I am fifteen years old this year, and what to do when my mother finds out about my toy 5

I don't think you need to be afraid, the reason why your mother didn't mention this to you I think it may be because, on the one hand, your mother wants not to embarrass you, so as not to affect the communication with you in life, and on the other hand, this situation is normal, after all, you are at this age now!

It is true, the age of fifteen is puberty, the stage of great curiosity between the sexes! I think what your mom needs to do is to guide you correctly and communicate with you very sincerely and seriously about these issues, but don't mention anything before! Or you can also open your heart and take the initiative to communicate with your mother, ask your questions and questions, and start from a correct understanding, which is nothing to hide deliberately!

You tell her that playing with toys can improve your intelligence, as long as it doesn't affect your life and learning. In general, your mother understands you.

This is just a very normal phenomenon, because when you reach puberty, you do have some thoughts like this.

The reason why your mother didn't tell you about it was because she wanted to avoid embarrassment. Therefore, in the future, this kind of more private items should be kept by themselves.

Hahaha, similar to my experience, I was sleeping in my mother's arms and said some inexplicable snacks, but my mother understands, after all, who can not be young?

A teenager at this age still has to study hard, don't delay himself, and besides, your mother didn't say anything, but she didn't care about this matter.

Actually, it's nothing, and it doesn't hurt others, and it's normal.

It's normal to have your own toys at the age of fifteen.

Mom acquiesced (private chat) and was fine.

It's okay, your mother can understand, it's not you who use it alone when there are more people using it now.

The necessary skills can be seen, okay?

Then if your mother is relatively old and doesn't know what young people are playing with now, then she probably won't go to see him, thinking it's garbage and throwing it away as garbage. File leakage contains.

You can communicate well with your mother, and then keep praying that I study hard, and you can play with the burying Li toys on Saturday and Sunday, which is okay, your mother will not be an unreasonable person.

I don't know what expensive toys you bought, as for fear of being discovered by your mother.

That must have been your mother who didn't want you to buy it? Since you have bought it, since you have done it, you must have the courage to take responsibility, and if you are wrong, you must have the courage to accept criticism, and I believe that my mother will understand!

I bought a toy without my mother's consent, which shows that this toy is something you like very much. Since my mother found out, she bought the toy without her consent, which shows that this toy is very much liked by you. Since my mother found out, I honestly bought the toy with her without her mother's consent, which shows that this toy is very much liked by you.

Since my mother found out, I honestly bought the toy with her without her mother's consent, which shows that this toy is very much liked by you. Since my mother found out, I will honestly explain it to her, admit my mistakes, and obtain my mother's forgiveness. Be an honest child.

Admit your mistakes and get your mother's forgiveness. Be an honest child. Admit your mistakes and get your mother's forgiveness.

Be an honest child. Talk to her honestly, admit your mistakes, and get your mother's forgiveness. Be an honest child.

It's okay, your mother is someone who has come over and will understand.

You have grown up, just say to your mother openly, you have physical needs, in the case of not finding a girlfriend, just buy toys and use them, and then get rid of the toys when you have a girlfriend, your mother will not only understand you, but also support you, if you can't find a girlfriend for a long time (such as another 3-5 years), then your mother will fulfill you! The son is the mother's heart, which mother doesn't feel sorry for her son.

Since she didn't say anything. Then you can continue.

Since you are afraid of being discovered by your mother, it means that you are not old enough to fall in love, and it also shows that you are a good child who knows right from wrong. The problem of puppy love is not a phenomenon of you alone, it is a social problem, you can talk to your mother in advance, and your mother will understand you, but you must grasp yourself when you fall in love.

Recently, a little boy in Hubei Province was found by his mother for stealing toys, so he took his son to the police station and turned himself in. After understanding the cause and effect of the incident, the police patiently explained that the little boy's behavior was wrong, and led the little boy to visit the police station to educate him ideologically.

Why did this mom go to the police to solve the problem?

Some people may wonder why a child should be taken to the police station to turn himself in if he just stole a toy and it was not worth a few dollars. Is this too much of a show? There is an old Chinese saying that once said:

When I was a child, I stole needles and grew up stealing gold. When the mother found out that her child had an extra toy in her hand, and after questioning, the child said that she was buying it, and obviously found out that the child was lying, so she took her child to the police station to turn himself in, which is very wise. Because in a child's world, often it can't tell what is right and what is wrong.

Faced with the toy he wanted, if his parents did not agree to buy it, if he was not in a hurry to deny it at that time, in his subconscious, he felt that what he wanted could be taken casually in the supermarket. Taking the child to the police station is also a way to tell him about the seriousness of the theft. This is because when children hear their parents' advice, they often do not understand the consequences of what will happen.

But if you take him to the police station, he will clearly understand that stealing is a crime.

What did the police do in the face of this matter?

When the police received the mother's report, he did not despise the incident but patiently explained the seriousness of the theft to the child, and after the ideological education, the child was brought into the interrogation room of the police station and told the child that if the person who made the mistake should sit here, educate the child in the form of the scene, so that the child's memory is more profound and understand the seriousness of theft and deception. Let your child subconsciously know not to make this mistake again. Therefore, the practice of the people's police is also very worthy of everyone's learning.

How a child's worldview is established.

Contemporary parents tend to be confused when it comes to educating their children. When faced with their children's mistakes, some parents often do not pay attention to the ideological education of their children because of their young age. Over time, when the child grows up, his perception of the world has long been fixed, if parents see the child make mistakes when the child is young and do not stop it in time, this will have a great impact on the child's future growth.

