Two people who should have broken up have moved towards marriage, what will happen to the ending?

Most of the lovers I want to break up with have no feelings, and they may have discovered each other's shortcomings or irreparable conflicts when they were in love. But for some reason they had to get married. Such marriages should not be large.

My neighbor is a city girl, and her husband is a boy from a poor rural family. They were also very sweet when they started to fall in love, but after a long time, they decided to break up because their personalities and living habits did not match. After the breakup, the girl resigned and returned to her hometown, but she found out that she was pregnant with a boy's baby, and she didn't want to marry the boy, so she went to the hospital to think about not having the baby, but because of physical reasons, she could only give birth to the child.

So she married this boy, and the two of them got married because of the child, so there was no wedding. The boy married the girl because of the request of the parents, and the girl had to marry the boy because of the body because of the child. But their marriage was particularly unhappy.

The girl told me that she had also thought about getting along with the boy for the sake of the child and getting rid of the habit that the boy didn't like. Girls don't like to eat noodles, but because boys like her, they follow suit. Girls like to go shopping, but boys think it's too much of a waste of money, so girls stop shopping anymore.

But their marriage is still very depressing, the girl often cries during pregnancy, and she told me more than once that she will divorce after giving birth. I persuaded her that maybe it would be good to have a baby, and that boys would be nice to her when they looked at such a cute doll. But when the child was born, they did not become closer because of the extra baby, but often quarreled because of the child, and they always said to the child, it is all because of you, it is because of you that I let me live such a life.

In the end, in the quarrel, the boy made a vivid hand to the girl, and the girl felt that this kind of life was too hard. In the end, they chose to divorce to end this loveless marriage.

Sometimes some couples are always going to break up for one reason or another, but in the end they are together again, and these reasons for keeping them together are what they hate the most after marriage. For example, the child, when they are in a good mood, they will hold and tease, but once they quarrel, they will become the person they hate the most. Because of this child, they will come together when they have no feelings, just like your parents force you to marry someone, and you will blame your parents when you quarrel.

Two people who have experienced love and feel that they don't want to spend their lives with each other, but they have to be together in the end, will make them feel that they are forced to marry by the other party, and if there is a conflict after marriage, it will strengthen their dislike for this person.

Falling in love is sometimes like a short-term marriage, only the right people will really get married, and the unsuitable people will choose to end the relationship.

Such an ending is destined to be imperfect. Two people who shouldn't be together? But I believe that walking together, this is like two people with different views getting together.

It is difficult for such two people to gain the approval of each other, and there is friction everywhere in the lives of two people. The process is so difficult and cannot be overcome, let alone the result. Such a marriage is destined to be imperfect, and such a marriage is also unstable, and it is easy to divorce because of a trivial matter.

Knowing that this relationship can't last long, the two of them are inherently inappropriate. Don't forcibly twist together, two people's lives can't be run in at all, and after getting married, there will be friction everywhere. <>

In marriage and family, there are often quarrels, occasional fights, and slashing with knives also happening from time to time, so why does this happen? Why quarrel, why get started, why go under the knife? Is there a deep hatred?

In marriage and family, if there is no blood relationship, there is no in-law relationship, there is no hatred. But in practice, all martial arts are often staged. These reasons are nothing more than trivialities.

In the eyes of outsiders, these little things are not worth mentioning. Why can't they be tolerated among those who love each other? Is it because of love?

Or is it because of annoyance?

If it's love, if it's true love, will you do it for the little things? If it is hate, then there is no hate without love. In the final analysis, it is because of love that we get married, start a family, and have a marriage that outsiders envy.

Now we need to discuss a question, why do two people who love each other divorce and break up? Please don't tell me that I broke up and divorced because I loved him or her. The various episodes in the TV series, although they are the best in reality, have exaggerated elements.

In practice, breaking up and divorce are all because of loving him (her), which is difficult to find, at least I have not encountered it in more than ten years of practice.

The reason for a breakup and divorce is that you don't love. Here's why. Sometimes, when two people break up or divorce, they lose.

The recent breakup of Luo Zhixiang and Zhou Yangqing, the divorce of Li Guoqing and Yuyu, and the breakup and divorce are all scandals of Fan Jiang, Dong Huahua, and Zhang Dayi. Each of the above scenarios can go into a long story. Some broke up completely, some divorced in lawsuits, and some remarried.

At the end of the day, it's because of love, or at least the presence of love. If there is no love at all, you sue for divorce. When two people fall in love, they both have love.

When they get married, they don't even get married. After a few years of love, if the love between two people does not exist, they will naturally break up or divorce. So, why does love disappear?

Why does love turn into hate?

It's accumulated over many years. The so-called Rome was not built in a day. The author is not discussing.

I once asked a client, "Why do two people who love each other end up breaking up", and she said "details". She meant that some details of his life were out of place with her. He didn't find them when he was in love, or he wasn't living together at the time.

He didn't know the details. After he actually lived together, he found himself with a lot of details that he couldn't accept. Maybe you can accept big things, but if you live together for a long time, those details will be infinitely magnified and affect the feelings of both parties.

That is, the love of both parties, under the influence of these details, is disappearing day by day, and neither party notices it; Both parties found out, and love was gone.

After falling in love, there will be more or less problems, awkward deadlocks, and no one takes the initiative to break them.

Although they love each other, maybe they don't have the same personalities, maybe they don't trust each other enough honestly and trustingly, maybe it's the opposition of their parents and friends, maybe it's the intervention of a third party that leads to misunderstandings, maybe one party feels that they are not worthy of the other party, can't give each other happiness, and feels that the other party deserves a better person.

may be because the firewood, rice, oil and salt of marriage have worn out the love between the two individuals, and a marriage without love will naturally not last long; It may also be because of the discord in their personalities after marriage, many of the concepts of the two people cannot be reconciled, and over time there will be many contradictions, and it is a matter of time before they break up.

It's not that the two people finally got married, this love is beautiful, these two people finally broke up, and the love they showed in the past was all nonsense - the adult world, like "consequentialism".

Because marriage is no longer a matter of two people, it is more of a matter of two families, in marriage, there are many trivial things, which will test the feelings of two people, if the test can't go on, then in the end it is still a breakup.

Because marriage and falling in love are completely different things, you don't think about so many things when you fall in love, but there will be all kinds of trivial things after getting married.

Because marriage is not the same as love, they can only accept the sweetness in love, and there is no way to accept the hardship in marriage.

Because they are only suitable for falling in love, not for marriage, and after marriage, they have to face a real life, and they are not suitable to be together.

Because when these people are in love, they can only see each other's advantages, and when they enter marriage, they slowly see each other's shortcomings.

Because after entering marriage, two people can't support each other and tolerate each other, and they can't think about problems from each other's point of view, so they can only break up.

Because once you enter the marriage relationship, it is no longer a matter between two people, but a matter of two families, and there is not only love in life, but also a lot of trivial matters such as firewood, rice, oil and salt.

Because in marriage, there will be a lot of trivial things, and if both parties can't solve it, it can only be the end of the breakup.

It may be that the personalities of the two people are not suitable; It may also be that two people deal with problems differently, and there is often friction; Or the two people who want to develop in the future are not together, resulting in a different place, so Tan is bored, so he chooses to break up and make way.

I think it's mainly because the two people found some problems in the process of getting along, and there were some irreversible factors that blinded the high purity, so we must go to a better deal to go long-term.

I think that although Liang Min Tancong personally believed that it was not the sweetness of Qiao Sakura, he finally chose to break up, or because he didn't love enough, most people because they thought more and didn't have the courage.