Is it that when people get old, they will become selfish, confused, verbose, and nagging

After a certain age, people tend to speak repetitively, like to reminisce about the past, and are stubborn. In life, we must learn to tolerate the nagging of the elderly. As the saying goes:

There are many old roots of trees, and there are many old sayings of people. The tree is old and intertwined; People are always rambling and chattering. The old entanglement of the tree is to absorb the essence of the sun and the moon over the years, and experience the baptism of wind, frost, rain and dew, so that it has a deep-rooted posture.

The old tree has many roots, although the appearance is vicissitudes, but it is old and steady, and it can withstand the rain and sun, and can withstand the destruction of the wind. The old saying is the result of life experience, the crystallization of experience, although not every word, but it is a rare experience, but also full of wisdom. The old man's words are often out of concern for the surroundings, care for interpersonal relationships, and peace of mind for the next generation.

This kind of chatter is really the love of the world. From babbling, to toddler, to tiptoeing, which parent doesn't keep chattering back and forth. Every child will always be a child in the hearts of the elderly, even if the young are away from home and the eldest is back, and the sideburns have declined, the first words of the parents must be "Have you eaten enough?"

Children have to leave home, and parents always tell them to "wear more clothes!" Cover yourself with a quilt at night! "It's like caring for a toddler.

No matter how children go, they will always let their parents worry about them. Be kind to the chatter of the elderly. Just as you are kind to the old tree with its tangled roots.

The leafy old trees can shelter you from the wind in winter and cool you in summer. The old man's chatter will always give you that heavy and strong love.

If a person's life is lived very completely, then the trajectory of his intelligence, emotional intelligence, and mind is a parabola, with zero starting point and zero ending point. The older you get, the more severe it gets.

Old, family hearts.

They even treat their friends as if they were their own family.

The older you get, the more you think, the more complex it becomes, and this is a normal psychological manifestation.

Actually, that's a good thing.

This proves that you have transitioned from a time when you were centered on yourself to a time when you were centered on your family.

I'm yearning.

Many people feel that the older the child, the more disobedient, this is because with the accumulation of children's knowledge and rich life experience, they have an ignorant understanding of life, due to the influence of the environment, personal psychological factors, etc., they can not do the things around them every time and therefore feel helpless, a sense of frustration, and then irritability, sentimentality, emotional instability, and even against teachers, parents. In the face of such children, we should not blame the children for all kinds of crimes, and even make some radical behaviors to the children, such as: criticizing him and ridiculing him in front of other children, especially for them to criticize and educate them round after round, which will only make our children more rebellious and difficult to discipline, and a little carelessness will also force the child to the extreme road, which will not only cause permanent psychological damage to the child, but also ruin the child's life.

In fact, children's rebellion is a stage of adolescence, not that children are ignorant and learn badly, as long as we correctly treat the psychological changes of children in special periods, and communicate more with children, and use a rational attitude to tolerate children and accommodate children, you will find that they are just a child who does something wrong. Who can be innocent in life, don't sentence your child to an unforgivable sin because of this.

As a child, once you understand this, you should also think about it for your parents. There is no parent in the world who does not love his children. You have to be considerate of them.

People, especially women, will nag when they reach a certain age. You are her children, and they will worry about it for the rest of their lives. There are some things that don't need to be explained at all.

They'll tell you over and over again. And you, think you're an adult. Parents don't have to worry about it anymore.

Your parents' instructions make you feel redundant. So the contradiction arises. I advise you, learn to tolerate your parents' nagging.

Or what you think is wordy. If you don't like to listen to it, you can pretend to listen carefully. And they did.

There will also be a lot less quarrelling. Why not.

The older I get, the more things I encounter, the more things I do, the more things I worry about, and the more I hesitate to solve problems

I don't have a job every day, and I only think about how my family is doing,。。