Why do children get bored with school?

There are four reasons why children are tired of school, parents must see.

Why do children hate learning?

The biggest reason is that parents put too much pressure on their children, expectations are too high, children will be bored with learning, the best way is to lower the expectations of children, to the child's happiness as the starting point, if you don't learn well, you can still go to Lanxiang, and you can't starve to death if you learn a skill.

There can be many reasons why a child may be bored with school, but here are some of the most common ones:

1.The learning content is too monotonous or too difficult, causing the child to feel bored or unable to understand.

2.Excessive learning pressure, including pressure from parents, teachers, classmates, etc., makes children feel frustrated and helpless.

3.Poor learning environment, such as noisy classrooms, crowded desks, etc., can affect children's learning effectiveness and interests.

4.With improper learning methods, children may not find their own learning styles and methods, leading to inefficiency and frustration.

5.Problems in the family environment, such as family conflicts, divorce of parents, etc., can affect children's emotions and interest in learning.

6.Physical health problems such as lack of sleep, malnutrition, etc., can also affect a child's learning status.

For these reasons, parents and teachers can take steps to help their children feel bored with school. For example, it provides interesting and age-appropriate learning content, reduces children's learning pressure, creates a good learning environment, and guides children on the correct way to learn the missing tracks. At the same time, parents and teachers should also pay attention to their children's emotional and physical health conditions, identify problems in time, and give care and support.

1. Self-denial.

Children are repeatedly tested in learning or lack of self-confidence, often veto themselves, especially when the grades do not reach the height they want, they will be overly anxious and produce the psychology that learning is useless, and no matter how much they learn, they will not be able to achieve the goal, and they will also be bored with learning.

2. Family education.

The adverse effects of the family environment can also lead to the sudden appearance of boredom in children, such as too strict family education, too high expectations of parents, and often making children feel in an overly oppressive environment.

What should parents do if their children are bored with school?

1. Help to face difficulties positively.

Most children hate learning because they feel it is difficult to learn and want to avoid it. Parents can help their children face difficulties together, give them some difficult tests in life, let them experience the psychology of overcoming difficulties, and make them have the courage and confidence to overcome difficulties in learning.

2. Conduct imagination training.

Imagination training also has the effect of improving children's boredom in school, allowing children to imagine the picture of learning in a relaxed environment, and when the boredom of learning appears, they can feel that learning is a happy thing through imagination, and move the imaginary ease to the real society, and they will face the difficulties of learning with a relaxed feeling.

3. Don't put too much pressure on your child.

Excessive pressure is also one of the reasons for children's boredom in school, especially if parents are too anxious, interfere too much in learning, and scold or beat if they do not meet the standards, which will make children unwilling to face and appear bored with school. Therefore, try to accept your child, don't put too much pressure on them, and comfort them with hugs when they fail to pass the exam, which will be more effective than blaming them.

Normally, compared to us, we don't like to go to work, repeating one thing day after day year after year, it's hard to say that they will be interested, only if they understand that learning is necessary and will bring them what they are interested in, their attitude will change.

There are many psychological factors that cause children to be tired of school, among which there are three main points: the first is the pressure from parents, schools, and society, which makes them tired and lose interest. The second is that their self-efficacy and sense of accomplishment are low due to unsatisfactory academic performance, so they lose interest and motivation in learning, resulting in boredom in learning.

Third, because today's children have a relatively superior life, and because they are young, have no experience, and can't find the meaning of learning, they lack motivation.

If your child is bored with school, it means that he does not have a sense of accomplishment in his studies, so he does not want to study.

A good child is always someone else's child.

The vast majority of parents dislike their children's academic performance is not good enough, and they are unable to face up to their children's abilities. When a child fails to do well in the exam, whether he should be calm and encourage or scold, should be explored with the different personalities of each child.

Children who are bored with school are often not interested in learning, and their parents' expectations are too high to put pressure on their children, and they do not have good habits in learning.

The specific solutions are as follows: 1. Parents should communicate and communicate with their children in a timely manner, analyze the reasons for school boredom, and jointly find solutions; 2. Teachers should overcome the tendency of one-sided pursuit of higher education rates, establish a harmonious teacher-student relationship, and jointly complete learning tasks; 3. Do a good job of psychological guidance, and consult a psychologist if necessary.

A teacher of general education at Beijing New Oriental Primary School suggested that if parents just want their children to learn, parents are watching TV and playing with mobile phones. In such an environment, what can we expect children to love learning?

1.The curriculum is stressful, and as the society becomes more and more "involuted", the pressure on students is also increasing, and there are often situations that are forced out of breath by the school and parents.

2.Psychological problems, many students will be unable to regulate their own psychology during adolescence and cannot find a way to confide, which will lead to their own psychological problems.

3. Learning difficulties.

Learning is a stressful way for children, so they exhibit behaviours that can lead to learning difficulties.

4. Teenagers who are bored with school have a feeling of boredom due to learning difficulties or failures in order to escape the pressure of learning, thus producing a feeling of boredom with school.