Don't think that your child is too young to understand anything, so you laugh at the mistakes your child makes. If the mother only gives verbal education after the child brings the toy home, then the child's subconscious thinks that he is bringing things back in the supermarket. Although it's wrong, the punishment is very light, so the next time he meets someone he likes, he will take it directly....

The child was taken to the police station to surrender after being caught stealing toys by his mother, how did the police educate him?

Once this kind of behavior occurs, if the mother takes it to the police station to turn herself in, first of all, the police must give a strict education and give the child a deep education lesson, so that he will not make greater mistakes in the future.

The police told the little boy not to steal anymore, otherwise he would be arrested and taken to prison, and to listen to his mother well, study hard, study hard, and not make his mother angry.

The police are very patient, tell him stories well, let the children understand the dangers of stealing, tell the children to be a good person, and also have a very gentle attitude to educate.

If we want to make our lives better, we can only live a better life and achieve economic independence, and then everything will be easy to say. In short, come on, I believe that everything will be fine. At present, I have just graduated from college and entered the society for less than a year, I want to buy a house and live alone, I don't want to fall in love and get married, I am already so unbearable, why delay others, but the down payment is hopeless, how can a mother with a strong desire to control allow things to appear out of control, and the road ahead is dark.

My mom is the kind of person with a high sense of morality, and she sits next to her with a serious voice at every turn, saying that you are too selfish, too willful, and too bad (this is when I am not wrong, she thinks I am wrong, for example, when I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, she will say that it is too immoral to abandon the beginning and the end, although it is because the ex-boyfriend said that if he does not graduate with a doctorate, he will not get married, and he will definitely be five years after graduation) Ah, you have to change, I told everyone who said that you are too bad, you have to change it. If I admit it, it will further require me to reflect on what I didn't do well. If I don't admit it, just say that I don't have the spirit of reflection, and she is disappointed in me and wants to cut ties with me.

For a long time, I thought that I really had a problem with my character and morality, after all, apart from being serious about disabling relations with me, it seemed that my parents were very good to me in other ways. The consequence is that I don't want to be in a relationship at all, because I always feel that I am not capable of being a good enough person in a relationship, and even if I enter an intimate relationship, I will generally find someone who treats me very badly, and then try to be good to the other person without self-esteem, in order to prove that I am really not a selfish and willful person who lacks morality and abandons me.

I had a big explosion before the college entrance examination, and she began to be less aggressive with me than before, but she still managed a lot of things. I will never be a mother like her in the future, but I think I will have her shadow in my subconscious, and I will be very annoying when I see a naughty child, and even want to hit him.

I've found that the happiest time I felt "successful" was in college. When I was in college, I didn't have any constraints, and I felt that I was really dazzling at that time, confidently participating in club activities and organizing activities for the class as a class president. I feel really capable.

And when I returned to my birthplace after work, I had a very good relationship with my colleagues and was very happy together. However, Mother is like that shadow that has always existed. I would feel very stressed and tired with her.

I feel like I'm a failure. Everything is bad.

There is an old saying, "Hate iron does not make steel", there should be no parents in the world who do not want their children to become successful, but some parents do not hesitate to use all means in order to make their children successful. Many mothers can be said to have firmly controlled everything about their children in order for their children to develop in the direction they expected, and when their children face this kind of thing, how to get rid of it?

1. Sit down with your mother and talk to your heart.

Nowadays, many children will become more closed and unwilling to communicate with the outside world while being controlled by their parents, which is not advisable. If I don't like the future path that my mother envisioned for me, I will make an appointment with my mother, sit down and calmly tell her what I really think, once not twice, twice not three times, and my parents will always understand. In the movie "Three Fools Making Trouble in Bollywood", the heroine's younger brother was controlled too much by his father, and after fruitless communication, he stopped communicating, and finally the heroine's younger brother committed suicide to get out of control. I have a small hair, her mother is a people's teacher, her mother wants her daughter to be a teacher, but the small does not like it, and after communicating with her mother many times, she also got the support of her mother, and now she will open a clothing store is thriving.

2. Inform your parents in a tactful way.

Assuming that my mother is a very face-loving person, I will use roundabout tactics to complain to her and get understanding. For example, when I was walking with my mother after dinner, I would pretend to inadvertently make up a story about a friend like me to my mother, and tell my mother about the troubles of my "friend" and ask her what to do. Secondly, keeping a diary is also a good choice, and the controlling mother will definitely have itchy hands to look through her diary from time to time.

My mother is also these, my psychology is also like this, now I am much better psychologically out of society, filling my three views, but sometimes when I come home, because my sister's son is also at home, my mother is his grandmother, my sister is very busy is my mother to take care of and educate him, when I am at home, I often see my mother educating her grandson is also educating me when I was a child (control type) I feel so uncomfortable in my heart, I am so conflicted and uncomfortable in my heart There are two voices constantly wandering On the one hand, I secretly dislike my mother in my heart, and even scolded her in my heart, On the other hand, I will think no, no, no, no, I think I love my mother very much. Every time I go home, my psychology is so chaotic, I suppress and contradict each other, and I feel that there are two people arguing in my heart.

The relationship between the parents is very good, but the mother is very strong. I feel like I haven't been able to fully discuss a different point of view with my mother until now. But at least now she is far away, doing a lot of things that she will not approve of, although not to rebel against her, but for the first time I began to really think and analyze problems on my own, and I also realized that I might be making mistakes, and there was still a subtle sense of relief.