Hello, my boyfriend s father died, let me go, do I need to give a gift?

Updated on society 2024-06-24
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Your boyfriend's father died, whether you go or not depends on your boyfriend's attitude, it's best not to go, it's still necessary to give a courtesy.

    You and your boyfriend haven't been together for long, you can go, and you have to be courteous, but it's more awkward to go;

    You can also go and explain to your boyfriend that you can send a red envelope to your boyfriend as a gift.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My boyfriend's father passed away, and as a future daughter-in-law, I will definitely go to the funeral, as for whether I can follow the ceremony or not, you and your boyfriend will be a family in the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is best to learn from your boyfriend about the local customs, if there is a custom in the local area, you need to give a ceremony, but if there is no local custom of ceremony, you don't need to give a ceremony.

    When your boyfriend's family dies and you go to the funeral, it means that you have treated each other as a family, and the past gifts will definitely impress your boyfriend's family and give you extra points in your mind. In the future, we can live together and get along amicably.

    When attending a funeral, do not wear colorful clothes, sportswear, casual clothes, and both men and women should choose simple, dark styles such as black, gray, and blue. Ladies should avoid excessive make-up and try to wear plain jewelry.

    When attending a funeral, do not make loud noises, laugh or play. Whether out of curiosity or for other reasons, don't look at the family of the deceased. Don't cry loudly, the funeral should be a calm and solemn final journey for the deceased.

    Funeral is a solemn and serious matter, participate in the funeral, express the remembrance and nostalgia of the deceased, but also remember a lot of particulars, to avoid destroying the funeral atmosphere, disturbing the deceased, affecting the mood of the deceased's family, and their own luck. Every life is great, and it is our attitude to revere life and respect the deceased.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hello, about the death of my boyfriend's father let me go, I don't need to give a gift to the question, I think this is also a situation, first of all, if it is since the boyfriend's father died, I let him go, it means that the boyfriend has already regarded you as a family in his mind, at least it has been with you in the future stable development. Parents and you mean to be a family, so it is the most important thing for you to go, for the case of whether to follow the ceremony, according to the local situation, if there is no local custom of the ceremony, there is no need to follow the ceremony.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Personally, I think it's better not to give a gift, because if you can go, it is the greatest gift to their family, which proves your approval of him, so you just have to go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your boyfriend's father dies and you go to the funeral. I think it should be given with a copy. It's about the same as the average local person.

    Others can go with 200, you can go with 200. Of course, if you have good conditions, you can go with a thousand. If your boyfriend has face in this way, he will be very moved.

    If you go empty-handed, it's a bit worse.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your boyfriend's father died, although you have just been together for a short time, as a girlfriend, you should also go to the funeral, and you can go with some gift money, which represents a kind of respect for your boyfriend's father, so that your boyfriend's good impression of you will also be deepened, and you don't care how much you give the gift, it mainly depends on your heart, so you must go!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, he is your boyfriend's father, and his future father-in-law is also your future father-in-law, how can you say that you don't follow the courtesy, this your parents should be courtesy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You don't have to give a courtesy, the first thing I asked you to go was to treat you as his daughter-in-law, and the family would be courteous, if you were courteous, you would see outside. Second, I asked you to go so that his father would know that his son had a family, so that his father could feel at ease. You just have to go, the man won't let you go, if the family is like this, it's really outside.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personally, I don't think it's needed. Since it is a boyfriend and girlfriend, it will be very likely to become a husband and wife in the future, and the boyfriend's father has passed away, and letting the girlfriend go to participate is a recognition of the girlfriend, and it is also for the family to accept the girlfriend as a future wife.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Etiquette should be a ritual between friends and relatives. And boyfriend and girlfriend are not friends in the general sense, so there is no need or no question of etiquette. The key is to be sure of whether you are certain about the relationship between the two of you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This should go, but you don't have to go with the ceremony, just go to the condolences with your nephews, and ask your boyfriend about the customs.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you have been dating for a long time, and your boyfriend's father has died, you should go, if you have been dating for a short time, you can not go to this matter, it depends on your thoughts, and also communicate with your parents, see what your parents think, so that you can take a mutually acceptable plan to do.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you have been with him for a long time and know his family, it is necessary to go, and as for the ceremony, it should be done by your parents.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Definitely not needed, this is completely unnecessary, you don't just want to go, or you can go and comfort his mother.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because you're with your boyfriend, as long as you attend the funeral as a fiancée, the ceremony will arrive!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Since your boyfriend's father died and your boyfriend invited you to participate, I don't think you have any reason to shirk it, otherwise there may be a gap between you and your boyfriend in the future! As you go, you can just give a little money.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You need to be courteous, you are still in the state of friendship, friends get along, and the number of etiquette cannot be less.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think this is of course the right to go, but in the name of a friend, not in the name of a daughter-in-law, you have to figure this out, if you go, it must be a gift

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since it is a boyfriend, his father should be honored when he dies, which is also a matter of etiquette. Hope mine can help you!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    That boyfriend's father passed away, and he let you pass, and he already treated you as his own. So it's better to give a gift.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since you were allowed to go, then go for it! It's okay to do it with or without a gift.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is no result, it stands to reason that you don't need to be courteous, and you don't have to go, but you can be a friend, since you go, how much does it mean.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In fact, there is no need to follow the ceremony, although I am not married, but I am still a family...

