behind my back, I am already angry, the war has broken out, and I will go to the Civil Affairs Bureau in minutes.

I think everyone has a hobby. It's like women always like to buy things that look good and don't work. As long as it's not too much, two people should accommodate each other.

My family is in charge of their own salaries, and the majority of the breadwinner is my husband, and anyone can pay for the odds and ends of the family. As for the balance of wages, they are all adults, so they are responsible for managing and distributing them themselves.

If it's tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands, it will be angry. Hundreds or thousands of people think it's normal. Purely personal opinion.

I'll ask why, and then I'm not allowed to hide it again. My card and money, whoever wants it to take it, my husband should not have to hide his private money.

When it comes to private money, I don't think it has to be hidden at home.

Legal Analysis] It is not illegal to hide private money, but if it is the salary, bonus, labor remuneration, etc. obtained after marriage, it is unreasonable to hide it as private money, because in this case, private money belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife; Both parties have equal rights to dispose of the joint property of the husband and wife. If one party retains "private money" without the other party's knowledge, it is tantamount to unilaterally exercising the right of disposition, which is illegal in the strict sense. The term "common property" herein includes:

Wages and bonuses, income from production and operation, income from intellectual property rights, property obtained by inheritance or gift, and other property that should be jointly owned, etc. That is to say, both spouses have equal and common rights to possess, use, benefit and dispose of all legal and legitimate income.

Legal basis] Liquid world trouble.

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 1062 The following property acquired by husband and wife during the existence of their marital relationship shall be the joint property of the husband and wife and shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife: (1) wages, bonuses, and remuneration for labor services; (2) Income from production, operation and investment; (3) the proceeds of intellectual property rights; (4) Inheriting or donating property back to the forest, except as provided for in item 3 of Article 1063 of this Law; (5) Other property that shall be jointly owned. Husband and wife have equal rights to dispose of joint property.

Will you keep money for your home after you get married? Tell me the stories around you.

My sister has always had the habit of saving private money, because her husband spends money very lavishly, most of them spend as much as they want, and even swipe the money in the credit card to spend, my sister's monthly salary is more than 6,000, she saves 2,000 in my mother's place, this is her private money, and then for so many years, some private money has been saved, and I asked my mother to bring liquid to help her take it to manage the money, this money is not known to her husband, if it is known, it must be spent again.

My husband's hair is also hiding private money, originally we didn't know, that is, recently my husband has a tight hand, he sent a small to know and took the initiative to lend him money, saying that he has saved private money for so many years, his wife does not know, let my husband rest assured to borrow it, no need to hurry to repay. But I don't agree with my husband to borrow money, although we have a tight hand, but we will not borrow other people's private money, and no matter how good my best friend is, it is still small, once it involves money issues, there will definitely be a small contradiction at that time. My friend lent her best friend private money, and they didn't plan to pay it back if they were sure that it was private money, and they borrowed thousands of dollars for two years, and they never mentioned it if they didn't pay it back, and they felt like they were giving her a defense, and now the relationship between the two people is slowly fading, and it's not as good as before.

My fellow and her husband live on the AA system, so there is no need to save private money, her salary is quite high, and now she has bought a house for rent, and she has a good life.

In fact, if you think about it carefully, now that the standard of living has improved, people's quality has also improved, husband and wife only argue that things should be harmonious and loving, family happiness, whether to hide private money or not is not so serious, sometimes it is good to open one eye and close one eye, after all, a happy, healthy and happy life is what husband and wife desire and pursue together, isn't it?

The existence of private money is to meet the needs of people's sense of security, although money is not the most important thing in a person's life, but it is absolutely impossible to destroy Feng without money. After all, people's basic needs of "food, clothing, housing and transportation" are inseparable from the word money, and having money can really be at ease. Marriage unites two people into a family, but everyone has their own circle of life, and since it is a circle of life, it is inevitable that there will be a place for money.

When the family's finances are concentrated in the hands of a certain person, private money comes into being, after all, no one wants to spend money to ask for instructions and approve. In the unit, in order to be disgraced all day long, and then "bow your head and waist" for money at home, no one is happy. As for why many families tend to concentrate their finances in the hands of one person, rather than two people taking care of themselves?

This is because in many families, women take care of all the living expenses of the family, while men are often not very good at this, and these things are relatively trivial. Biological differences, women may be inherently better suited to manage finances than men, and naturally the financial power is in the hands of women step by step. Of course, this also has something to do with the current social climate.

If it sounds good, it is that men spoil their wives, and if it is not good, it is that men are afraid of their wives. Whether it is pet or afraid, it also shows that the social status and family status of women have been greatly improved. This is a manifestation of social progress, and it is also a good thing.

Women hiding private money will subsidize their parents' family, and men will spend all day and drinking when hiding private money, which is actually a manifestation of the lack of trust between husband and wife for each other.

Although private money is easy to cause quarrels between husband and wife, both wives and husbands are still eager to do so in marriage, all because everyone wants to draw a sense of security in marriage from money: money in hand is the most down-to-earth, and no one who has it is better to have it than themselves.

According to surveys, the reason for quarrels between husband and wife60 is related to money.

After my cousin got married, she took care of the children full-time, and she had to ask her brother-in-law for money for everything. Sometimes my brother-in-law is in a good mood and transfers money without saying a word, but when he is in a bad mood, he will inevitably complain. After hearing her brother-in-law's complaints, her cousin will also feel aggrieved in her heart, and it is inevitable that the two will have dislike after a long time.

Later, my cousin would take a small part of the daily household as her own private money for a roundabout, which not only brought her a sense of security in her marriage, but also reduced the chance of friction between husband and wife because of money. From this point of view, the sale of private money is not completely harmful.

In fact, no matter how intimate the husband and wife are, they are also two independent individuals, and they need to have their own privacy and personal consumption space, which is just like the husband and wife also need their own living space.

Answer: It is not illegal to hide private money, but if it is the salary, bonus, labor remuneration, etc. obtained after marriage, it is unreasonable to hide it as private money, because in this case, private money belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife; Both parties have equal rights to dispose of the joint property held by the husband and wife.

Legal basis: Article 1062 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

The following property acquired by the husband and wife during the marriage relationship shall be the joint property of the husband and wife and shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife:

1) Wages, bonuses, and remuneration for labor services;

(2) Income from production, operation and investment;

(3) the proceeds of intellectual property rights;

4) Inherited or donated property, except as provided for in paragraph 3 of Article 1063 of this Law;

(5) Other property that shall be jointly owned.

Husband and wife have equal rights to dispose of joint property.