After the breakup, I was very unwilling, and I couldn t swallow this breath

Your heart must be sad, which is understandable, but you have to believe that even if you take revenge, you will not be happy, after all, it has become a fact that he betrayed you, in fact, it is not necessarily a good thing for him to leave you, because he gave you a chance to find someone who truly loves you, love is fulfillment, not to fulfill others, but to fulfill yourself.

mm, don't let yourself leave stains or regrets for this kind of person in the future, take good care of yourself, the real unwillingness is to turn anger into strength and make yourself live a better life! Your happiness is the greatest contempt for him, come on!

Now turn your mind away and go to sports, swimming, participating in activities, making new friends, and soon you will find that this kind of person is not worth mentioning at all, try it.

I think differently from them, I always think that I will do to others as I would do to them. If others are good to me, I will double it. If someone betrays me, I will let him enjoy the price tenfold and hundredfold.

They advise you to give up and relax, but have they ever thought that if this happened to them in a weak country, would they give up so easily? If I were you, I'd snatch that guy back, get rid of him, and tell him that not everyone can just throw it around like garbage! Otherwise, you go to the guy who dumped her ex-girlfriend, and the two of you put on a show in front of them!

Decide what to do! I'm not going to stop there anyway!

Take a look at some bookhandles. That kind of man is clearly a fool. Let him go. You don't pay attention to him when he turns back, there are more good men.

Smile, try not to think about it, don't think about her, hate her, it's not necessary, it's all your own choice, why resent, give up the excellent you are his loss.

Find a dummy and make it the person you want to vent to, vent very hard, or go on a trip.

Hehe, for reference.

Losing someone who doesn't love you is not a loss.

That woman was a lifebuoy! When he's a dog to play.

Wouldn't that be better, when he suffered!

Go with the flow and don't take drastic measures.

Some people know how to keep love fresh, and naturally they always like to be happy; And some people can only let their feelings turn from strong to weak, until they can't feel each other's love and break up.

When the relationship has faded, the path of your emotional communication has been cut off. Maybe you have made a lot of efforts to redeem it, but the other party has always been indifferent, and in the end you can only move yourself but can't get a look back from the other party.

So if you want to save your love after a breakup, what you need to do is actually re-enhance your emotional concentration! Here are 3 tips to help you out.

Complain less about the self-improvement of the old man.

Many times in the later stage of love, the relationship is indifferent or even broke up, in fact, it is because they have relaxed themselves in a stable relationship and slowly lost their attraction to each other.

The other party works hard for a promotion and a raise, but you only think about shopping, watching dramas, playing games, and complaining that he doesn't love you as much as he used to and is willing to spend time with you.

The other party insists on exercising in order to maintain a healthy body, but you are reluctant to sweat a drop of sweat, and you don't forget to comfort yourself "I'm happy and fat in this matter", "I don't eat enough**strength**? ”

It's really not unjust to be broken up in such a situation, and of course there is a chance to redeem it. You need to improve yourself from the inside out, constantly enrich yourself, and let the other person appreciate you again in order to improve your emotional concentration.

2.Learn to de-stress yourself.

Many friends will have a lot of pressure after breaking up, especially when they think of recovery, they feel even more stressed, but this state of full pressure is harmful to your recovery.

On the one hand, the huge pressure may make you choose the wrong way to redeem in a daze, and on the other hand, your pressure will be transmitted to the other party through your interaction with the other party, so that he will be more defensive and worried about your recovery.

So if you want to redeem your love, you have to learn to decompress yourself. As we often say, "the best way to redeem is to forget that you are redeeming", because only then can you and the other person be relaxed and stress-free.

If, in the process of recovery, you feel that you are too stressed, you should stop temporarily and rest appropriately just to go further. Instead of being unable to control your emotions and letting your recovery fall short, give yourself a little time to adjust and keep up the good work.

Only when your state is good, can you positively improve the concentration of your relationship, will it be difficult to win back the other party?

I know that I am unwilling, unwilling to dump you at the potato party, unwilling to pay so much and not get in return, unwilling to be unwilling why my life has not yet begun to meet true love. These will pass with time, one day, there will be such a person waiting for you, one day you will also wake up to the fact that no one is so important except yourself, and living well is the last word of the mountain.

Falling out of love is the most psychologically unbalanced thing, I feel like I have lost so much, why? , generally divided into three stages, 1If you don't believe it, you don't believe that this will happen to you, and you don't believe that he will really break up with you.

2.Indignant, why am I so good to him, I have done so much, he has to do this, I feel that I am the most miserable person in the world. 3.

The depressive phase is the longest, lasting several years and a few months. I don't have the mood to do anything, I have no motivation for anything, I close myself, and I'm immune to feelings and love.

You have to work hard to adjust yourself, first of all, don't lose your self-confidence, you are great, but he is not blessed, try to maintain self-confidence, don't go to him again, the more you find self-confidence, the more you lose, the more uncomfortable you feel. The next thing is to know how to forget, it's best to use the thinking method behind the head, this method was invented when I fell out of love, whenever you think about this relationship, try to make the brain turn around, turn it to the back of the head, put it there and leave it alone, but it will turn back on its own every once in a while to make you think, if you feel that you are still hurt, then turn to the back, until one day you can face it. In the end, it depends on time, time is the best healing medicine, time will take away everything, and one day you will find out what he looks like and you will forget.

I wish you a speedy way out of this relationship.

Remember to tune in on time!

You still haven't let go of this matter from your heart, you can do some things you like to do, such as traveling, what activities to participate in, and then maybe it will get better.

