In a long distance relationship, she said that she only has responsibility for me...

Updated on psychology 2024-06-13
63 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hmm, this question. My boyfriend and I are also in a different place, to be exact, he is studying outside, and it will take 2 years to come back. So I think I'm more empathetic to the feelings of a girl in a long-distance relationship.

    I trust my boyfriend very much, but sometimes I suddenly feel powerless, insecure, I feel lonely and lonely, this kind of loneliness is not comforted by friends, when I am tired, when I am sad and fragile, when I encounter difficulties and helplessness, some special days, of course I hope that he is by my side, give me comfort, or say nothing, just hug me, when I am sad and want to cry, I also miss his shoulder, because I can't find another person to vent this emotion. But the reality must be accepted, he will ask me if I want to miss him, I say I miss you, can you appear in front of me immediately? He reluctantly said if he had wings.

    So I often restrain myself from trying not to miss and do something else to distract myself, because I know it's not good to miss it. Of course, this does not mean that I will find someone to fill in the blanks, nor does it mean that I will be tempted if someone else chases me. Actually, I understand him very well, and he also has his own helplessness, so I won't blame him.

    But my him will come back eventually, although 2 years is not short, but after all, it is not far away, so although sometimes we will have disputes and conflicts because of some mutual incomprehension, and we are not by each other's side, many problems are not so easy to solve, and it is easier to tie the knot. But we will always encourage each other and encourage ourselves, after all, as long as we persist for 2 years, we can wait for happiness.

    And your situation, I don't know if you have a plan. Do you give her promises, and are you really able to overcome all kinds of practical problems? One of you has to go to the other, because the temporary separation can be overcome, but in the end it has to be two people together.

    Maybe you can't do it now, because of various objective reasons, so do you have a plan? What do you think about your future? Did you tell her this, and did you really take action to work in that direction?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I suggest you should be sensible! Since he likes everyone else! Do you think it's still necessary to go to her?

    Since she doesn't love you anymore! You might as well give both of you freedom! Freedom to love again!

    A lot of things you can't give her! Because you're in a different place! Let's be realistic!

    Break up with her! Don't continue this love that shouldn't continue! Nothing!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think it should be a sense of responsibility to blame, a sense of responsibility, if she wants to be responsible for you, she should be responsible for her feelings. It's cold, maybe like you said, only a sense of responsibility. You've been dating online for so long, what about your topic?

    Maybe a person is trying to find the topic, and the other party will be very cold, which is to find it boring, but you also have to believe in yourself, or you can ask him directly, come on, I bless you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Very sympathetic to you, but it may be the reason for online dating. Not so real. You're attentive, but what about her, do you understand?

    If she really loves you, will she be interested in the man who chases her? There was silence when you asked her. I think you're still a little prepared.

    The summer vacation is still going to pass, at least make everything clear, and don't have regrets. Good luck.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What we lack in a long-distance relationship is security. Women want a lot of care and understanding, but some women are greedy because they are not satisfied.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are so many lovely lovers in this muddy world to give some warmth to the cold people.

    Friends, forget it, clean up your mood, I personally think that you can't keep a lonely woman no.

    It is worth having a man's whole heart.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I met him after New Year's Day. It's all information** Contact now, May Day sent me a letter and a book. Believe in true love! Bless you all!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think she is because of your love for a long time, I feel that I have given up on you and feel that I owe you in my heart, this is the responsibility she said, in fact, it is not necessary for her to do this, it will only make you miserable, I think you should take the initiative to let go, for yourself to no longer be so painful and not so tired.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If he has loved you, it is that she has not woken up. If he didn't love you, that's only the responsibility left.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In that case, let's break up, it's good for everyone.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    She doesn't have much hope for you, after all, a girl's youth is limited, and you are in a long-distance online relationship, no matter how you say it, it's a kind of insecurity.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    She is also psychologically conflicted right now, which shows that you still have a chance, if you love her, then go to her. At this time, it is more appropriate to be closer to the point. Wishing you happiness!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's yours, it's yours, it's useless if it's not your demand. Don't hang yourself on a tree, maybe the person you really love is waiting for you in the next second, don't be sad, if he loves you, he won't betray you. If the only responsibility is for you, then I don't want it.

    You tell me?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    She doesn't belong to you. Perfect others.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The people who love you will not always be very light on you, of course you have to be worthy of love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Dude, hold on, I say it, if you want to get married, don't care about this, no way, in this era, if you want to be unbalanced, you can talk to me privately and give you a good talk.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Isn't it so important? If you care so much, you don't really love her anymore.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you love her, you don't care about these things, your girlfriend is a good girl, give him the best, tell him that you love her and be firm in yourself, and that's enough, hope for happiness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Well, I don't know how to say it, I'll send you a word, I said it to myself. There is no worthiness or unworthiness, only willingness or unwillingness. Hope it helps.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Did you invite him or did he come on his own initiative?

