What if there are a lot of problems in our long distance relationship?

Love is based on mutual trust, you give her trust, if she trusts her, then nothing can separate you...If you can't trust each other, then I can only tell you "Honey, that's not love"....I can see that you are still young, ** have a successful love...It's better to work hard to improve yourself so that you can find your true love...Of course, men should be generous, even if they can't be together, don't hurt her, and be generous, I wish you happiness!

Feelings are two-sided, not something you can ask for. Your unilateral efforts will only be wishful thinking, and such humble feelings will make you very tired. Also, I want to tell you that the success rate of real online dating is extremely small, and besides, you don't spend many days together every day, and you don't know much about how to deal with people.

My last boyfriend and I were in a long-distance relationship, and we met online, but we were in the same province, and he would come to my city every month for a business trip, or I would go to see him every few weeks, and the reality of distance still separated us. Without my knowledge, he was with a newly transferred female colleague from his unit, and I later learned that it was the daughter of his director, and he was in pain. Separate early, and it will hurt you a lot less.

Falling in love isn't a one-person thing. You love her deeply, and she doesn't accept you, do you think this can be done? You say, "She said I didn't give him more freedom, but she didn't really care." Isn't that clear? It's time to give up, unless you're trying to do miracles.

True love knows no distance

It's good to give up, she doesn't love you again.

This kind of relationship can't last long, it's better to let go sooner, the most important thing is that she doesn't care about you, it proves that she doesn't love you anymore, and this kind of love will embarrass you.

For such a woman, give up decisively.

Just give up. Hesitation is not a man.

Because the biggest obstacle to a long-distance relationship is the lack of effective communication, I feel that I should keep in touch often in order to maintain it.

I think the best way to maintain is to communicate more and communicate more, two people have to share what is happening around them every day, as well as some troubles and happiness in work, and share with each other, two people can have a common language, and there are conflicts to communicate in a timely manner, only in this way can they maintain a period of experience.

It should be maintained together, two people should maintain communication, contact regularly, share their joys, sorrows, and difficulties at work, so that the two people will not be estranged and can be maintained.

1. Crisis of trust:

Long-distance relationships are not around each other, trust crises occur from time to time, tell each other that I am going to sing today, with whom, how many people, what time will I come back today, there will be one after another, especially many, it must be enough to give each other a sense of security, and if you go out, you can also take more ** and send it to him to see.

2. I can't find a topic to chat with:

The contact of long-distance relationships alternates between ** and text messages every day, and the topics of chat are slowly used up after a long time, and I don't know what to say, in fact, you can talk about what happens every day in your daily life, because every day is different, so the things you talk about must be different, and you can also cultivate some new hobbies.

3. There is no time to meet:

Long-distance relationships are also very difficult to meet because of the problem of distance (especially couples who are very far apart), and the time of two people must be arranged, even if they meet, there is not much time, and they have to take a car on the way, etc., but no matter how difficult it is, they must meet and fight more.

4. Will quarrel over some trivial things:

Because the other half is not by his side, all things are taken care of by one person, the pressure of life will become very great, and people are sometimes prone to temper, and they may quarrel inexplicably when they communicate with each other such as ** or texting.

I think a long-distance relationship is easy to cause interruptions, and both parties are also easy to change their minds, if you meet a very credible person, it is easy to change because of the long-term absence from the same time, so the long-distance relationship is not advisable as much as possible. If it's a special love of deep it's okay.

1. There is no common language.

We all know that if two people have been together for a long time, they will have many similarities, they will have a common circle, and they feel that they have the same pace in everything they do. But two people in a different place are rarely able to do things together, and gradually the two people will have their own circles, and the common topics between the two people will gradually decrease, and in the end it will evolve into no common language.

2. There are barriers to communication.

Two people in a long-distance relationship need to communicate more often, but the message can't hear the tone, and ** can't see the expression. Fortunately, now that there is ****, although I can see each other, it is still not as good as being face-to-face by my side. Send a message, you think she's fine, but you don't know that she has been unhappy for a long time, and the long-standing communication barrier slowly arises.

3. Insecurity.

Send you a message, you haven't responded for a long time, she doesn't know where you are or what you're doing. Maybe she just rejected the kindness of someone else's family just now, and at this time, she can't help but think about whether there are similar people around you, and whether you will mix with them, so she won't reply to her messages for a long time, and gradually feel more and more insecure.

4. Far water can't quench near thirst.

It's raining here, I don't have an umbrella with me, and I see that everyone else has someone to deliver an umbrella, but I can only wait under the eaves to continue walking. When I encounter difficulties, I can only overcome them by myself, and all you can give is moral support. Because I am not in one place, many things can only be done by myself, and although the water you have there is sweet, it cannot quench my thirst at this time.

1. Give a sense of security.

However, the most feared thing about long-distance relationships is timeliness, because they can't meet often, whenever they see couples coming and going on the street, their hearts will always be full of envy and loneliness, especially in the dead of night, that loneliness will be infinitely magnified. Especially many girls, born insecure, if in life, there is a third party in the pursuit, when loneliness and care collide, it is easy to break the peace of the long-distance relationship, gradually the contact between you will become less and less, the relationship will become weaker and weaker, and over time it will become two familiar strangers.

2. A sense of festival ritual.

Many girls, in fact, are not obsessed with the distance between two people, but the sense of ceremony! For many people, a sense of ritual is essential in life. The farther away you are, the more you have to celebrate various festivals.

This requires a sense of ritual even more. The day two people met for the first time, the day they held hands for the first time, Valentine's Day, birthday. And so on, all kinds of commemorative days, exchanging gifts, showing that they care about every happy time with her.

Although many times, for men, it is a bit vulgar, and it is a bit of a fuss. However, for women, it is especially useful. Prove that you love her and remember every bit of being with her.

3. Plan for the future.

Don't say that there is nothing to talk about, people who love can actually talk about anything, the past and the future, the world and the north. It is also a very romantic thing for two people to plan together, which means that each other's future has each other. Including when to be in a city, when to meet parents, when to get married, when to have a baby, ......This can not only give the two disadvantages, but also allow the two people to imperceptibly reach confidence and consensus on the future of Lu Xun.

First, the two must trust each other, so that they can survive the long distance. Second, you must meet regularly, and the relationship will be much weaker if you don't see each other for a long time. Third, both sides must have a heart to persevere.