Can you be friends with your first love? After 2 months of breakup, I want to care about him a littl

I can understand your feelings, first love is the hardest to forget, but also the most beautiful, and then in my opinion, you still love him very much, you just feel that the two of you are not in harmony, and you proposed to break up, you are too impulsive, you haven't thought about him, what kind of mood he will be, break up, hurt, it is difficult to restore the previous relationship, now you have broken up, this has become a fact, even if you still love him as before, you just keep your love in your heart, and wish him a better life than you. It's okay to send him a message or ** greeting when it's okay during the holidays, and he will know that you still care about him, at least you are happy and happy when you are together, and I hope you can come out of it and find your other feelings. Hope.

I will definitely be able to be friends

Withdrawn people need the care and affection of others.

But don't let him feel like you're pitiful for him.

You have to make him feel that you are loving. That's friendship.

You already know that you can't be together, and you know why.

Then just be friends. Maybe it's more suitable

If you love, love deeply; If you don't love, please be thorough. Don't be ambiguous, I'll look down on you.

Since you have loved, it is impossible to be friends, perhaps, you still love, unless, you have never loved... Can a faded love really turn into friendship???

You can be friends, but, friends, you ask yourself from the bottom of your heart, do you think you can still be the same as before, it's impossible, my situation is the same as yours, I'm full of guilt, my first love, I ruined myself. We need to learn to bless and adapt to life without Him. If it's divided, it's divided, don't think that being a friend gives you an excuse to give him ** text messages often, it will make him feel guilty.

There is no right or wrong in youth, first love, we don't understand love. We hurt them, but we can only make ourselves better, silently bless them to go through this time, we have to really grow up so that we will not be ashamed of each other. Come on, trust you, though I haven't quite come out of it myself.

The more people who care, the more they can't guess, this question is a little tangled, it should be because they don't know what the other party thinks

If he is withdrawn. I guess he still needs your attention

If it doesn't affect each other, it's okay to be friends.

It is difficult to become friends after the first love breaks up, because the feelings of the first love are more unforgettable and unforgettable, and it will be very embarrassing to become friends after the breakup, and in the end it will generally be silently put in the bottom of the heart.

Some breakups can be friends, and there is a high chance of becoming friends during classmates, but generally speaking, they rarely contact again after a breakup, because they will remember the good times at the beginning and then be sad.

After the breakup, whether the first love can become a friend depends on the reason for the two people to break up, if it is a peaceful breakup, it is that the two people are not suitable to be together, but they still feel that they can become friends, of course, they can also become friends, but most of the first love can not become friends.

First love can be friends after a breakup. Two people cannot be lovers and can be friends together. It's normal to respect each other, help each other, and learn about happy things.

You may become friends after your first love breaks up, but of course there is no problem if you want to. The most important thing is whether two people get awkward together. If you don't feel embarrassed, you can be an ordinary friend.

After breaking up with your first love, you can still be good friends. Although two people have no fate, they can come together and become husband and wife. But you can't be enemies who hate each other, so after breaking up, you can still be ordinary friends.

Of course, you can be friends. What's more, the first love is so beautiful, if it is so stiff, then I think this first love is not so beautiful.

Many first lovers will become friends after they break up, just like a person who I had a hard time forgetting before, and then became friends, and the two of them also introduced each other to work.

Under normal circumstances, first love can also become good friends after breaking up, because this relationship will continue forever, and if you can't become lovers, you will become good friends.

First love is beautiful, but most of the first love is immature, so many people can still be friends after a breakup, because the breakup of the first love is generally not very stiff, and it is a peaceful breakup.

It should be impossible, because when two people are together, there is no particularly good result of this kind of relationship, so this kind of relationship as friends must be particularly uncomfortable, so I think it is better not to have this kind of relationship as a friend.

I don't think we can be friends, because there is no need to force feelings at all, only if both parties like each other very much, then we can really be together, so I don't think we can be friends.

Whether the first love can become friends after breaking up depends on the attitude of both parties, if the two people do not have too much harm, then they can still be friends.

It depends on the situation, depending on the situation of the two people after the breakup. If you can still be friendly and can develop into friends, then if the other person is always in your heart, you can't be friends.

Two people who once loved each other are unlikely to become friends after a breakup, because the two of them failed to walk together, and they have regrets in each other's hearts.

It is possible for first love to be friends after a breakup, and this depends on whether there is still a need for contact between you.

I don't think most of them will become friends, because first love is a complex between two people, and two people may become strangers.

Depending on the distance, if the distance is not far or close, it is possible to become friends, but you must grasp the degree.

After the first love broke up, if it was not good to break up peacefully and get along, then it was possible to become friends at this time, and this depends on personal choice!

After the breakup of my first love, I feel that there is still a chance to become friends, because we may be very close in this world. It makes people feel that the world is small, and everyone is busy, maybe they can meet in the same place and say hello.

Some people are good friends with their first love, and some people just spend their lives and don't want to be in contact. I think it's better not to be friends because it will affect our families.

For the first love after the breakup, I think it will be rare to become friends, because they still want to be farther away from each other.

