What are the people who have worked hard in the big cities for to hold on to until now?

Big cities are tiring, but they are more diverse, and both mainstream and subcultures can find groups. Third- and fourth-tier cities generally find it difficult to accept a lifestyle that deviates from mainstream values, and they are not tolerant enough and have a slightly less ability to adapt to changes, like an elderly person.

I'm in Guangzhou. It's only been two months since I arrived, and I haven't gotten my salary yet. There was a waste in the middle, about a month or more in the choice and trial and error.

Now working in a company as a human resources. The reason for coming to Guangzhou is the same as the atmosphere I feel now. Colleagues are younger, choices are diversified, and bosses are friendly.

Because there are so many things I want to see, I came to Guangzhou. The short-term goal is to stay until 2022, in fact, I didn't think too much about career planning, but I just felt that I needed to collide with some so-called "good" and "advanced" things, and the "self" would be more advanced. After staying in a third-tier city at home, you may feel that life is at an end at a glance, and you may lose the interest and pleasure of talking.

After seeing some better and more powerful people, there will be a lot of changes in vision and mentality, I don't want women's illustrated books, I just want to be a little transparent person who doesn't save money, saves experience.

Nanjing is not a big city, but because the university is here, it naturally stays. Maybe because his grades were not bad, he was unwilling to go home, so he looked for a job in Nanjing. I think that the city is the same as the people are with people, if you match the city, staying there will be as pleasant as getting along with a lover who has the same three views.

On the contrary, if it is just for the name of big city, I don't think it's necessary, I hope everyone will go to a city naturally, after all, there is only one life, and the city determines your partner, work, family, everything is forced to come.

I used to pretend to be a dream. When you're older, it's better to be practical, it's better to see if you can adapt to life in this city, to see what it would be like to live in the city you like, and you can never afford to buy a house. Although it still came back.

But I don't regret it, at least I tried.

In addition to saying that there will be more opportunities to find a job in big cities, what I have experienced the most is that it will be more convenient and faster in terms of transportation, people's livelihood or life, and you can do it as long as you bring your mobile phone when you go out.

The county seat and city in my hometown have their own unique charm, but they have become accustomed to life in the city, the development of their careers, the education of their children, the sound medical system, the convenience of transportation, and so on.

Let's talk about the latest, go back on a blind date for the New Year, my age is not small in my hometown, most of the same age have been married and have children, and after giving birth to a second child, I only have a husband and children in my eyes. When I went back for the New Year, there were introductions, but I was not very satisfied. The introducer hadn't seen me and the man, so he went straight to the point and said it was a lot of nonsense.

Actual real people, really not suitable. I don't feel bad, and I asked my mother the reason with emotion to know, because the excellent boys in my hometown have already married and had children, and the area is narrow and the age is limited, so it will be like this. I can't help but sigh, is my life so limited, and someone has told me that it may be appropriate not to pose directly because of geographical restrictions.

I was sitting on a plane from Chengdu to Beijing, and it was already late at night when the plane was about to land. I leaned my head against the window, and gradually I could see the lights on the land. It's a wonderful sight, like a circuit board spread out, with circuits crisscrossed and connected to light-emitting diodes, resistors, and the like, and occasionally some pearls and gemstones, which are set in a huge black velvet satin, shining with a warm glow that can moisten people's hearts.

I prefer the interesting circuit board in front of me to the sparse and monotonous seashell in the distance. That's why very few of me choose to land on this land instead of fleeing it.

My mother is a Beijing educated youth, and when I was 14 years old, I implemented the policy in Beijing, so I didn't come to Beijing entirely, but returned to Beijing. But that strangeness, the feeling of whether I belong here or not, has always haunted me, and I still don't quite fit into Beijing, and I still have a sense of alienation. When I was a child, I was fostered by my parents in too many relatives' homes, including Tianjin, Changsha, Northeast China, and later back to Beijing, so I didn't feel a sense of belonging, but I didn't know who I was, which was a bad feeling.

There are several reasons why people flock to big cities:

1.More opportunities for career advancement: Large cities often have more quality job opportunities and room for career advancement, which can provide higher incomes and better career prospects. At the same time, large cities concentrate a large number of talents and resources, which also provides more abundant opportunities for career development.

2.More convenient living environment: Large cities have better public service facilities and convenient social resources, such as transportation, medical care, culture, etc., which can provide residents with a more comfortable and convenient living environment.

3.Better cultural and educational conditions: Big cities cover more cultural and educational resources, which can provide more diversified learning and living experiences, and provide a broader space for personal spiritual development.

4.Wider social and networking: Big cities have more social resources and networks, making it easier for people to meet like-minded friends, expand their social circles, and gain access to more resources and opportunities.

In short, although the cost of living in big cities is higher, they can provide more opportunities and resources that can help people improve their living standards and careers, so they attract a large number of well-known pedestrians.

As someone in a small county, I don't have the right feelings, but I can give you some of the feelings that people who live in big cities usually have.

For some, going to live in a big city can bring excitement and interest, as big cities often have more opportunities and diverse cultural activities. They can try a wide variety of cuisines, attend various exhibitions and meetings, and meet all kinds of interesting people, and these experiences can be very exciting and fulfilling.

But for some, going to live in a big city can also come with a lot of challenges and stress. They may feel lost and lonely because in big cities, people often get along with strangers and lack intimate social networks. They may feel nervous and stressed because competition is very high in big cities and everyone is working for their livelihood and success.

Additionally, large cities can bring with them a high cost of living and crowded living conditions, factors that can be frustrating and unsettling. Therefore, going to live in a big city requires full preparation and adaptation, in order to better enjoy the beauty and opportunities of the city.

I've wondered why so many people are willing to flock to the big cities, even though the cost of living here is so high and it's so difficult to save money. But as I spent more and more time in the big city, I began to understand the phenomenon.

First, large cities tend to have a better economic environment and more job opportunities. This means that people can find higher salaries and better career development opportunities in big cities, making it easier to achieve personal goals and financial independence.

In large cities, public services such as education, medical care, and culture are more complete, and the quality of life is higher. This attracts many people to choose to live and work here, even if the cost is high, but for some, the "expensive" is worth it.

Third, big cities also provide more opportunities and resources for investment, entrepreneurship, and networking. These opportunities and resources can help people achieve their goals and dreams faster.

Finally, I think that the reason why people flock to big cities is that big cities represent a kind of "dream". In big cities, you can witness the development of modern architecture, high-tech, and have the opportunity to meet talents from all walks of life. For some, this cosmopolitan lifestyle is a pursuit, a vision and anticipation for the future.

In general, there are many reasons why people flock to big cities, and despite the high cost of living here, big cities also bring more opportunities and resources, as well as a better quality of life. And people continue to flock to big cities, which also makes these cities more prosperous and developed.