    Law and morality are two different things.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's already good that other women's women come to you, and you still want to rely on it if something happens, so it's not right, conscience.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    She was right. Because such a thing itself is the reason for your work, you are a soldier, and you have been in the military for eight years. You want to go down.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The other party is right, never say bad things about the woman you once loved behind your back.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    When two people are separated, it must be that both parties are responsible, and there is no right or wrong in the relationship, and it is impossible to tell whether it is right or wrong.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Wrong! To be a soldier's wife is to endure loneliness.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    A long-distance relationship is destined to not last long, whether it is physiological or whatever, there is no way to satisfy each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No, you won't be in a relationship, you shouldn't be with her ** ex-girlfriend, stupid man.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Let it be, there are many women.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In my opinion, nothing can be the responsibility of just one person.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You can ask her.

    Do you need to keep it?

    Need a blessing.

    It's the latter that's chic.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The meaning of love is in the past tense.

    Maybe someone else already has something better.

    If you can't stand the test of time and distance, there is no need to entangle it anymore.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There are two things you have to understand about the original meaning of a long-distance relationship, one is that you can't afford to support her, and the other is that her parents don't agree or she herself doesn't agree to go to your city.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Long-distance relationships are dangerous, two people are too far apart after all, and if there is a lack of communication, it will be troublesome. You should go find her to be with her, I wish you happiness!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Lovers separated from each other, it is not easy to get along, it is recommended that you go to her, and being together is the safest way.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    She said that she had loved her, which means that she doesn't love it now. Try to try to redeem it, but it really can't work, you have to know how to let go. When I went to college that year, I was also in a different place with my girlfriend, and in the end, it didn't work out.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Love and freedom are divided into three or seven points, love is only 48 hours, and the rest is trust, responsibility, understanding, tolerance,

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Loved, it means that you don't love it now, and now start to be ordinary friends.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Companionship is the most affectionate confession, you can find a chance to talk about it, you can't be together, what's the difference with ** lover.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Have a good talk with her face-to-face, talk about things, if two people are not willing to break up, be ready to work hard together, if you don't want to, get together and disperse, so that you won't regret it in the future.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Try it out at the end of the place, otherwise there will be regrets.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Then you go straight to her and talk to her.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Long-distance relationships are hard to maintain.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Divide it, or go to her and chase it back.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If you can't do it, divide it and give each other freedom.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Love is sweet, reality is real. If you want to be together and work together as soon as possible, it is easy to have problems when you are separated.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Right. But it seems that he is still quite responsible and cherishes it. Let's end the long-distance relationship early.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Maybe your boyfriend is really responsible.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Since you only have unbearable feelings for your girlfriend, you will clearly tell her that people like you are cruel to two girls, and I advise you to cut through the mess quickly, and don't leave a knot in the heart of your girlfriend in the future.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If you know that the girl next to you is what you think is more suitable, you should tell your girlfriend, otherwise, if you know it from other people's mouths, you won't be able to say it! Besides, I'm also responsible for your girlfriend! Don't let the family waste any more time and feelings on you, so as to start her own new relationship journey!

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Ahh Think about how hard you have caught up with your girlfriend, and she has persevered until now, but you betrayed her and others, and walked the path you and your girlfriend walked from the new woman, I want to ask if you are tired? What if that woman is as tired of you as you are with others?

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Either cut off a third party, or break up a girlfriend, you are doing the biggest harm now.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Sugarcane can't feel sweet at both ends, choose one of the two, I think you should choose your girlfriend, you don't know much about current girls, it's just fresh.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Break up when it's time to break up, and go to Jiuzhou in a hurry. Divide it, if you really love far, you won't like what is close.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Then keep loving and don't hurt the people who love you, or you will regret it.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    If you still have affection for your girlfriend, then you will be separated from the inner girl who is close to you, and it is best not to have a mistress.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    I want to pedal two boats, not good!

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    That's it! Tell her.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Tell her that you owe a lot of money and are on drugs

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Don't hurt the person who loves you, a man, should have some stamina, and if none of this happens, what to do later.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Feelings are something that can't be forced, you should have made it clear to her earlier.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    You give me the buckle **. I'm going to soak her. This is to help you. Don't ask me who I am. Call me Lei Feng.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    It's always unrealistic to be off-site. After all, you don't know what she's doing over there.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    It's all ......That's what you think.

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