Children's boredom is affected by a variety of factors, for example, sometimes the performance of learning is not satisfactory, and Li Cha can't work hard. He will lose his confidence and become disgusted with school. In addition, the surrounding environment also has a great influence, such as the relationship with classmates and teachers, which makes him want to escape from this environment and not want to go to school.

1. The child's original academic performance was actually good, but suddenly his grades dropped sharply; often find excuses to skip school and not go to school, or even serious enough to want to drop out of school;

2. Coping with studying, not writing homework, taking learning as a painful thing, and going to tutorial classes before will not help;

3. You have to do whatever you want, without any moderation, rebellious and disobedient to discipline, often working against your parents, and running away from home because of your temper;

4. Children are obsessed with mobile phones, addicted to online games, and are nauseous, dizzy, grumpy and even hysterical at the mention of learning;

Especially during the holidays, the addiction to mobile games is more serious, and I don't write homework or study!

1. Environmental factors and family factors.

2. Mental factors.

3. Physiological factors.

4. Poor academic basis.

In fact, there are many manifestations of children's boredom in school, and parents must not think that only when their children drop out of school can they be regarded as boredom with school:

1. Mild aversion to learning: mainly manifested as disliking learning, resistance to learning, lack of concentration in class, not completing homework after class, copying homework or coping with homework, etc., mild aversion to learning, mainly manifested in ideological resistance.

2. Moderate boredom with school: the ideological resistance, put into action, do not listen to classes, often appear late or even absent from class and other disciplinary violations, interpersonal relationship problems will also arise, no longer respect teachers, unite classmates and other good students.

3. Highly disgusted with school: there are thoughts and actions, develop psychological problems, are full of fear of learning, are psychologically inferior, do not want to go back to school, dare not face teachers and classmates, such students often suspend or drop out.

Although there are differences in the performance of different types of students, they will have a great impact on the grades.

Different theoretical systems will give different explanations for why children are bored with school, but in my personal experience, they can be summarized as follows:

1. Academic help: learning is a difficult thing to achieve a sense of achievement, if there are 1000 students in a grade, and less than 10% of the students can really experience a sense of achievement in learningIf a student not only does not experience a sense of accomplishment, but experiences a lot of frustration, then school boredom has occurred.

2. Reduce harm: Some students will be hurt by classmates and teachers intentionally or unintentionally, such as criticism, accusations, insults, etc.

3. Learned helplessness: If a student encounters difficulties for a long time but does not receive help from teachers and parents, it will lead to learned helplessness and thus produce boredom with learning.

4. Desire for attention: Because the general environment, teachers, and parents are all heroes based on success or failure, it is difficult for children to use "success" to win attention under normal circumstances, so they can only win attention by creating "failure".

5. Scapegoat for family problems: Some children's school boredom has nothing to do with the children themselves, but the conflicts between husband and wife that affect the children.

6. Post-traumatic sequelae: encountering major events that leave trauma in the heart.

Children are minors, whether they are physically or psychologically, are out of a state of immaturity, and sometimes they are also limited by their ability to express, when they have confusion or contradictions in their hearts, they often use an obscure means to express with parents, and at this time, parents tend to ignore, in fact, this is indeed a distress signal for children.

The first is that when children are bored with school, there are certain psychological problems. I remember when my child went to kindergarten when he was a child, he used to be quite willing to go to kindergarten, and suddenly one day he told me that my mother, I don't want to go to kindergarten, and I didn't ask what was going on? I felt that she didn't want to go, and told her that her mother still had to go to work, and if you didn't go to kindergarten, her mother couldn't go to work, and she would play with you on Saturdays and Sundays.

Later, I found out that he was bullied by a child at school, so he had a fear and didn't want to go to kindergarten.

Second, if the child stays alone in the house after returning home, unwilling to talk or eat, this is also a distress signal to the parents, indicating that he has his own heart. At this time, parents should take the initiative to communicate with their children calmly, just like friends. Ask your child why you are willing to tell the truth if the parent is really concerned about it.

On the contrary, if parents use simple and brutal methods, children are reluctant to communicate with their parents and take everything on their own.

The third is that I hate my teacher very much. This can also lead to psychological problems in the child. The child of one of my relatives has always had a very good academic performance, but then he changed the class teacher, he disliked this class teacher very much, and the way the class teacher spoke made him unacceptable, since then he was tired of studying, and when there was a class teacher in class, he avoided and found all kinds of excuses not to go to class.

As a result, academic performance has been declining. The parents did a lot of work, but to no avail, and then they returned to normal after changing the class teacher, and their academic performance also went up.

Therefore, as a parent, you must be a careful person, what abnormal words and deeds the child has, you should pay attention to observation, and at the same time communicate with the child more, and be friends with the child, so that the child is willing to talk to the parents about what he has in his heart, and he is willing to ask the parents for help if there are any psychological problems that cannot be solved, which will help the healthy growth of the child.