"Happy breakup, I wish you a happy ......"What a familiar song, it accompanies the breakup of lovers. We just met by chance in the sea of people, just a few words of greeting, but we didn't want our lives to be intertwined, maybe right, maybe it should: break up, I wish you happiness, because of love, happy breakup.

No, once the healing period is over, women are easier to let go than men, knowing that they are all feeling worthless for their own efforts, but this shows that he is not worthy of having himself, and it is good to find one that is more worth paying.

Now you are not willing to be reluctant, you will, but you have to be strong to face it, this is the way it is, he let go, so you must also let go, going to him will only make him look down on you, and even disgusted; You don't need to see a psychiatrist, time is the best doctor, it must be painful at first, at this time you need to be comforted by friends, after this extraordinary period, you will feel stupid and worthless now. Come on, the next one must be better.

What you have to face is not your ex-boyfriend, not your current boyfriend, not a psychiatrist, you have to face yourself, why are you unwilling, why are you reluctant, have you thought about it, you are unwilling because of disappointment, unwilling because there is still love, what you have to face now is a choice, it is a choice in your heart, will you get back together with him, or part ways with him, but are you willing to leave now? Really willing?

This is a common problem, why do you think your boyfriend is good? First of all, I've been with him for a long time.,Got used to it.,And after a long time, there's still a feeling for animals.,And people (not to mention sweet words and good memories) Of course, it's more emotional.,In fact, the person who loves you the most.,You can't find it yourself.,Find someone who loves you and make you feel that's enough.,Break up unwillingly.,That's just the seed of the seed that I didn't know.,I'm not willing to win the lottery when I buy a lottery ticket! Hehe, however, you have to know whether he is worth it or not, how do you know if you haven't tried someone else's good?

I think it's because you don't want to give up in your heart, you still have fantasies, you have expectations, you really want to give up.

It's not impossible.

But sometimes, the truth is clear, but I can't accept it in my heart, right?

Hehe, be happy, time will help you.

I'm in a similar situation to you right now.

No, it's just going to be over. In fact, he just has no fate with you, and those who have fate will enter into marriage together. Besides, there are more divorces now, don't be too sad.

Do more other things, divert your attention, although starting a new relationship will help you recover, but don't start blindly, this time is the most irrational, what you want to do is better to think about it for a day or ask a friend before deciding. Cry for 1 week, be sad for 3 months, and come out. I wish you a speedy recovery and a new boyfriend.

It's not worth it for men. Time will make you forget.

No, find a new boyfriend, the old one may not be the best.

Answer good morning dear, then in an unwilling mood, first of all, calm down and ask yourself whether you are just simply unwilling, or because you still care about her after she has a clear understanding of this matter, we can carry out some subsequent ways, such as to recover him to save the relationship, then we can adjust ourselves and start anew, this is okay, the most important thing is what you feel happy.

Can you briefly describe your relationship with the teacher?

The situation between you.

Asked a question and said to her boyfriend that she broke up, she said not to break up, and then he added me twice, but I didn't agree, and then I added that he didn't delete me, and I just sent a recent one, okay, and he replied that it was not good recently, and I said that you don't have to work too hard, and there is no follow-up.

Later, two days later, I sent him a message, I said I got off work, let's talk, I said you really can't see the message I sent, and he didn't reply later, and then I sent him several messages, and he didn't call back, and he didn't answer.

At this time, you can't be entangled, this can't be done.

Be skillful. Ask me what I should do.

How long have you been apart and how long have you been together.

Question: The last time he said he wasn't breaking up, it was just what I thought was a breakup, and he said he was going to come to me, and he added me twice before he said that, and I didn't agree (wait for you to come to me, I'm agreeing with you), and he said yes.

He said he came over for two days but didn't come, and after that we didn't see each other for a month.

I said wait for you to come to me before agreeing to you, and he said yes.

Is there anything sudden, and if not, does the boy come into contact with other girls?

Question: I don't know, the girl shouldn't have it, right? He went back to his hometown some time ago, and it was when we were still together, could it be a blind date in the family?

Has he posted on Moments recently?

Can you tell the teacher about it?

Alas, there is nothing wrong with you

Breaking up and not being able to let go, unwilling is actually a manifestation of being emotionally vulnerable.

From a psychological point of view, this is essentially a kind of mapping of relationships between people.

People connect with each other through interaction and generate emotions. When one day, the relationship breaks down, and the parties need to cut off the connection between the two people, clear the memories between the two people, and dispose of the remaining emotions that have no temperature.

However, there will still be people who are immersed in the past and do not want to turn the old page. Even if the other party has hurt himself, he still lingers on his feelings and feels unwilling and unbalanced.

This kind of unwillingness is very common in relationships, but it is more obvious and intense between couples.

This is due to human nature. People are willing to accept and gain, and are not willing to lose. So when you associate with a person, when he pays a lot for you, he is often more reluctant to end and lose, because subconsciously, the cost of this loss is too high.

This is the root of why I feel unwilling when I lose.

However, in the relationship between the two, the strong person will stop the loss rationally in behavior and psychology, while the weak person will often be unwilling, unable to let go, and difficult to extricate himself.

May all separated couples be able to become a strong person who will continue to move forward in the years and never look back.

They are all broken up and are not reconciled. That's because you care about him too much, no one else in your heart has entered your heart, you love him too much, and you are unwilling.

Unwilling because I didn't meet a better one! Once you have a new one, if you outperform your predecessor, you will naturally put it down!