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Your boyfriend's father has passed away, you must go over, mourn it, and you must have a water ceremony.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can choose to go with it, but your boyfriend's father, then I think you can go for it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then it's better to go with some gifts, after all, you haven't been through the door yet, it's just his girlfriend.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Are you sure of the relationship? Is it engagement? If you don't have it, don't go, if you can't do it, just give it a salute, just treat it as a friend.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's up to everyone, if you think the boy is good, it's okay to participate, the boy will inform his girlfriend, friends and relatives out of politeness.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You two must be in a relationship, so you should take a courtesy and go.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    As a colleague, you should show your condolences and concern to your colleagues, not gifts. In such situations, you can express your sympathy and condolences through words or actions, such as giving hugs, writing condolence letters, or sending messages of condolence.

    If you're looking to raise money or provide other forms of help for a coworker's father, you can discuss this possibility with your colleague and determine what works best for your colleague and their family.

    Remember, in this situation, the most important thing is to show your sympathy and concern, not to think about whether or not to be courteous.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If the woman thinks that she is considered to be the man's family, that is, she is determined to marry the man, and she must follow the gift. And the two are boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, and the man told the woman about it, from the way of doing things, you should also follow the courtesy, but you must discuss with the man in advance, if the man does not want you to follow the courtesy, you don't have to insist on the courtesy, after all, the two of you are only boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, this matter should be the man's family matter, you are still an outsider.

    Legal basis: Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China

    Article 8 A man and a woman who are required to get married must register their marriage in person at the marriage registration office. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. Obtaining a marriage certificate establishes the relationship between husband and wife. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

    Article 9 After the marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family according to the agreement between the man and the woman.

    Article 10 A marriage shall be null and void under any of the following circumstances:

    1) bigamy;

    2) There is a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

    3) Suffering from a disease that is medically deemed unsuitable for marriage before marriage, and has not yet been married after marriage;

    4) Those who have not reached the legal age for marriage.

    Article 11: Where a marriage is entered into due to coercion, the coerced party may request the marriage registration authority or the people's court to revoke the marriage. A request by the coerced party to annul the marriage shall be submitted within one year from the date of registration of the marriage. Where a party whose personal liberty has been unlawfully restricted requests the annulment of marriage, it shall be submitted within one year from the date on which personal liberty is restored.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    My friend's father died, you should be a gift, but how much you need to follow, it depends on how you have a relationship, your own income, and the local customs, etc., to follow the local customs, if you are a salaryman and a rich person who does business is different, the rich will be generous, the salary of the working-class person is relatively fixed, so according to the situation.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hello, I am Mr. Yang Yang, I am very happy to serve you, for the situation you described, first of all, the teacher can see that you and your friends must have a good relationship, then, for his father died, we can say to him like this: mourning and change, people eat grains, birth, old age, sickness and death will be experienced by us, maybe my father's sudden departure, so that you can't accept it, but I hope you can come out quickly, don't be too sad, I believe that my father will not see you so sad and sad, In the future, if there is anything we can do to help each other, and where I am needed, I can be on call and mourn and change.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The gift of a friend's father should be decided according to his own circumstances and local customs. Here are some references:

    1.If the local custom is that a gift is necessary on the death of a friend's father, then the amount of the gift can be determined according to the closeness of the relationship with the friend and one's own financial situation.

    2.If your friend's family is in financial difficulty, you can increase the amount of gifts appropriately to help your friend tide over the difficulties.

    3.If your financial situation is relatively tight, you can also appropriately reduce the amount of gifts and express your heart.

    4.When following the ceremony, you should pay attention to etiquette, respect the feelings of your friends, and do not show off your wealth too much or show off.

    5.If you are unsure about the amount of the gift, you can consult with local elders or relatives and friends to understand the local customs and standards.

    In conclusion, a gift on the death of a friend's father is a way to express condolences and support, but the exact amount should be determined according to one's own circumstances and local customs.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The friend's father passed away, depending on his own situation, and the relationship between friends to what extent, there is a relationship between friends is very iron and there is a general relationship, if the relationship is very good, even if their economy will generally follow the gift of a thousand, if the relationship is average, with a two hundred or three hundred is not impossible, you can also, depending on your own economic conditions, with how much, do not compare with others, the mind is on it, it is impossible to slap a swollen face and become fat.

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