I cried for a professional psychologist to solve the psychological problems that have plagued me for

Reading the paragraph you added later, I think that it is quite similar to the relationship you are talking about, you don't seem to act - for example, you don't choose who to give points, but leave the decision to someone else, "If someone else agrees, I will choose him"; For example, you won't decide to confess or not to confess yourself, you won't take the initiative to do this, maybe, in your heart, you'd rather give her the decision, rather she take the initiative?

If she's an active girl, maybe you'll be together now.

Your thoughts are normal - you're right, if you don't figure out the situation, just try it, it's really standing and talking without backache, because the chance of rejection exists. No one wants to taste "rejection".

I think it's okay not to try, so you're one of her best friends. You can treasure her in your heart and not forget about her, and at the same time, in terms of relationships, you can also keep a relatively close distance from her, talk to her every week, and know her thoughts and current situation - without having to bear the pressure of confession and love, and the risk of rejection or separation. I think that's really an option.

And, that's how you're currently chosen. Your choice naturally has your reason.

As for whether to go further, confess; Or take a step back and separate, I think, depending on your own thoughts. If it's too stressful, don't force it. Otherwise, if you burden yourself too much, love will become a bad thing.

Your problem doesn't belong to the Department of Psychiatry · It belongs to the normal entanglement of a young person, and many people are often like this... In the reluctance to give up·· Pulling back and forth between asking and not seeking, and putting yourself in a situation where you can't extricate yourself, but this is normal, because there are indeed a lot of uncertain factors... It's like you're worried about the problem · · You said that it will end like this· · If you don't say it, will you just lose the opportunity, as for your own character is not flawed, you will be nervous or something in the case of a lot of people· It's all normal, for your current troubles, I think you'd better be brave, take out a man's daring style, don't blindly dodge ·· I think it's a little bit better, because if you continue like this... I'm causing a serious psychological distortion, and then you're really going to see a psychiatrist, hehe, I don't want to see you, I really hope that one day I'll be unemployed, and I'll only get better if I don't get sick. Come on, the result is often a decision, and as for your worries, I don't think it's necessary, because I'm sure she's not going to say goodbye to you after you confess, so you can do it with confidence

It doesn't matter if you try it or not. In fact, you already have the answer in your heart, it's just that you care too much about her and are afraid of losing her. Love has to be spoken, or there is something you regret.

Maybe she's been waiting for you to confess. Besides, if her relationship breaks down because you confess to her, she will ignore you. Then there's really no need to be friends.

I don't think it's right to love her in the way that you silently give for her, and it doesn't matter if she knows it or not. I think love has to be spoken, even if it doesn't work, there is no regret. At least you tried.

I wish you a speedy way out of the puzzle.

Does she like you or not?

Solved the matter. It's all right, it's important to figure it out right away. What level does she feel about you?

You don't have any psychological problems. Either be brave enough to confess it, or keep her in your heart forever and continue your life. In social life, there are more couples who are separated and scattered, and you like it before and now, what are you afraid of.