In your opinion, what kind of person in society do you least want to be?

I don't feel like being a person who does nothing all day long, knows how to play all day, and at the moment I am the same, I am actively changing myself.

The last thing I want to be is the bottom of society, and I am busy all day long trying to make a living.

Hao Yun's "Alive", this song really sang my heart.

Panicked, hurried, why is life always like this? Could it be that my ideal is to spend my life like this?

I don't want to work hard for the rest of my life just to survive, I want to live for myself one day.

I am most afraid of becoming a useless person in society, feeling that I am worthless, like a clown, and being looked down upon is the biggest blow to myself.

I am most afraid of being a useless person in this society, feeling that I am worthless.

I think that as long as you are engaged in a legitimate profession, you are worthy of respect regardless of whether you are high or low, as long as you obey your heart and live a bright and upright life, you can do it, and you should not be a person who is guided behind people's backs.

When I was a student with nothing, I often said to my friends, "We must not be easily smoothed out and our blood cold." I know that countless people are preaching that after people enter the society, they will become money worshippers, become unidealistic, vulgar, and have wrong views.

But we must stick to our bottom line, defend our principles, be worthy of the teenager in our hearts, and don't become the person we hate the most. "I want to live like a teenager forever, I want to stick to the principles that others don't adhere to, I want to keep the bottom line that others have repeatedly broken, the world is very absurd, there are too many dark sides, I can't turn a blind eye, I want to use my way to protect the place where my heart must not be dirty, once it touches my bottom line, my principles, I will be tougher than you think, and I will never compromise. It has never had anything to do with external factors, only whether you are willing or not, whether you work hard enough, only whether you can stop the destruction of age, whether you will be willing to become the kind of middle-aged person who is extremely vulgar.

I don't want to prove that I'm right at all, everything I do is to become a better version of myself, help more people, change the bad status quo, and become the ideal person in my mind, even if I am middle-aged, I also have a young dragon-slaying heart.

No one is perfect, and nature is still harmful. It is impossible for a person's behavior to satisfy everyone, and it is impossible for a person's merits and demerits to be judged in a completely consistent way in the world. A person's body should have a clear conscience, and don't do everything because of one's own selfish gains!

The last thing I want to be a person who has no achievements and no ideals in society. If a person does not do anything in society and has no ideals, he is equivalent to a dead body that only knows how to eat, so what is the meaning of living in the world like this? If a person does not act and is looked down upon by others when he goes there, he can only bow his head and be a man, do things in a low voice, and do coolies.

If you don't have ideals and goals, you will achieve nothing and you will always be poor.

The last thing I want is to be a person who doesn't do anything in society. Because it feels like they're wasting their time.

What happiness is there for a person who does not want to be greedy and not satisfied with what he has? Although it is now advocated that young people should actively strive to realize their dreams, it is necessary to understand that the content of happiness should be placed in the same position. Don't confuse dreams and desires and strive for them.

The last thing I want to do is to be someone who hurts people, both in reality and in the online world. I hope that I can understand that every stranger should be respected, this is my principle and my cultivation. The most terrifying thing in life is not a mediocre life, it is not only vulgar, but also kitsch, which is the case with many hateful middle-aged men, and I don't allow myself to degenerate into that.

In fact, the kind of people in society pretend to be in other words, but some people are not completely scum, some are really righteous, and they are willing to help with anything, but there are also some people who are seventy dissatisfied, eighty are not excited, and they always know that under normal circumstances, they have come to live and work in peace and contentment, who is going to get some of that to do, people, you have to do things in a down-to-earth manner, and you can live a peaceful and stable life, but don't be a person in society.

I don't want to be a mediocre person, what do people live for, this is the most basic proposition of philosophy. The philosopher Russell once wrote an essay entitled "Why I Was Born", in which he wrote: "The desire for love, the pursuit of knowledge, and the irrepressible sympathy for human suffering are the simple and strong feelings that have dominated me all my life."

You have to do something in life, don't you?

I don't want to be an indifferent person in society. Because there are too many people who are socially indifferent. I hope that through what I do, I can make this society warmer.

I don't want to be the kind of person in society who will do whatever it takes to achieve the end, and I don't think that kind of person will be truly happy.

I don't like to be the one who constantly compromises my work, because then I will become very bottomless and my free time will become very small.

People who litter.

The most common thing to see is garbage littering, basically we can see a lot of people on the street when they eat breakfast, often after eating the plastic bag containing breakfast is thrown away, and then one or two are inconspicuous, once there are more it is very ugly, and there are some people when throwing garbage, always can't throw it in, but also deviate from a long way to throw it over, this behavior feels more than that.

Like some people also throw garbage into the river, many friends live next to the river, and then if there is garbage, they will throw it into the river, their own door is clean, but the garbage will be washed down the river, and then the downstream friends will be miserable, the garbage is gathered near them, for a long time it is stinky, it is really very unpleasant, all day long and live in such an environment, how can the body be good? These reasons are actually caused by the fact that some friends do not pay attention to their own behavior.

As long as we do not violate the law, do not cross the bottom line of morality, and do our own work, we are a useful person to society. No matter what position we are in, what we do is not only to meet our own needs, but also to make our own contribution to society. Migrant workers at construction sites, they may be moving bricks, building walls, and making mud, and what they do is a small thing, but in the big picture, they are building homes for people.

Cleaners, they get up early every day, maybe their work is not very high, the same way, we can also say that their hard work makes the city cleaner and more beautiful, they are all contributing, there are many similar examples, people who are useful to the society do not know the boundaries, regardless of rank, regardless of status, as long as we are not lazy, do their own work, are valuable to people and themselves and to society, that is, useful.