In fact, I think that two people should not be friends anymore after they have broken up, because it is also very awkward to be friends, and there is no relationship between two people, and there will be no such friendship when being friends.

If two people have been in love for a long time and have deep feelings for each other, the breakup at this time will bring great pain to both parties, and it will be difficult to be friends after the breakup.

Of course, I don't approve of treating each other as enemies after a breakup, gritting my teeth, and not sharing the sky! Assuming that the other person is better off than you, will you be jealous? When the other party proudly introduces you to a new friend, even if you pretend not to care on the surface, your heart will have a feeling of overturning the five-flavor bottle, so why bother to ask for hardship.

Assuming that the other party is worse than you, your sympathy will definitely feel sorry for the other party, after all, you have also had a good time, in the face of the former lover, in the face of his (her) frustration, if you can't help but lend your hand, will you gradually fall into the trap of that feeling?

Whether you can be friends after the first love breaks up depends on the wishes of both parties, and you can't force it, but I personally think it's better not to have anything to do with it.

This needs to be decided on a case-by-case basis. Some first loves can become friends after a breakup, but some first loves will die of old age after a breakup.

People who really love themselves can't be good friends anymore. In fact, most of those who are good friends are, not true love.

In fact, I think it's best for first love to become friends after a breakup, because of first love, there were not so many material requirements when Mao Mao understood the period.

By friends we mean those who can also develop love. Or ordinary friends.

If you want to renew your relationship, it depends on each other's mentality and opinion on it. If the other party loves face or is already discouraged, then the future is bleak.

Of course, if you love each other affectionately, it can be said that you will become a lover, and you will eventually become a family. Oh, after a long time, after separation, I will know that after hardships, I cherish it hard-won.

If it's an ordinary friend, of course, it's even better. But I hope the other party can not misunderstand, and you can also explain it clearly.

It's not a problem for the other party to be friends with a little bit of anger, but if the other party breaks up and holds a grudge, I think it's hopeless. The other party will try to embarrass you. I won't be friends with you, or even the light of day. Strangers at the end of the world!

The key to being friends depends on the other party. I have this mentality to prove that I have a non-loving concern or friendship with him!

Different people have different answers, and kind people can be friends.

The two of them have no feelings, and both parties voluntarily separate and become ordinary friends.

A person who has no feelings and is still in love, this is troublesome, if you still love true love, of course you can be friends, if you love yourself more than lovers, it will only hurt the officer.

After the lovers broke up, this friend nodded at most, otherwise they were forced to separate, which was a serious disaster!

No relationship can be friends in the end, unless this relationship is pure friendship, otherwise, no one wants to go back and pick up this thing and say that those who love will never be friends.

No, if you break up, if you don't start a new relationship with each other, then do you have to get back together as friends? If one or both parties have a relationship, then it will make the other half insecure and cause conflicts, and if they are friends and one of them has a new relationship, will the one who does not have it be happy? Wouldn't it make you unhappy, so if you break it, you should clean it up and don't disturb each other, or you should quickly get back together.

Ask yourself about this, but since you asked this question, it means that you still want to continue to be friends with him. There will always be some regrets in life, so it's better to try it boldly, no matter what the result is, at least you won't regret it.

If you still want to get back together, it's still okay to be friends.

broke up, and forgetting about each other is the best choice.

It's a very tangled mentality, and I really can't get rid of it.

I think you approach this in 2 ways:

1. It turns out that the reason for the breakup is unforgivable, then you should be determined and completely cut off contact; (Otherwise, it will be difficult to get rid of that first love feeling, and it will make you waste the best time of your life).

2. It turned out that the breakup was just a momentary moment, and now he wants to renew the old friendship with you, and you also want to get back that relationship, and both parties should enter the love role.

In fact, the strange ** love when you are young is not called love, it is a manifestation of the rapid release of feelings. The feelings that arise after marriage are true love, and you need to love for a lifetime.

He still has you in his heart, and if you like him, you have to seize the opportunity, otherwise you will regret it.

How do you feel right now? He has a girlfriend, but he still talks to you about his guilt and boredom. The weakness of women is that they are easy to fall into the whirlpool of feelings, and they are often very single-minded and can't let go.

If he is really what you want, go for it, if it's just because you're used to being together for a long time and can't forget that past, I think you should slowly let go.

Find an opportunity to talk to the two of them, and it's best to figure out what the two people think. You still care, but what about the other party, if the other party doesn't care anymore, tell him not to bother you anymore and let the past pass. If he cares as much as you do, you don't want to miss it again.

It's not easy to get together, and it's even harder to fall in love.

First of all, realize whether he has changed now, and if it is still the type you like, be brave enough to ask for it.

If you have the ability, the faith, and the love for him, go for it.

You're luckier than I am ... Hehe.

Then be a good friend There's nothing wrong with me My first love is still in constant contact now It's not ambiguous, it's a real friend.

If you want to break it, you must break it completely, otherwise you will be reconciled.

Maybe all you care about is the youthful memories of the past. I don't think it's easy to go back, and it's better to bury that memory in the purest place in the bottom of my heart

Then talk to him, and after a long time, you will forget about it.