Is it going to go on like this, can it go on like this?

Don't you think it's all your mental effect? Since you don't want to lose him, don't blindly blame him, give him confidence, give him confidence that you will be together! Let him have confidence in your future!

Your attitude plays a key role here, take a good grasp of the person who loves you, if he really wants to give up on you, he will not ask to be with you again, and you really have to change your own problems, don't be willful, people's patience is limited, from now on treat him better, tolerant, if he loves you, he must be as good to you as before.

Why do people regret it? (only for love things) is because the other party was good to you at the beginning, but you were noble, ignoring others, thinking that people would always treat you like this, you must know that everyone's patience is limited, once or twice like this, it's okay, but what will people think about it every time? Know that we are human beings, not gods!

So now you have to change yourself first. About your boyfriend, there are only two things to sum up about men, one is family (including love) and the other is money (including career, etc.) You understand him from these two aspects, see if he has a problem in that aspect, and then analyze with him well, let him stand up again, then you must take on the role of "leadership", if neither of you take the initiative, waiting for the other party to take the initiative, and finally break up.

Love is a matter of two people, since they are together, no matter what happens, they must be solved together, and if there are any problems, let each other know and work together!

When it is broken, it is broken! Although you are aware of your previous mistakes, do you think that it is a little late to wake up? Is he still him? Your two mentalities will also lead to a change in him, and it turns out that when you find it too late to cherish...Forget it.

Life is like that, give up.

You're such a kind girl, do you know Big S?

She is not beautiful, and everyone who likes her is very good, but she did not choose Lan Zhenglong, Tsai Tsai ......Instead, I chose Wang Xiaofei, what you need is not marriage, nor pity, nor short-term love, what you need is to "calm down your heart", let me tell you two methods:

1. Live your life quietly and let your feelings gradually turn calm.

If he cares about you, he will realize that you are far away, and he will come back to you;

If he doesn't come back to you, then everything starts anew, and you can go to someone who really values you as a treasure.

A person who doesn't love you doesn't deserve any of your retention.

2. If you really love him deeply, let him go.

Start writing a diary every day, recall your past, write about how much you miss him, send him "good night" every night, only send one, don't fight with him, and let him be in a relaxed and free state.

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For example, parents give money to let their children go to school, not for studying, but for the sake of their children's grades. Parents should buy an appropriate amount of toys to let the withered children play, can improve the child's intelligence, when you treat the child badly, parents feel good? Parents are half the credit for their children's growth.

Some parents should play when their children are on vacation, but parents are forced to take cram schools for their children, and they are tired of talking little, exhausted, and listless. Is that good? It's already time to deprive yourself of the freedom of image quality.

The problem is serious

It's better not to continue. Here's why:

1. Marriage is not just a matter of two people, behind it are two families.

2. There is a big gap between the two families, and there will be great differences in family culture and mode of doing things, and family parenting styles, which will expose Sun Sleepy Mu in the future. This is also the source of the contradiction.

3. The status gap is too big, and the lower party has an inferiority complex in his heart, and it is easy to touch the "self-esteem" in his heart because of trivial things, causing unnecessary contradictions. In addition, the inferiority complex will be very tiring to live.

4. When falling in love, everyone will show "tolerant patience", as well as a beautiful vision, often people will say: we are two "people" remarriage, in fact, we can't get out of the "family influence", admit that the influence is in the **.

5. Of course, just like transnational marriages, there are also good run-ins, and even become "model marriages", I think they are a minority after all. And it takes a lot of effort on both sides.

6. Marriage, the most important thing is to have the same values. Because the conflict of values is at the heart of all conflicts. The cultivation of values mainly comes from parents and the growth environment, and the value conflict of people in different growth environments is more significant.

The above is a personal part of the opinion of the ruler shot.