Although the living standards of the current society are not at the same level as those in the seventies and eighties, the gap between the rich and the poor is still very large, and the problems such as difficulty in going to school, seeking medical treatment, living difficulties, and pension difficulties still exist in general, and they urgently need to get help from the society. Isn't charity a good choice at this time? Even if you don't have the money, it's okay to volunteer.

Finally, to be a useful person to the society does not have to be like a great man to make a great contribution to the society, starting from the small things around us, we are the same people who are useful to the society.

One is the one who speaks big.

People who say big things squander the trust of the other person.

Some people may say big things for the sake of interpersonal communication to gain the trust of the other party, but every big word said will have a day when it will be recognized. So in the end, it will only waste the other party's trust in you, make the other party depressed, and lose patience in communication.

The second is the gossip person.

People who listen to gossip will make others bored.

This kind of person is actually those who love to gossip, and it seems that their interpersonal communication is particularly powerful, but in fact, no one will want to really associate with this kind of person. Because I hate this kind of person in my heart, and I am afraid that this kind of person will gossip about himself one day. Therefore, this kind of person is also extremely unpopular in interpersonal communication.

The third is people who often make mistakes.

People who make mistakes often can feel incompetent.

Incompetent people will only be hated by others, which is a natural thing in the workplace. Don't try to explain, and don't try to resist. The best way to do this is to reduce the mistakes you make, not to make mistakes again and again, and maybe to improve how others perceive you.

So in interpersonal communication, if you don't want to be disliked by others, don't make mistakes often.

Fourth, people who love to show off.

People who love to show off will make others feel vulgar.

People who love to show off are people who want to be recognized by others, and there is nothing wrong with such behavior and purpose, but showing off on some occasions without any conditions will make others feel vulgar and boring. Therefore, people who love to show off are also the most hated people in interpersonal communication. If you don't want to be hated, you have to always tell yourself to keep a low profile and don't show off.

Fifth, people without integrity.

People who don't have integrity don't arouse the interest of others.

The reason why others want to associate with you is that your ** arouses the interest of others. Conversely, if you are a person who has no integrity and arouses the interest of others, then there is no interaction between you. This situation is also the dislike of others, unless you can gain the trust of others, you have the possibility of being liked by others.

The last thing I want to do is to be the kind of person in society who values money and ignores people's health and the value of life. Everyone should make an effort and contribution to the society and the collective, otherwise they will feel worthless when they leave this world one day!

The last thing I want to be the kind of person in society who has no ability but still laughs at others, because this kind of person has no positive energy in life, and it will only discourage the enthusiasm of others, which is very disgusting.

The last thing I want is to become an influencer, and although it seems that many of them are more profitable at the moment, I feel that the industry is chaotic and many of them are of low quality.

I think it's those who deceive others and deceive society for their own interests, such people are the most annoying.

People who are clinging to the power and flattering, although this kind of person will be very comfortable in society, but they have no opinions of their own.

The last thing I want is to be the kind of person in society who is lazy and can't achieve anything, because I don't think this kind of person has any meaning in life.

So far, what kind of person do you least like to be in society, I really don't know how to answer this question, or I don't dare to answer, because the person I hate must be a person who has a deep influence on me, a person who is impressed by myself, this is still secondary, what we are most worried about is that after many years, I will become the most hated person now, that is called a failure in life, such examples are not nothing, but many.

There are many people in society that we feel disgusted, such as those who are not trustworthy, those who are treacherous, those who are inconsistent with what they see, those who deceive their superiors and subordinates, those who cross the river and tear down bridges, those who forget their righteousness, those who abandon their children and daughters, those who look for mistresses outside, and those who love to show off and love vanity.

Because I have lived in a poor family since I was a child, I am often snubbed by others, and others look at me coldly, and I really saw the world at a young age, especially the understanding of money.

It's really a square mouth, the tongue is flat, you can say what you want, the same thing, different people have different opinions, such as the children of poor families get married, invite guests to dinner, and give others ** notices, others may ignore it, and complain in their hearts, maybe they think we are urging them to salute, and they still say something unpleasant, and if you are a rich man, or you are an official, your son is going to get married, you tell them, the attitude will be different immediately, all day long, ask this and that, Q: Why aren't you married yet? One by one, they competed for the salute.

In fact, this is the hot and cold state of the world, maybe you hate those who can stammer, hate those who look down on people, why the same thing for the poor and for the rich will be two completely different attitudes, indignant but powerless.

Let's put it this way! Tonight, the family next door to us bought a new car, and it stands to reason that buying a new car is a very common thing in the countryside, but almost all of them went, and when they went, each person had a firecracker, and the cannon alone went off all afternoon, because the family was a big family in the village, and many people were stammered.

There was a big difference in my age from them, and besides, we didn't have much to say to each other, and I usually felt that he looked down on me at all, so I didn't go. It's not that I don't want to go, but I'm afraid that I don't know what to say, and I'm afraid that they will feel unhappy when they go.

In the same way, some people buy a car at home, it is just a firecracker for their own family, a simple thing, and now buying a car in the countryside is to put a piece of furniture for the home, which is a very ordinary and ordinary thing, and there is no need to invite guests to dinner.

I don't know if I will become such a person in the future, I like to be lively, I like vanity, I like to tie people, but to be honest, I hate this kind of person, I hope there will not be this day, I hope I will not become such a person, to be an ordinary and ordinary self.